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Will money doom earth?

2008-06-13T07:24:00.002-04:00

Will Money Doom Earth?

I want to apologize for not being on top of my blogging game as of late. I have been quite distracted lately. I have found a good job opportunity that I am on hold for now, awaiting my fate to see if they will let me continue or not. Like any other problem with me getting better full time work, I am once again awaiting the permission basis of others to let me earn more money.

Therefore I have been nothing but an emotional tailspin mentality for the past week as I seem to also not be having a lot of success getting my friends attention to see what this is all about. Having to do what I have to do, which was show them what my criminal charge was, my own statement letter and a character letter from a friend, I now await to see if they will allow me to continue. My friend did send me a good character letter. There are still a lot of elements that I am that are true blessings in my life.

I am damned if money won’t stop overshadowing my good nature. I also know fairly factually that money is also the root of evil killing our modern society. High gas prices, debts going up, poor housing market, everything going up but the paychecks of the hard workers in life.

Money sure love putting is suffocating choke hold on me. I am sure the greed of this planet is over sighting the fact that their own greed and refusal to let earning a living remain true will destroy this planet. Natural disasters, personal crimes growing, people now stealing gas, stealing identity, and just watching this number, that number we call money, now attack humanity’s means to just survive.

It is so easy to sit in your own little protective bubble and down talk anyone who cannot or is not doing the same. Just wait until that bubble gets burst, which I am sure would be illegally done and eventually nothing that can be justified by that. Now hearing sayings like, “you should have thought about that before you decided to not share wealth and be productive for everyone’s sake.” Oppression is oppression. It really does not matter if we oppress with someone’s skin color, someone’s race, religion choice, sexual preference, sexual levels, age, etc. It all becomes the exact same thing and the ongoing repeated history of our country.

My real question become, will we make the changes that have to happen in a time of peace? Or do we always need something highly disastrous, as in September 11, 2001, to wake up once again that our country as a whole isn’t always all that. Thus why do we need to witness a catastrophe before we ever learn anything and what our mistakes are in life?

I get a little tired of humbling myself. I am just exhausted from having some of the ugliest thoughts run through my head. Just never finding the way to be in full control of my own life and destiny and always relying on what seems to be now the unreliable to help me out on anything that I must do for myself.

I have no clue how to remove myself from this corner I am now backed into if I cannot continue with this business. I’ll still promote them. Let people know about prepaid legal solutions and identity theft shield, just direct them to people who were good to me in letting me the option to join this band wagon.

I’m just tired of never seeing anyone care about my very own needs in life. I pour out my heart and soul to make life better. To be the best person who I can ever be. I’ve put a bad element of my life behind me but seem to be the only one who sees it this way. I turn to anyone and anything to guidance and assistance and feel like I talk to walls. For having a lot of modern ways to communicate, they sure know how to be quiet.

Where my heart feels the heaviest is simply this. I already made the conscious decision on how to be. I know where I want my personality, my nature and demeanor, to remain. I fight to always be that good person now. Following the law, wanting to help others in need to get them over their own problems in life. To always go out of my way for others. And this decision for myself is but one very alone decision made. I have no clue if my love for life is being reciprocated. I hurt when a good lady friend of mine isn’t making that initial contact to me, hoping she will know to join me at a party I’ve invited her out to, one she definitely wants to join up with me at. I am in pain knowing that if I cannot be allowed to do this work for prepaid legal, I am officially told one no way too many, now officially knowing that no one want me to ever earn the money I need to be earning. That this will force me to now severe my social life, costing money I cannot afford to spend, just to be out with friends. While that much closer to just preferring to be dead, than trying to fight this lie of a life, seeing how I have no one, and nothing, to show for my hard work and efforts of making my life better, but way too many hang in there’s and good luck wishes when I really need results.

I don’t deserve to have to think like that. It is one thing to do what must be done, but this is something absurd and should never have to be the case. I made and oath to my friends to always be that good guy, that sweet heart of a man, that scholar and gentleman, to watch it be destroyed because too many people out there won’t assist me in earning a living in this modern society.

My problems are still nothing comparing it to other people. I still realize this as well. But this is my problem and boundary to overcome. Can I give anyone an honest answer why money has to plague my life (let alone the lives of hundreds and thousands of people). Probably not and never. Can I ever give anyone an honest answer why I see human sexuality in the lime lights that I am seeing it? While blogging away to help educate how to help end sex offense, I’ll never know the full truth on this either. There is no question in my mind someone has used human sexuality as a weapon against humanity itself. Sure I can regret having the crime in my past at all. I can regret how people must blindly view sex in society and in this world. I can never regret the growth and learning process that I did get from the experience in my life. That no one will ever seem to care about due to being too blinded by hatred and stereotypes.

Hate is your actual weapon of mass destruction. Oh, mass destruction isn’t always bang, game over for everyone. Hate has been my giver psychological scar since the day I was born. I’m tired of letting hate destroy me. I am tired of being in fear of doing too much alone. I am tired of not seeing the cooperation I need to know for a fact I can do what I am meant to be doing. I am just damned in being alone. Very little to turn towards, not having my good life shared, and feeling that my good spirit is just being wasted, by the constant overshadowing of negative evil that plagues every single person constantly.

Pray for me that this job will let me do what I need to do. It will be the first step of me always remaining in the right direction. The director who is helping me in this new business did send me a very nice video link, about 3 minutes in length or so, which I will share with you all as well. http://www.simpletruths.tv/movies.php?movie=MYBB

I am not giving up hope. I just need some assistance to keep me that way. I mean too much to other people to let myself be a victim to money. I am also very not alone in this either. I pray to anyone else out there who also suffers from constantly seeing every possible want, need, and desire always seeming to be never answered in their own lives.

Life has proven to be dangerously unbalanced. If everyone’s money issues (too much and not enough) does not regain the control it should have, then we will be witnessing money be the death of earth. Which I then only ask this question?

Is your attitude with a number really worth the existence of the only place you have no choice but to live on?

May we all find the answers we seek, the prayers we need answered, and the blessings remain forever with us to take us to that next level in life where we all deserve to be.

Be good, be strong, and be safe. Peace.

Era of Ill Behavior: Identity Theft Special.

2008-05-23T07:37:00.001-04:00

Era of Ill Behaviors: Identity Theft Special.

Probably a part one blog as well. I’m looking into establishing myself to assist people having a plan to protect themselves from if and when identity theft occurs to them. I sat in a meeting and heard some very disturbing stories. Rather this venue will pan out for me in making money revenue, not sure as of yet. (I got to wait until payday to start up to be honest.) But just like my desire to end the nonsense involved with human sexuality, this crap going on that destroys lives also has to stop.

I’ll help detail people how to be involved once I am established. This is all dedicated to assisting keeping yourself, you.

One thing about identity theft is you cannot prevent it from happening. The system I am becoming apart of will give me, you and everyone a game plan for if and when it does happen to you. I do know that identity theft happens on the average of once every minute and 12 seconds on average. That is how rapid and fast it occurs. But here are a couple of heard stories that convinces me that actions that will assist do need to happen.

The top story heard is knowing a woman has difficulty buying a new home up where I live because there is a fore closed home in Florida in her name. She herself never lived in Florida. This is an act of identity theft. She could not buy her home due to this problem.

You could be driving home from a wedding, three in the morning, pulled over by an officer for whatever reason, and there could be a warrant for your arrest in a different state, you probably never went into, for some crime someone else committed in your identity. Most likely some act of theft, unpaid bills, some credit information, etc.

Now, while I am not aware of any actual stories of such, it would not surprise me one bit that your identity could be used or stolen to even buy illegal products or services. From prostitution and illegal pornography to probably hiring someone to kill someone else. This kind of information on your own record done by someone else could devastate you, your immediate family, and your whole entire life. Granted the legal system is capable of knowing if you are the actual culprit or not, in id theft style cases, you will end up not. Still, you will go through such hell just getting to that point, and that alone will destroy people.

People are in business to screw over other people. Why, I don’t know. I only have grown to despise that psychology. Normal life isn’t normal anymore. I may respect evil so I don’t fall into its trap or let myself go nuts when seeing it in action, but under no circumstances will I ever want to be any part of actual acts of such evil.

Just like your lack of well being is some one else’s paycheck, your stolen identity is someone’s free life ticket. This is beyond disgusting. This is turning into the era of ill behaviors. From identity theft to sex offense, from murder and rape to false injustice, and even from just wanting to live your life normally to being driven insane; some one out there will screw you over for no reason at all. Dating, religion, sex, politics, nationality, freedom, anything and everything that is faith and belief; someone has to be that bad apple in the bunch or an ass in every class. This is our modern reality.

I know I am beyond sick and tired of it. Knowing now that your stolen identity can even now end you up as a possible sex offender is also highly insulting. I’ll continue this information and what you need to know or become apart of next week, when I myself am officially involved and keeping myself protected and a possibility of earning extra money.

May you all keep fighting the good fight. May your good nature not be trampled upon. May you live up to your dreams and have what is rightfully yours come your way.

Be good, be strong, be safe, and keep the peace and freedom alive. Peace.

To Error is to be Human

2008-05-16T06:58:00.001-04:00

To Error is to be Human

I had to get some venting off of me with my last blog. I thank anyone for their time and their patience. This is very far from a perfect world. Mistakes in life are bound to be made. Sadly our society has gotten very ridiculous with viewing mistakes made in life. People seem to be more determine to destroy anyone for making some thought process error in life, rather than taken in the learning experience that a mistake or error in thought process or judgment can teach.

They do say mistakes are made to be learned from. The learning process these days are just something beyond hell at times, depending on the mistake made. Here are some key pointers to keep in mind when you know of, or anyone knows of, those whom error in life.

Two wrongs won’t make a right. Let alone a mountain of wrongs to sort through. Just because you know someone who made a mistake, such as any type of criminal record, should mean only allow the party members involved and those hired and trained to be upon that business. Mind your own life more than minding their life.

How you think is not the thought process of the whole planet itself. Still one of the most common bad habits of our society. Imposing your will unto others is fine only to a degree. Still, once again, you should watch the lines you are trying to cross over whatever the situation may be. No sense letting yourself become in trouble with the law over someone else’s already in trouble with the law. Sometimes the best actions are no action at all.

Deterrent won’t always be enough. We can advertise from here until the end of time what and how you don’t ever want to end up as. It takes more than a plan of deterrent to prevent crimes from occurring. That fear factor effect doesn’t work with all people. Some people may need a boot camp wake up call, other people need a more kinder, gentler solution to resolving the mistakes made in their own life. In a world where we all reap what we sew, sometimes we just need to allow what we sew to be kept to ourselves.

Stop making anything worst than what it is. The old making a mountain out of a mole hill. If anything is to be considered societies worst bad habit, this would be it. Not every case or situation out there is going to be this act of terrorism where everyone should be executed on sight. This would end up one dead planet with that view being exercise. In regards to human sexuality, just because one aspect of sex doesn’t work for one person does not mean the whole notion of human sexuality is a non stop taboo that must be stopped at all cost. Making sex itself worst than what it is will only lead to more heighten problems that will be more unforgiveable and more beyond disturbing to think about. Which could end up turning our society and our world into such a heighten state of paranoia that it will be impossible to do everything and anything, ever.

That’s just not life. The real key to helping put an end to any problem out there is being in control of your own thought process. One of the best ways to keep our thoughts in control is to enforce and reinforce a positive and healthier lifestyle. Piles upon piles of negative energy just isn’t going to do that. Believe me, our society is super plagued with negative energy.

But I am willing to admit to one thing, I’m actually proud now to admit that I am capable of making mistakes or bad decisions. Not only does it safe guard me from making bad decisions ever again, there is one other thing it helps prove.

To error is to be human. Thank goodness I am someone who can own up to making errors in life. It proves to me that I’m still human.

Be good, be strong and be safe my faithful readers. Peace.

The Passive Collateral Damage.

2008-05-11T11:29:00.001-04:00

Passive Damage

So what would be passive damage? This is the harm caused onto others by the aspects in life that are not being done. Rather this is a thorough explanation, a proper education or understanding of a situation, being unaware of what is heard and what is meant, etc. I’ll provide a few news stories and personal examples which can shed some light on what may happen and what we don’t see when we take our stances in life.

A local officer from where I live was shot and the news has been quite supportive of his passing away. Apparently some bank robbers were pulled over and just shot to kill before the officer stood a chance to even know what was going on. While all due respect to all those who serve and protect our freedom, there was a point made to me about why don’t we treat every murder that happens on the same level of an officer being shot? The average Joe off the street would not have such treatment. This is something I don’t think the media or the law enforcement agency realizes when allowing the amount of time to go by with what does get reported. My condolences to the lost of this good officer. I don’t envy the justice department due to the huge weight it does pull, but very thankful for how it does exist. Still, here is one example of a collateral passive damage that probably would not have been even considered if you didn’t witness or hear of it. Why not treat every murder that does happen on the same level an officer killed does happen?

Another easy personal example I can give is the whole understanding of what it means to be 18 and over for our human sexuality world. I’ve seen enough looks on faces and the hate that just fumes through when it comes to hearing the stories or just the mentioning of any child being assaulted on any level sexually. It is so easy to tear into adults so much that we practically make them wish to be nothing but dead. Does anyone realize there are also a lot of juvenile sex offenders out there as well? Whenever anyone talks about sex and the youth of our world, this always hits the high level of controversy. As I pointed out in earlier blogs, the youth are not going to be exempt from knowing or learning about sex. It will apply to them. The age of 18 may be a good measuring stick for some laws, but what we don’t realize is the comprehension of what these laws mean. Just examine the tone of voice in any 10 stories or news reports given on this subject, then compare that to any 10 commercials where they are for adult purposes of some sort. We got the adult ads sounding very pleasant and enjoyable where the news reports sound like welcome to modern day excommunication from society and demonic hatred.

To wrap up this upper paragraph, this is also where we border on protecting the youth and possible crossing lines of just using the youth to fuel personal hatred and bordering on conspiracy. I believe we just allow sex to be something it has no business being, and the results of that have run away from at least the control of those who demand sex to be nothing but taboo and forbidden. Hopefully one of these days we will all learn to stop using human sexuality to oppress, on both sides of the coin. This is the molestation and abuse side (everything that is a crime or should be a crime done to other people) vs. the side of being oppressive and uncaring about other people’s levels of human sexuality.

I don’t think there is ever an easy way to talk about human sexuality and the youth of this world. I think a good start would be attacking the constant paranoia people do form when it comes to this subject. All sorts of passive damage will come from this. The most common will be disagreeing sex should always be 100% no questions asked abusive just because someone has yet to see 18 years of age on this planet yet. This is at least to me how this comes across. This is also why I say replace fear and paranoia with focus, education, and determination. I got one last example to give.

This dawn on me when I went out to one of my new favorite hang outs both Friday and yesterday. The Friday evening to be honest stunk. The atmosphere was quite awful, despite my best efforts to keeping it positive, and overall lost out on any attention which would have at least made the evening not so bad. Yesterday was a much better evening and it helped redeemed the day before for me. But it was that atmosphere that made me realize how our uncaring nature to the world immediately around us can be quite harmful, hurtful, and damaging. Rather people are just that depressed, boring, drunk in some cases, not realizing they are welcome to talk or to just say hello, etc. A similar example would be being at a dance and you got that one person off to the side or corner who is very detached from everyone else having fun. This wasn’t quite just all me, probably quite a few people not enjoying them also. Did not stop the self inflicting hurt from setting in though.

This is where you, me, or anyone, takes the time out to just say hello to those around you. If they talk fine, if not, at least you tired. For me, this is also where I keep in touch with my friends, even to just say hi. Keep tabs going to see how people are doing? Plus having the will power to be there for others in their own time of need. Our world just isn’t as natural of a world anymore, due to too many aspects in life to be on top of. We forget the simplest of common courtesy to offer others that will keep their day bright. All your simplest mannerisms with please, thank you, and your welcome. Holding the door open for someone. Anything that shows being polite. All good common traits to be holding on to being lost in the chaos of our modern times. And yes, there is plenty of passive damage that goes on from the lack of being nice to others.

Remember to be thankful for what you do have in life and stop attacking what we don’t have in life. The subtle evils going on in life will disappear when they realize that the good powers aren’t worth even trying to attack anymore and they will fail. So while being mindful to yourself and others, don’t forget to be mindful to your mothers on this Mother’s day as well.

Keep fighting the good fight now. Be good, be strong, and be safe. Peace.

Should have, would have, could have thought about?

2008-05-08T23:01:00.001-04:00

“You Should Have Thought About That.”

You should have thought about that before (insert what is being denied here). A common and popular thought process in this world. I think it is time to dissect this phrase of ours a little bit. I believe there is too much we should have all thought about, but still don’t. No one wants to be upon the receiving end of this saying. Thought about committing a crime that stops you from being employed. Thought about committing any wrong act not knowing the penalty. Thought about the pro’s and con’s of an investment decision. Thought about who we want to have sex with, to have sex at all, know anything about sex. Should have thought about your religion decisions, your orientation decisions, your political decisions. I wonder if and when we should have thought about being a more forgiving society and a better allowing permission base of a life before some real too late nonsense hits us all.

I know evil has no extent, can care less about rules and laws, and can really end everything before you even get a chance to blink. I humble myself constantly with such knowledge. What this means is I consider what I should have thought about. Also, as you can tell with these blogs, I’m also still thinking. So today’s blog lesson is all about consideration.

I think we all lost our sense of consideration for others. Rather a simple contact to see how people are doing, letting those note worthy to prove themselves, looking at what good people will do, or giving opportunity where opportunity is in need. Sometimes the simplest of gestures is all we need to do and exercise to be ahead in life. There are worst things out there to be witnessing and seeing. I rather those things never come around.

I also realize how easy to be the one in control sitting there, to be the one saying and claiming that saying, “You should have thought about that,” when you are in your protective bubble idea of a power situation. Sadly, all bubbles in life can be burst. To even acknowledge how hurtful such an idea can be turned against us all, where order becomes chaos, and you are now the one hearing what you should have thought about when your own life is about to come to an end. That is true sin.

For every action, there is an equal, and opposite reaction. Thus one person will agree with you or me, and one other person will completely disagree. It will be more preferred to keep this on a nonviolent basis. But this is the nature of our reality. Some process in life can be diplomatically solved, other process needs the extreme to be woken up to. But this is where I do my own part. I know these fires are not started by us, does not mean we need to keep fueling them.

What we all should know about human sexuality and sex offense of course is no exception to any of this. There are just too many stories out there, too many variables, and too many individual incidents to keep in mind “what we should be thinking about.” Apparently what we should be thinking about and what is reality is two different subjects all. This is why I look to help people make aware of and hope to even prevent what it is we don’t think about or consider.

It is just too easy to let the power of this world run away from us. It is a fight to keep that same power in balance so no person is left behind. We are never without our imperfections. Recently I’ve thought of the idea knowing that to error is to be human. I’m thankful to learn and grow from my mistakes. It proves to me I am still human.

So my final advice will be this for you all. Never give up on hope, love, and care. Even if you fell into wrongness, keep fighting to do right. Karma does roll around for all eventually. I know for me, if you prove yourself and worth, what I believe you thought about should be allowed to progress you to the next step to enlightenment and better life understanding and appreciation. Which just also goes to prove, never stop thinking either. Rise above the influence of inconsideration. Be considerate to yourself and to others. After all, when you build it, they will come.

Sex may not be so much evil or taboo at it is just very inconsiderate how it should be viewed in this world. It requires orderly thought just like everything else. Keep earning your life and prove your worth now.

Until next blog, and my apologies for not being so on top of putting these out more frequently, life does get busy with the so many variables involved.

Be good, be strong, and be safe now. Peace.

Honoring James Woodard

2008-05-05T21:44:00.002-04:00

Honoring James Woodard.

Who is James Woodard? He was recently release from Texas Prison of 27 years when DNA evidence proved he was an innocent man. I saw his story on 60 minutes and was touch by what he had to say.

Here is a man who chooses truth over freedom. It took him 27 years to remain true to himself before the justice saw he was wrongly convicted. From his own words he mentions that he had hope. That a man has to stand for something. More people should learn from this man.

There are thousands of people behind bars for crimes they did not commit, which of course create that equal amount of people who did commit the crime still free of charge. This is something I already knew, but it is his own lesson in life that should be honored here.

James Woodard never gave up hope. Some of the greatest fundamental factors in life, our society ignores and disrespects in practice. Things like hope, care, love, forgiveness; all top quality human emotions getting lost in the sea of fear, paranoia, gluttony, greed, and hate. I’ve made it no secret that even my own life has been attacked constantly by the evils of this world, scaring me into a corner of paranoia I wonder if I can ever escape. I also know what it is like to be waiting years to know what some of the greatest feelings in life can be and are meant to be shared.

While it is sad that it took 27 years to know the truth, in a system that allowed itself to be blind to the truth from the beginning. It proves to me our justice system can be fragile as well as a major keystone holding everything in place. There isn’t anything in life that a few people in this world cannot attack and destroy through with corruption. Thus our own justice system requires all the help it can get.

Even for those who found themselves on the wrong side of the law. Never give up hope and fight to prove you to be on the correct side of the law once more. Our window for such healing process is very limited and quite weak. This should strengthen over time. We all should stand for something.

As for me, I now stand to be however I can be the embodiment of goodness. Proving that good behavior and walking the right path should be more rewarding. No matter what aspect of my life I look at, every aspect holds the truth that being honest with myself and exercising my own rights and freedom to remain a kind, gentle, and innocent spirit, aiding to put and end to those unsightly evils that we may not be aware of affecting us all.

Not every soldier will hold a gun or even be military. Not every warrior will wield a sword for truth and justice. Not every war has a physical casualty. There are indeed more influences in this world to rise above more than drugs. There is indeed a need to rise above and beyond the call of duty. Male or female, a human has to stand for something. Stand for what you believe in. Be yourself and be successful. That is the power of unity and freedom.

Thank you James Woodard for being a strong spirit of a man. May you regain in the rest of your life what you have been denied for so many years and you find the happiness and peace you rightfully deserve. While everyone else keeps fighting for their own corner and piece of freedom in the form of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.

Be good, be strong, and be safe. To all who do read my blogs. Peace. And thank you.

All in the Perception

2008-05-04T10:18:00.001-04:00

All in the Perception.

What we see is what we get holds many levels of meaning. Some levels more dangerous than others. The human power of perception can make or break humanity at its very core. This is where self ownership and reliability come into play.

I guess I can argue in thanks to civil law suits that no one ever wants to be liable for their own actions. This is the dilemma formed when people find ways to screw over other people. Also the main reason why I am just despising any ill behavior towards others; legal, illegal, any and all exercising of hatred to other people, any discrimination or oppression, etc. It really doesn’t matter if the topic is race, religion, human sexuality, politics, or any other form of point of view. It all boils down to the same thing. How do you perceive the world around you and what does your observation mean?

When we chose to exercise our rights to live a shallow, uneducated life, this is where the danger levels of criminal behavior come into play. When we believe life to be this heaping bowl of hatred force down our throats, you are going to have and get heighten senses of anger. In the sense of money and being able to earn a living, those not being allowed to will resort to theft upon other possible crimes. In the sense of religion matters, you end up with hate crimes, murder, and social disorder. In the sense of relationships, you will end up with uncaring behaviors, sex offenses, rapes, and the like.

How we view and envision our world to be, and what our world has become, are two different things. They don’t have to be. It will take a strong sense of ownership and pride in being a productive community member and being able to be positive on a heighten level and sense. We can overcome the evils plaguing our current world.

I know for myself, I grow tired of feeling pushed around making sure someone doesn’t hate me off of this planet. I can’t concern myself with the uncontrolled egos looking for some quick hate fix, making me a victim of myself for their own lack of understanding. We can all hate this world into extinction. I’ll be saying screw you for attempting to try.

One of the best beauties of this country is being able to fight and preserve your freedom. I believe women should defend themselves from men with ill ideas about them. I believe in speaking the honest truth rather than trying to preach lies due to not being comfortable with an idea. I wear thin seeing how sex has been used as a weapon against humanity itself, one of our fundamental emotional drives. I don’t care if it is inappropriate sex acts or inappropriate porn. It all boils down to the same eventually.

Our view on human sexuality just sucks. Something that should be beauty and an honorable sense of love shared between two people has become this sickening beast of lack of self control and understanding.

The average male orgasm is 7 seconds in time. I am not sure of the actual research study for such truth, but I can believe this being fairly factual. More to the point, what are we all doing allowing life to go to hell in a hand basket for a simple seven seconds of enjoyment? Chauvinistic behavior, hurting a woman’s feelings and emotion, any form of rape, politics, attacking freedom, and just driving humanity insane itself. Is our lack of self respect and self control really worth being a total bastard with, just for how many 7 seconds of enjoyment we can muster in our lives?

I’m just learned to the fact this is just no. None of this nonsense involving human sexuality is worth it. In the long run, there is no benefit to being a bastard to others. So enough of the forming rifts in our understandings and enough of the nonsense already. I’m making my stance very clear.

I’ve chose to be in control of my life and my future. I chose to be an embodiment of good. I chose to walk the straight path and be the proud supporter of those in need and who matter to me the most. I will not allow my life to be usurped by those who won’t own up to their own problems in life.

This is why it is important to realize that every subject matter and label we have out there is all based on our own way of thinking. I think, therefore I am. This is why that if you want to help put an end to sex offense, put and end to any other crime out there, put an end to any and all forms of abuse and oppression; it really is all in the perception. What you see is what you get. How you see is how you will succeed in life.

My prayers go out to the good well being to all.

Be good, be strong and be safe my fellow blog readers. Peace.

Underestimating Reality Being Harsh.

2008-05-01T21:07:00.001-04:00

Harsh Reality (Can Be Worst.)

In our current troublesome times, I think we all forget how fortunate anything and EVERYTHING exist. Sure high gas prices are starting to bog down some people. Our society is demanding people to spend money they don’t have. Loans and consolidations are becoming complicated to just do. While everything seems to be this not stop insult to humanity and history itself.

I feel too many people fought and died for freedom to allow this crap to keep going on like this. It all insults our founding fathers, insults our history, insults the wars we do have victory in, and just flat out insults humanity itself.

I tend to humble myself constantly reminding myself just how evil human could become. I see the holocaust to be offensive. When compared to vocabulary terms or just being naked, well, we tend to complain greatly about things we are all lucky to know exist at all. I’ve been fearing this world reduced into a pile of egocentric hate where every square millimeter of this planet isn’t safe from becoming Swiss cheese by anything automatic just because someone or something out there didn’t like the way you looked.

Too many people just are not living their lives to the fullest or correctly enough. Way too many people being pricks to others. Just hearing my good nature being a rarity is enough to send chills up and down my own spine. But when I dissect through what I observe, looking at the whole overall picture from a far, I can’t help but to feel how ignorant and fool hearty we all have become. On levels that should be deemed very scary and bordering on crisis. I just wonder how to sum up what is reality. Verses all the nonsense we all think is reality.

Here is the simplest denominator I can think of. The human race, technically, is the only actual resource on earth. Rather we think of oil or money, the bible, the internet, anything video game wise, anything television or movie, all food, all automobiles, and even the whole concept of nations; the human race is the only reason right now ALL OF IT EXIST! Therefore, without the human race, it is all for not.

What does this mean? Well personally everything that we find insulting in life we seem to forget that we are luck to have at all. We can complain about the service in a food store or fast food chain when in truth we forget that we are fortunate those stores and chains can exist at all. We complain about economy and government, yet at the same time, we forget that humanity created these two things, also meaning we should be in full control of those same two things as well. While Rome was not built in a day, Rome, and everything else on earth, can be destroyed before we can even blink an eye. That is just a scary reality.

But more to the point, we think reality is harsh now, when in reality we underestimate how harsh reality can truly become. Thus, we should be thankful and grateful for what we do have going for us. Think of this era of life as a stepping stone to something greater to come. Our problems in life in truth are jokes and insults compare to other problems going on in this world. We become entrapped by our own perceptions of how things should be. This is why I fight constantly to always be the best person who I can be and how I know. I just grow tired of all the negative and evil out there. From relationships to daily living, there is this bad vibe ready to break, waiting for some green light to just let all chaos and hell to break loose.

I believe it is just my civil duty to my own country to just simply say, I DON’T THINK SO! I find it hard to swallow that someone’s ego becomes more important that everyone’s existence. I find nothing cool or even fulfilling to treat other people like dirt. I ponder why no one seems to be stopping dirt from happening to begin with and only care about something after the negative effect is already taken place? I really don’t care how imperfect this world becomes. I care more about making sure what imperfects do exist, stop taking over humanity itself. For me, for whatever reasons god or the energy of this life gave me card wise to play out, taking on our very own attitude problems with human sexuality seems to be a small part of my own life to take on.

If within creation, rather by god or whatever you believe in what life creation is, we are given the gift of reasoning, why do we attack our very own reasoning in life? If this world is truly nothing more than an attitude problem, I chose my attitude solution to be a constant state of self humbling affairs and educating myself to the realities that truthfully exist. I find it more preferable over earth’s existence ceasing to exist. If life all depends on how we think. I believe it is time to be in control of how we think. If you build it, they will come. Allow it to equal the best band wagon of uncorrupt live everyone wants to follow.

Believe me faithful readers, you have yet begun to comprehend or witness life becoming truly offensive. By the time you do, it will be already too late. All this assuming you are still around to even start doing something about it. While I hate the ideas of conspiracy and playing doom mention, I also face the fact that just because I don’t want these things to be true, doesn’t mean they can’t or won’t become true.

And the only way to prevent evil from having its way is to make goodness just that much more rewarding. Better times will be ahead for us all. Like all those who lay before us, who paved the way for us to be alive now, it will take a little bit of elbow grease, blood, sweat, and tears to get there. Hopefully without the sacrifice this time around.

Be good, be strong, and be safe my faithful blog readers. Peace.

The Rift in Human Sexuality and Sex Offense.

2008-04-28T15:46:00.001-04:00

The Rift in Human Sexuality and Sex Offense.

There are always two sides to every story. Human sexuality is no exception to this rule. It may be treated as such, but from everything that I observed so far, experience, and even all the stories that I’ve heard; I ponder if we truly know the difference in where we draw the lines and do we truly know the right from the wrong when it comes to sex and our own society?

If anything has ever been torn beyond recognizing being sundered by our perception reality and by evil itself, human sexuality is definitely one of those things in life. I’ll try to not make this an impossible long blog, which is already book size in my mind already just with this topic beginning. I’ll quick list things to look out for and to know on a fact basis.

Human sexuality is going to apply to all. It is a fundamental drive, in the list of thirst, hunger, protection, and sexuality. Thus as long as you eat, drink, have a roof over your head, clothing on your back, and a healthy relationship with others. You have everything you need.

We need to caution ourselves from making our views on sex a weapon of mass destruction, as in creating uncontrolled insanity by constantly attacking ourselves and others with this fundamental need in our lives.

Humans are still mammals, still animals, given the gift of reasoning. Rather by god or what ever your belief is in the spiritual energy, we are the animal on this planet given the gift of reasoning. Yes, it is a little too true. We all have been very unreasonable as of late. It is important to point this out, because it is the tool and weapon to use in order to help end sex offense that does go on way too much these days.

No one ever deserves to be raped, molested, abused, or victimize with sex. At the same time, we cannot consider everything with sex to fit constantly 100% into these categories either. Just like driving a vehicle, you have an ownership and responsibility with your own sex drive. While one person is very capable of being abstinence and just await until marriage for all the right reasons, other people prefer to be sexually liberated, open and free. Where no means no, it is just as equally important to not oppress those who choose to be yes with wanting sex. It’s just tougher to see this angle.

Fear, hate, and paranoia are truly bad habits in our society and world. Everyone (including me) really needs to work on replacing all this fear and paranoia and hate with focus, understanding, and determination. Most importantly, be enforcing and even rewarding with respect.

I never care to see anyone hurt by sex. (Never hurt period actually, but I’m concentrating on the human sexuality side of this overall problem.) I realize there is just as much of an importance to not attack and oppress those who have slipped and fell into the realm of sex offender. Not every sex offender wants to or cares to re offend. There are too many levels and variety of sex offenses out there to group anything together. I think the way we all even draw lines and make laws can be a bit shady as well, and needs great care to attend to.

I also care to not see human sexuality to be used as acts of terrorism or even used to be job security measures for other people. From knowing our own countries history to the hype and maybe even popularity of what we all hear on the media, either news or talk show, sex is a weapon being use to destroy life. I heard that the average length of a male orgasm is 7 seconds. For 7 seconds of pleasure, we all sure as hell blew the beauty and good nature that is sex all out of proportion. While not caring to even try to prove in the court of law that sex is used for terrorism or profit (the non escort or prostitution type), there is still a whole lot of other factors to keep in mind.

Eighteen years of age may be a good measuring stick for law, but is not absolute and even should be caution that protection does not over extend itself into being oppression. Where curiosity kills the cat, you do have teens out there who believe that what adults view and see sex, at least all the negative aspects, is just a plain blatant lie, and to a degree, they are even correct. Problem is they end up growing up with our modern corruption in mind, and end up losing down the road for the same lack of ownership or responsibility.

There is definitely a lot to consider when it comes to wanting to put and end to a bad era of our lives. Even as something as just the vocabulary terms chosen to describe something can create problems beyond measure. While the fires were not started by us, or the dominoes have been falling, we can at the very least help put an end to what has been raging inside society when it comes to sex in our society.

I believe we all allowed sex to be something it has no business becoming. Someone should help pick up the mess and pieces. This is why I believe it is important to be aware, and then help prevent slipping into bad or illegal behavior patterns. United, you can see an end to sex offense crimes. It will take a strong will power to recognize such a magnitude this problem has already become. A rift now exist that has separated sex from being beautify and fabulous, to being this evil beast of an animal. Now is a good as a time as any to put an end to what plagues everyone so.

Help support my blogs by passing word along. Sex Offense Awareness and Prevention (aka. S.O.A.P.) can be very alive and well. I find the acronym somewhat appropriate as well. I know I am beyond tired of the stereotypes of sex pushing me and my own life around. It is a bit sad that I can’t really market my ideas so the information can also be my job. But I do what I must do.

Keep fighting the good fight faithful readers. Be good, be strong and be safe. Peace.

Is goodness ever rewarded?

2008-04-25T08:38:00.001-04:00

Is Goodness Ever Rewarded?

I will look at Yin and Yang, I ponder why a thousand times over, I pray and wonder if prayers are ever answered, and still, there is that linger of what troubles anyone the most; is our goodness in life ever rewarded?

Yes. In truth, it is always rewarded, just not in the tangibles that we can see. The down side to this is it will allow evil to take on that dominant up front tangible role. This will cause hurt and pain whenever and however it can. The only benefit evil holds over good is evil takes no time to occur. Evil can happen faster than before you can blink once. Goodness on the other hand takes time to build. Rome was not built in a day.

We are all in need to stepping up to the plate and keep goodness and the good building process alive. It has become way too easy to destroy any person’s good rapport. As we sit back and just say sucks to be them. It is time to stop this bad habit.

Just because the world isn’t perfect does not mean we should add to the imperfections out there already. Just because we didn’t start the fires does not mean we must keep fueling them.

You cannot put a stop to anything through fear and paranoia. Only through focus and understanding, only through education and strong will power, only through forgiveness, love, and support; will we all keep evil at bay and win these wars on ourselves, our friends and family, and even on our society and world itself.

Make the difference today for someone. Say hello to someone you haven’t said hello to in a while. Give someone a call. Let someone know they are doing a good job. Smile for someone, clap for someone, give someone out there the thumbs up. The smallest gestures in life can make all the difference.

Society may blind us from the simplest of pleasures in life. Those pleasures are still there. It may just be the goodness boost we all need to hit that next level in life.

From talking to my friends to my own inner demon dilemmas, this is what I learn and realize in life. No one but us walks our own path. No one is going to walk for us. It’s just our kindness that will have each other walking with us.

May everyone have a good day today. Keep the goodness alive.

Be good, be strong, and be safe. Peace.

The Well Being of a Society.

2008-04-22T16:19:00.001-04:00

The Well Being of a Society.

It is one thing to be concern with your own well being and the well being of those who you care for, but is it possible we are all lacking the care for our own society on the levels we already have on an individual basis?

I’m noticing how turmoil life seems lately with a lot of different levels of paranoia. From higher gas prices, religion concerns, the current election year, to the war over seas, problems with terrorist, problems with crime, and problems with today’s youth and even daily living. Life is no longer what it use to be, and seems to be only getting worst.

I had to research into an article about a crime involving young kids, ages 8 through 10, third grade, about what was told to me by word of mouth. Apparently a very true story. Nine kids total has planned enough out to attack a teacher for how they discipline a student in class. They brought weapons into school but never got further than that, as their plan was spoiled.

They are arguing apparently in the article I just read about the psychology involved and how the kids may have not been able to commit the actual act. When it comes to spontaneous behavior, and no realization about the repercussion of such behavior, they probably could, even if we all don’t want to believe in it.

I guess I know enough just through life experience that there is this tendency to think age holds meaning on what we know and expect out of life. It just doesn’t. This article and event is just one example of what we all envision life to be and reality just being two separate entities.

It is the same thing with human sexuality. Just because we firmly believe they are too young to understand or comprehend does not mean they don’t. There is an understanding enough with the youth of this world to know what goes on. Life holds no age exception. We all must realize and understand this. While the story is sad to have to hear, I know it is just one aspect of not taking good care of our own reality. Losing sense of right and wrong. Having one major problem in life override another problem. Simply put, society is injured on a mental level and it needs to be healed, just like any individual who needs to hear the positives in life.

I am at a point now in my life that I am just tired of whatever negative aspect of life that may apply to you. Even more tired of people pin pointing out what that aspect of life means and just tearing into you for it. The paranoia that exist, the overall feelings of life going to hell in a hand basket, the heighten attitudes and egos, the heighten levels of greed, scamming and scandal, and the lost sense of growing up and being mature. Society is crumbling in these regards.

Simply put, we just need to host so many more positive reports in the media. Our society is just that flooded with negative energy. I’ve been personally pulling myself out of negative city mentality way too many times now. It’s wearing thin and I know it is due to a major lack of making success happen.

Everyone only lives once. We got to kick the negative and scandal out of our overall society system. Nothing can be resolved until then. Look to make a positive change in your life today. Rather personally or towards some one else. You may be surprise on the results.

I’m willing to bet if those kids knew how to see life in a better and more rewarding way, they would not have gone down a negative extreme like they did. Life just holds no exceptions. From the youngest of the young to the oldest of the old; we all only live once. Please fight to keep making the most out of it.

Be good, be strong and be safe. Peace.

Revisit of Criminal mentionings.

2008-04-20T12:11:00.001-04:00

Criminal Society Revisit.

In a perfect world there probably would be no crime. This world is far from perfect so knowing how to deal with those who slipped into the criminal element is going to be imperative. Consider this countries history for a second. Throughout time this country has become home to immigrants for hundreds of years. Basically being a penile colony for England and a couple other Europe base countries as well. In essence, this country is full of criminals of all sorts throughout time itself.

Our founding fathers knew this well, written the Constitution like they did, and allowed our history to grow from what is the key foundation as to why America is such a great country to begin with. Today, I can’t help but to get the sense we are all losing sight to a lot of these key values. Rather we are turning to the government or ourselves for answers to paranoia questions as to what to do with those who committed crimes, it is just as important to remember everyone’s civil rights and keep them protected, alive, and well.
Only a small portion of the criminal element is probably the diehard, sociopath stereotype that people will fear the most. The serial murderers, violent rapist, people committing horror level crimes upon kids of any age, etc. Now there is just more stupidity, those feeling hopeless, living in just bad situations, or some other blatant lame excuse being toss behind bars. Putting aside for now those who have mental handicaps or mental disabilities, since to me they take a separate aside from all those who mentally health wise may be normal, just have either serious psychological issues to be dealing with, aren’t clued in correctly to what certain laws mean, or just living more of the street smart intelligence and are just screwed being in and out of prison until something breaks that mental cycle they are stuck in. Even the best of people around can end up on the wrong side of the law. This will be my focus for today’s blog.

I’m going to concentrate on those who may have found themselves on the wrong side of the law, but still want to be good people and productive members of society. These will be your DUI type people. The majority of your misdemeanor crimes, some of your one time charge or bundle of criminal charges over one incident, and even some types of crimes where the only person hurt in reality is just themselves. Some sex offenses out there fit into that last category as well. Mostly acts such as indecent exposure, most internet crimes, inappropriate chats, etc. Only because I believe there should be a better window to allow these people to rehabilitate themselves back into society that at least from what I am reading and understanding with a lot of the paranoia going on out there.

I’ve pointed out before, and will again, that there is also to keep in mind there are people guilty of crimes who did not commit the crime at all. Of course in retrospect, yes, you have people who committed very serious crimes and will never see the wrong side of the law. This is the reality of our modern society. I’m just as disliking that the criminal justice field is rapidly growing for the sole idea that your own lack of well being can be their job security measure. That to me is just flat out wrong. So here is my quick list of recommendations to consider that can help ebb and sort out those who need harsh treatment vs. those who just want to put a bad episode of their life behind them. Some of this is gathered from my reading up on expunging a record.

Remember that all crime is individual base. Not every person will fit into some stereotypical mold. Crimes that are always drug related tend to be the exception, since the reasoning seems to always be the same anyways. Plus the substances are killing off important thought process functions. Other than that, let the individual prove his ability to be a functioning member of society.
Actual quote written by Dr. Wayne W. Dyer, from a small book called Everyday Wisdom. Page 70. “Even in a prison, your corner of freedom is how you choose to think. No one can take that away ever!” (I recommend this book for all those who like those simple reminders in life.)

Just because a person has a criminal record does not mean they should never be allowed to work anywhere or live any place. They are just as much in need to prove themselves and remain on track of having life, liberty, and pursuit of happiness as much as anyone else. Your attacking paranoia of them could land you in prison, depending on how your own actions come across.

Answering crime with crime resolves nothing but will create just more problems.

Remember this world thrives on doing to others as you want others to do to you. Would you want yourself to be told to not ever be able to earn a living, not be able to live anywhere, not even be allowed to exist for perception you won’t even allow to hold true to you? I am sure someone wants you dead, even for the most pathetic of reasons you can never control. Your nationality, your gender, your religion, etc.

Law right now is what stopping utter chaos from destroying everything. We are all given the gift of reasoning. Some people may use this gift better than others but we all still have reasonable thoughts. Use solid judgment, not speculation of a bunch of what if’s, to make wise decisions. Refusing to recognize a person’s skill over some past mistake can be a bad decision on your own part.

We know two wrongs don’t make a right. When today’s society has nothing but a mountain of wrongs to sort out, this can be insane at times. Plus the mold and standards that a normal regular person must live up to is increasingly difficult and not natural, which leads up to being oppressive.

I’ll finish by mentioning this, no matter why or for what reason we choose to oppress, oppression will always have some wrongness level to it. Even good reasons can have bad consequences at times. Sometimes trial and error has to be gone through and lessons learned the hard way.

One recommendation I can make for those involved with law to allow is let statements be made by those who did commit a crime or take some sort of aptitude test to let them prove how unthreatening they prefer and choose to be. I would sooner concern myself with the individual who isn’t doing anything to help preserve themselves than the individual doing everything in their power to make themselves apart of a productive society.

People need to know they can live their lives normally without retaliating fear from others. If I knew every little nook and cranny out of every Tom, Dick, and Harry out there that would give me a reason to be a paranoid eye over them, I would die from a couple billion aneurisms. Use solid judgment to protect yourself, but give the needed ground necessary for those who only error in life and rather correct past mistakes, or at least put such bad episodes behind them once and for all.

Beyond that, we must be careful to not violate civil and constitutional rights. It can be challenging to comprehend such a magnitude of what life is all about. I’m still struggling to be better at it myself.

Best advice I can give ever, if you don’t ever commit a crime, you never need to worry about your time being lost to law. Sadly, over 1 million people just didn’t have the right opportunity to keep this true, so adjustments need to be made.

Keep fighting the good fight and be supportive now!

Be good, be strong and be safe. Peace.

Thoughts with Texas Compound and Religion.

2008-04-17T19:39:00.001-04:00

Of Compound and Religion Sex Scandal

For those paying attention of today’s modern news (4-17-2008 for dated reference), then you realize that the USA has a visit from the Pope who is looking to heal the ongoing sex scandals from priest that has been going on for a while now and a compound in Texas that has this enclosed religious family thing going on, who had 217 kids taken from the compound due to some miscellaneous call about a possible molestation going on in this compound community. This is just the beginning of these stories.

I want to focus in on the Texas Compound story. On the one hand you have this community with a strong religious belief that is closed off to the rest of the world in some format where a call came in from a child themselves, still not identified, about being sexually mistreated. A lot of kids were taken custody from this compound and the families here are distraught of course. Now, some of the things being discovered is some of the men here have more than one wife and are married to women who are under the age of 18. Here is where it all gets confusing.

I know there where stories of cult type communities out there, mostly discovered by talk shows themselves, where the police of those areas told any reporter to turn around and don’t come back. I give credit to this compound for letting reporters know what they are all about and not being afraid to express their beliefs and purposes. So to me this compound isn’t in the league of some of those cults, one was in Colorado somewhere and the other Arizona apparently. Still, all of this raises some very major questions to be answering.

I am all for protecting kids as much as the next person, but do we know what this means in terms of human sexuality? This story is actually a very good example of human sexuality and sex offense having the difference in being a biological problem and being a social problem. I did do a blog on this but want to remind people once more.

Let’s look as human sexuality historically real quick with ages. Of course, 18 years old was not always the age for becoming an adult. If we go back enough hundreds of years, the woman at one time was an adult by 13 and you had to have your kid by the ages of 10 to 14. Life expectancy back then was also 30. On a biological level, being able to start a family that young is possible. Today’s social level is where this is all unacceptable.

Let me correct myself with biological and social problem, since it is a quick guide for me to describe what my point of view is. I mean to be saying more a biological level and social level that is perceived as a problem. Rather than an actual biological problem (which isn’t really a problem) and a social problem (which is too much the problem and issue, honestly.)

On a social level, we have this die hard cast of an idea that no sex should even be considered until any and every individual is 18 years of age, minimally. Even this can be debated. Here is what this compound faces. If religion is more of an excuse or cover up for younger families to be had, rather than an actual legitimate religious practice, they are just up a creek without a paddle, sadly enough. But if their practices are plenty legitimate, then is the state in the wrong and even the government in the wrong breaking up this compound like they did?

Here are the major questions to ask ourselves. Where is the line drawn for what counts as protecting a child to oppressing a belief? Who draws that line and how do you draw that line? Do we really understand the difference between protecting a minor from sex vs. oppressing them from knowing about sex? Who has final say in what does go on with these levels? There is a lot to be careful with in this case and findings. While I can just sit here and mope about wanting to date for all the right reason while some religion compound is hoarding wives in bunches, I rather not. This case can really have major ramifications if not careful. I don’t envy the justice system over there at this time.

I’ve already considered a lot of details when it comes to this subject. Such as does human sexuality really have age limitations at all? Is our social perspective more damaging than the actions themselves? Are we all even trying too hard to protect the youth of this world from sex? Are we protecting the youth from sex, or all the other underlining behaviors that surround that drive for sex? (Which is the manipulation, the abuse, the being lied too, the harm of human emotion, etc.) In some regards it gut check time.

Here are by best professional thoughts with this case. It all starts with figuring out if there are any men in this community, even if it is only one man, who has used this whole entire community and religion to it as a disregarding excuse for sexual deviant practices and behaviors. Where the actual pending crime of this community lies. In other words, this man, or men, are truly full of themselves and coarse this community into false family exercises. If yes, there is a whole lot of psychological hell to sort through and heal. If no, then at least the worst of the worst case scenario becomes ruled out. Just a whole lot of work has to be done now.

We all want to protect the youth, yet at the same time, you want to keep these families nuclear and functioning as well. This is a pretty large compound community as well. All the questions I’ve asked before my last paragraph then come into play. This turns into what lines get drawn, who draws them, what’s the difference between the popular view and actuality? But this is the kind of mess that occurs with our understanding and hatred for human sexualities.

I only pray for the best case scenarios for this whole community otherwise. Human sexuality, with no doubt in my mind, is going through its freedom movement. There are just that many angles to it. Lord knows it attacked my own purity in being in this world. Then again, this is why I am writing these blogs. I will fight to keep proving my purity, regardless of what some very few paranoid thoughtless people might be thinking.

I’m still only one individual upon this whole planet. In a world filled with a few billion individuals, expect to see messes come up once in a while like this compound case in Texas.

I will say this much, if I come across someone involved in a legitimate charity fund raiser who can be trusted, meaning your money donated goes to the cause, not the people working the charity (80% to 20% ratio or better to the cause, or 8 out of every 10 dollars given, which is more than sufficient since the cause cost money as well.) I will post an address or number to contact for these people, depending how things come about.

I also pray for all those who already choose to live their life legitimately without causing harm to others to not be screwed over and to be allowed to live their life to the fullest they do deserve.

I’ll revisit criminal people next blog. This story had some meaning for even what I hope to but a stop to. United people, a lot of the sex offense nonsense can come to and end. Education and civil peace is our own weapons of choice.

Be good, be strong and be safe. Keep the support alive and well now. Peace.

Personal and worldly concerns.

2008-04-16T12:57:00.001-04:00

Overall Feelings. Personal and Worldly.

I contemplate the severity of daily living and how dangerous it can become to deny anyone their ability to maintain a daily lifestyle. I think it is time to start doing the math on what is today’s modern living.

Home, vehicle, food, maintenance, health care, insurance, clothing, communication cost, electricity, sewage, taxes, fuels, oh yea, having fun and social life. With reports on belts being tightened, fear on what this economy now means, nothing is secure, excuses upon excuses to hold people down or deny people their ability to make life easier. Reports on gas prices rising, politics, constant reports on crimes, anything dealing with hyper sensitivity, such as the recent pope mentioning of some medieval text on Islam, (by the way, one, it is historic mentioning’s, two, aren’t we just a tad hyper sensitive in reaction to something that was written 800 or so years ago?) The ridiculous levels of what is going on out there are becoming insane.

Earning a daily living is becoming a lie. Identity theft is highly popular and common anymore these days. People need answers to questions or even prayers and the best they get is, “Sorry, can’t help you. Good luck.” I am impress at times that earth still exists. We are all but one attitude problem away where nuclear holocaust becomes the attitude solution. This is how dangerous life can be.

I wonder at what point do feelings like this go from a noted concern, to a crisis that should be dealt with, to now no one has an option but to do something about it now or die. I rather not think about these things, but it really does become tougher not to. I’m not a believer in Judgment day or the Apocalypses or any other end of the world nonsense. I also believe we should not keep giving into people who seem like they are trying with all their might to make events like that true.

For everything I just want, I only want to earn my living, one solid full time job, my rights to pay off my debts, my rights to live on my own if that is what it will boil down to, and my rights to turn people away or prosecute them who attack my means to do any of this. I only wish this world would stop being such a die hard stick in the mud group of demanding perfectionist. Guess what, no one is going to be that perfect and you in retrospect impend on their own rights and freedoms right on back by making whatever demands or attacks that are being made.

I do what I can to pour out my heart, soul, and energy for goodness and good karma, but even my friend question, is good karma even recognized? I see where that can be wondered.

I do know all these barriers will eventually be overcome some day. But I’m one for wanting to know the stability of life, and right now my sense of stability just isn’t there. Too much trying to be done on my own, too much not working in my favor. Plus too many one time excuses saying “no” to me, which really needs to stop.

May this world yet see brighter and more supportive futures to all. Please learn to live and let live. Trust me, someone out there is bound to have one excuse to want you to no longer be allowed to live, and it will be pretty petty and pathetic, but all they need to accomplish just that.

Do to others as you want others to do to you. Granted, we all also reap what we sew. No reason all of this needs to remain negative. I just grow tired of the constant gloom that loves to loom over me and all who I know from time to time. The ridiculous has to end. Preferably before it tries to end us all.

Be good, be strong, be safe, and be supportive to yourself, each other, and to all. Peace.

Continuing consern in mondern life.

2008-04-15T08:34:00.001-04:00

More to Consider From Last Blog

It can be tough to keep my blogs at a reasonable length and still get what I need to say out. This is why I’ll just do so many more than one. There is still more to consider from my Saturday evening experience.

I know for me, knowing the magnitude levels of what is going on in our modern society is seriously under minded. I don’t think anyone realizes how harsh an unbalance life, trying to be lived, can become.

Just the daily things in life people take for granted. Dating and relationships with other people, employment, home living, finances, etc. I’m sitting there with my friend, knowing very well he’s a good man, means very well, wants to love for all the right reasons, being highly affected by some simple behavior which many people could just pass off as simple fun. Feeling alone is no fun. Believe me, even being alone can just go places no one really cares to go, but this bleeds into being our reality. Strengths we have in one way will lead into weaknesses in other ways. As for me, what I may lack in love and money for now, I probably make up in positive mental living, understanding, and just observation. To be truthful, I prefer it over being a flat out ass to other people stomping on them just to make myself look better. (However that ego trip is supposed to work.)

This is how unbalance life is starting to become. Factors that were once optional are now necessity. There is this expectancy of being in a relationship, being an owner of a vehicle, owning your own home, and this list can go on and on. Not everyone has all of this working for them. Lord knows I read more than my fair share of personal ads of ladies out there demanding this list to be lived up to, even though they have nothing to offer in return for themselves. Plus my comments to go from this last sentence only become inappropriate. There is a saying, you reap what you sew, it is said for a reason.

What does it take to find a way to give the people the small amount of time of day they need to get what necessary aspects in life working for them finally? Sometimes all you need to do is toss a bone their way and see how they decide to run with it. In the realm of dating and relationships, my friend is just that highly concern about coming off the wrong way. I’ve been there and done that myself. He is someone who means well, but can extremely easily get suckered into a very bad situation that would be life destructive to him. He could very easily be two timed into prison for something sex offense related, just because he is still human and those needs just don’t stop only because the right place, time and person just hasn’t come along yet. But this is what people such as him and I face.

An era of life is going by where it is the in hyped thing to screw other people over. People are trying to make themselves feel better by making other people feel worst. Without the right job, the right income source, not feeling your soul needs to be sold to some devil out there just to be ahead in some aspect of life, without the right love balance, the right balance of material ownership (this can be argued and debated, but this is a reality of any first world country for now), and the right balance of your physical life, mental life, and social life, we are all facing fragile moments that can screw us over badly. Life itself is a given fact and it is being attacked in too many ways.

This is why with everything going on in this world; there is a major importance in being better open minded. It is important to cast aside hate and realize the next few steps ahead of what your immediate opinions may be. This is why it is important to know self ownership, know respect (self and for others), to know how to be good friends, just ignore those and walk away from those who won’t understand you or give you the correct time of day or respect. This is why it is important to maximize your education and understanding. See the worldly overall picture.

We all only have one life to live. Who are we to take life away from others, just because they are not up to par with what others already have? In due time my faithful readers, as I said in my one poem, we will see that day.

Keep fighting the good fight. I hope everyone has a great day and finds some good positive change to move you forward to that next step in life.

Be good, be strong, and be safe. Peace.

Poem: Why are the Pure Innocent Paying Heavy Burden Prices?

2008-04-13T18:12:00.001-04:00

Why are the Pure Innocent Paying Heavy Burden Prices?

Twisted fates torment innocent humanity.
Many dominoes fell driving our paths through insanity.
We hold dearly truths and honesty we beg to keep.
Those good no more wounded the good emotionally deep.

Society spaghetti,
Let me live. Will you let me?
Permission basis,
Crime is no permission. Screw you into stasis.
Earn a living.
Modern lie. No choice but to pay the unforgiving stealing.

Money, religion, politics, sex,
How many hidden excuses will cause us to be in vexed?
Everything in life has a price to pay.
Awaiting our good karma fortune to finally come our way.

Sin is love for being ourselves.
Sticking to the right paths.
Not living in fear what we need to tell.
Secrets and psychologies scar us deep.
Fighting frantically in faith we choose to keep.

When does the pain end?
When? When? When?

All things come into complete circles.
Be true to you.
Honesty be your best policy.
The goodness is known and will overcome someday.
It is still up to us to make the when happen today.
To make the when happen everyday.

So for those who need love and have no one to love.
We will see that day.
So for those who need income and have no success in the income they seek.
We will see that day.
So for those of us who need spiritual healing, for demons run deep and often.
We will see that day.
For those who are wounded by those who won’t understand the differences in life.
We will see that day.
Even for those who cross a line of unforgiving. May mercy find and preserve you.
We will even see that day.

Where life lacks perfection.
Make the perfection that you need.
When those who need help.
Be that helper there for them.
For those who don’t know how to comprehend.
See those who will help you.
For those who are the shoulder to cry on.
Let the tears fall so their souls can be washed.
For those who will love.
Give back the love you receive.

For those who know me and thank me.
You are welcome.

The world may be twisted ill fate attacking humanity.
It is our responsibility to preserve our sanity.
A friend who helps a friend in need.
Is truly a good friend indeed.

I know deep inside I will take it upon myself to be there for you.
I know deep inside the time will come when I need you there for me.

That is the power of humanity.
That is my power. My gift to you.
My love, my care, my sanity.
Acquaintance, friend, lover, ally.
I choose to be someone who will hear your cry.

We will see that day.
God as my witness.
Be at peace my friends.
We will see that day.

May good truth set us all free.

2008-04-13T11:16:00.001-04:00

Last Night’s Most Die Hard Importance.

This is a personal blog which will fit into my blog format. I will be fair in leaving out proper names to protect the innocent. I’ll walk through the personal events of last night, then myself, and where life goes on from here.

I attended a friend’s party. They had some costume theme, wear your trash. I found this odd and bazaar myself, but it was being done in the literal sense. One of the main b-day people wore something quite elaborate in the trash wearing sense, basically only underwear or doing that Madonna cone on the breast thing back in the day. Being a tad bit exhibitionist and not really caring, another male friend of mine didn’t know how to take this.

I spent the last bit of the party talking to him to help calm him down. We are both in the same boat of being single, not having the money we really need in life, he was feeling the no money, no girlfriend blues and she were just doing something he grew too subconscious of. Long story short, we are just both good men who seek to just do thing right. We are only human and he was battling his feelings of the typical perverted idea vs. preferring to love for all the right and correct reasons. This sit down talk took a while. Even brought some truth in me out. But that is what I am all about, being there for others.

Not every man out there is an asshole who thinks only with their dicks. Sometimes good folk such as us just don’t feel the karma rolling around our way like we should. I did calm him down and decided to finally leave the party, which only had the food of chips and dip and water ice. I had to get something more solid in me and went to my new favorite club hangout, where my own possible future love interest works. Yes, my night story does continue.

I hung back mostly because I more preferred to eat and just relax a little. I did say hello to her and talked for a little bit. Hoping for some feedback from herself, since I also wanted a females perspective of what did occur. It did take me just a bit to get my second drink with the two drink minimum, but I did explain why I wanted to wait and the waitress thought that was smart and agreed. Well, during my brief stay here, someone knew my face from my criminal stipulation and just blurted out some hate as he left himself. Just stupidity out of him and nothing came of it. Still, I didn’t really need the crap, which only ties into my earlier being there event. Someone else knew me from my high school days and said hello to him for just a tad as well. But I did get to spend a little time with my new found positive happiness in life, at the very least good friend for life as far as I am concern. I only pray that it can be more.

Those are the physical events of last night. Now for the deep truthful meaning of it all.

While talking to my friend it dawned on me how many people out there just suffer just because they don’t want to be taken the wrong way. I know for a fact I have this problem. I grew up having this trouble practically. In our own heads and in our own world, we know for ourselves what and who we are as people. We question ourselves greatly. Why is this life important event not happening? Why are good people being so single? When will see the good karma reward this? I will not surprise me one bit that millions of people suffer with the doubts that were created the many who already make life harsher to deal with.

We could blame economy, current politics, lack of thought and consideration, lack of care and/or love; it all does not change the fact we are all still human. The small club incident only reinforces this belief in me.

I am man enough to admit that 7 years ago I did something I had no business doing. I had to learn the hard way some truths that just were not made clear to me. Simply put, my only crime was trying to purchase something I had no business trying to by online. Sting operation, entrapment, at this point it just don’t matter. I cannot erase this era of my life. I will also let you all know this.

I am even more man enough to have a will power now to do something about it. This era is becoming an era hell bent on screwing people over. There are literally that many levels of scam, that many levels of scandal, than many labels to spin our heads over, too many facts to be on top of, and too many things in life becoming rights or privilege basis. The list just keeps growing. As for those who can’t keep up, they get left behind, make a mistake, and left too unattended to even regain ground once more. This is why I do these blogs.

Sure my record is keeping me from getting full time work once again. Sure I and stuck being at the mercy of those who choose to forgive over hate. I also know every single one of us can too easily be a victim in this situation. I know I am far from alone in all of this. Also, I personally have yet to ever meet anyone who is only one portion of their life over their whole entire lifespan. Here are the bottom lines.

It is still my right, privilege, and even civil duty to remain a good person. I can’t sit here and care about a few seconds of your life over your entire lifespan. I am sure every single person out there has something they are trying to overcome. Some of us are substance dependent, some of us are sex driven and no one helping to drive sex properly, some of us are hell bent on having to hate someone or something. Now we are piling vices on top of vices and trying to demand it justice. I also know my sins are nothing compare to the sins that truly go on into this world.

So from not every crime is law punish, to people being law punish for crimes not committed by them; from the good people fighting to keep their goodness to the asses in life trying to ruin it for everyone; from those who just don’t accept the truth in life to those purposely using the truth in life for destruction purposes; my life, just as your own life, is solely your own for control.

I did not sign away my civil rights. I am still protected by law in worst case scenario. I can’t play the god parent to every possible individual that exist. We will all have our right and wrong moments in life. Some things will work, some things won’t. Every person has something to overcome and to prove. I may have been in the wrong back then, but I also know how much I grew from it as well. That event was something that had to happen to me.

Ask these questions instead. Why do we need to go through hell to find our way to heaven? Why must it take a sacrifice of the good or the innocent to make changes to the real evil and guilty in life? Why do we keep allowing those who prefer to live the good life to suffer and not be rewarded with the goodness they choose to exercise? Money just doesn’t buy love, happiness, or purity of spirit. Only rising above the evil influences of this world gets us that. It is a little sad that I must admit that there are influences beyond drugs that everyone must rise above.

Hate, greed, crime, abuse, manipulation; making everything a permission, privilege or right; attacking a person’s whole entire goodness with whatever ounce of evil that gets thrown their way.

I did write another poem out of last night’s events. I’ll share that later this evening. Everything has their reasoning and lesson behind it. I fight daily to remain the best and good person that I am and that I am meant to be. Sure I won’t please all the people all of the time, but I will at least try to hit most of the people most of the time. I made the conscious decision to care. Something else that seems to be dying out in our society due to the news media, the hype and popularity of lack luster living. This is our new modern reality. Adapt or suffer. I’m tried of suffering so now I’m fighting to adapt once more and make whatever personal changes, reasonably, to get me to that next level in life.

Anybody can hate and just not care. Real people will not fear stepping up to the plate to be there for others. Why should I not share what die hard truths that I know and discovered to help keep you all from falling into the same traps? We all reserve the right to preserve our humanity and speak up with any and every event going on that does attack our humanity.

In my poem, I mention plenty of times through the end of it, we will see that day. Don’t give up fighting the good fight. Be good, be strong and be safe. May we all find the peace we seek in all of our needs, wants, and desires that should be accomplish in this modern society standards of ours.

Remember, we will see that day.

Passing a news story concern along.

2008-04-11T18:49:00.001-04:00

News Sample Issue to Share.

Here is the YouTube link for anyone to follow for my blog for this day.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QcMEL3_YsVI

It is with the Ellen DeGeneres Show and a story in California where a 15 year old boy in eighth grade (which seems a bit old to me) was killed by a fellow eighth grader for being gay and asking this boy to be his valentine. Quite a serious situation that will indeed affect peoples lives directly with immediate families.

This story provides a great example of why I am doing these blogs. It is this level of lack of understanding and the results of such actions I am looking to prevent and end. I’ll share some personal thoughts with this.

As far as sexual preference goes, it is none of my business. I don’t even need to know you even have a sex life. Along these lines, the only person who has final say of your own sexual preference is YOU. This is definitely a sad story situation indeed. Kids may not know better, but they are capable of knowing something. It is important for them to know and understand the educated truth and not the hatred or ignorance that is going on. You have one family destroyed because their son is dead and a second family destroyed because their son committed an act of murder for whatever message reason that occurred.

I read at least a headline report dealing with the total amount of Americans in this country with a criminal record being over 1 million now. Which is a hell of a lot of people. Sure we can look at our history, how this country is a penile colony from Europe. Sure we can look at genetics to explain why behavior may exist in people. Here is the bottom line. They say ignorance is bliss for a reason. Our hatred, our stereotyping, our type casting, racisms, discriminations, every ounce of anything that causes us to lose our cool over something different than what we may be use to has just got to go.

These are the reasons I hate chauvinistic behaviors, bullying, being some inside click only club for whatever reason, anything that makes people closed minded. I’m developing the idea of living above the influence that goes beyond drugs now. Then again I believe hate and worry are something people can become addicted to as well. We must stop being so label hungry. We must all stop being hateful to whatever is outside some created norm box. Just because something is different does not mean it has to apply to you.

People with criminal records still need to work and be employed. People who choose to be homosexual should be able to share their lives normally equally with those who choose to be heterosexual. Skin color, deformations, physical or mental dysfunctions, gender, age, none of this should matter on who a person is. You are also in full control of your own personality.

If anything else, consider this. If you truly want to be a proud supporter of the heterosexual family, earning a living, having what is necessary and supporting a healthy family life; how about doing more than complaining to anyone who is not of this genre? As some people may say, don’t just sing it, bring it. Sticks and stones may break our bones; insults now range from not hurting us to being one attitude ego away from ending all life on this planet. Ask yourself this.

Is your opinion really worth destroying some one else’s life over? My condolences to both families for the lost and troubles they now must go through. Granted this all happened back in February. Lose the hate, be an open mind, lead by example, and win the faith to those who will agree with you. Evil has truly plagues ourselves, our communities, and our societies so badly that anyone’s head would spin over it all. And any sex offense crime is no different than this. Just all levels to me, not just the one sided story that seems to occur.

Rather it is abusing, molestation, rape, anything dealing with slipping drugs for sex, immature behavior, to even attacking those who are known sex offenders, making situations worst than what they are, any mountain out of a mole hill, and possible job security measure tactics, entrapments, and even psychological terroristic warfare tactics; I will NEVER APPROVE OF all this negative behavior being so destructive like it has. That is what I offer doing these blogs, besides also using what I already invested in to make some extra money. A source of education and understanding to help put an end to our attitudes with human sexuality, regardless of the situation. That is how bad the wrongs and the domino effect has taken us. Just because we may not be the ones who started the fire, does not mean we should continue to fuel them either.

So please, keep your mind and wits about yourself. Do be supportive and educational about anything you are not sure how to take or comprehend. Don’t be afraid to ask questions. Don’t be violent. Do keep the love and support alive and toss bones every so often to those in need, so they too can be back on track to supporting a better positive life and productive member of society.

Be good, be strong and be safe faithful readers. I thank you all for any support you contribute. Peace.

Deep personal spiritual philosophy.

2008-04-08T19:26:00.002-04:00

Personal Details Going Deep.

Today I am trying for a little self spiritual cleansing. Had a very serious question drape across my mind. Everything below is a blog I just got done writing for my friends elsewhere. I’ll let you all know afterwards where I am going with this lesson for today.

(Blog begin)

This seems to be a fair day to clean my spiritual side up some. Right now I am torn into two halves. The half of me that is positive and upbeat, and the half of me that feels the pressures of reality just waiting to crush my very existence. I have some deep rooted fears that don’t seem to want to leave me either. While trying to figure this out, I’ve also been envisioning some very vivid major conversations in my own head as well. Today being one of concern.

It isn’t that I could even do such an action. It’s the response of what the question ask I think I seek out. But my thoughts for today dwelled on this.

IF I were suicidal (btw, I’m NOT), and you were right there seeing I was ready to commit suicide. Would you stop me? Why, or why not?

It’s a deep question to be taken in philosophical. I realize how much of a psychological scar I have when it comes from just not knowing what other people think. I know I have a fairly bad social void. I’ve been bullied basically into living in my own little world. This is the main root to everything that is my problem. From my one and only crime in life to always being so single and alone. I’ve been forced into being too alone even for my own good and I have no clue how to get this inner demon to get out of me.

I think what I am really asking is who is there for you? Are you there for others? How many? What lengths are you willing to go to find the answers you are looking for?

I believe why I’ve recently choose to be such a strong embodiment of goodness as of late is because I already know what the result are for being treated by assholes in this world. I can never belittle any woman out there. I would never want to dominate power over another person. I’m even determine to keep in touch with people as often as I can. Even if it isn’t anything more but to say hello and how are things going. This world is getting crushed by it’s own ignorance and insubordinations.

So I am not having the success I prefer in landing full time employment once more and the dating scene is so mess up anymore I can’t even begin to shake a stick in it’s direction. I know I will prevail once again. I know some one out there will want nothing but this sweet heart of a gentleman. My years are just turning into decades and some other fears are starting to kick in with me.

No matter how resourceful I am. No matter who I seem to turn to or which direction I look. Something just isn’t being felt by me. I’m not sensing my karma being reciprocated, or something along those lines. I just am not sure what to think when it comes to people or control functions outside of me.

Sure I am being good now at what is in my control, but my spirit is meant to be shared. So far I’m just not finding who or what will allow my goodness to be shared with. That’s where my hurt tends to come from.

Suicide is metaphoric. I think my real question becomes this.

If I was being crushed by the weight of this society, no matter how much good will power I kept trying to exercise, no matter how much I pray for relief, and no matter what personality people saw in me. If I was going to be destroyed for whatever aspect of my life is no longer in my control by someone else at any and all cost? Would you rescue me?

All I can say is this vice versa, I would rescue all who I knew and then some, within whatever power that is mine to control. My spirit, and my reality seem to be stuck in two different parts. I only want to make them one.

(Blog end)

Like I said, fairly deep question to put upon people. Now, I don’t anticipate anyone on blogger or wordpress to know me personally. But here are some self questions to ask for your own benefit.

Who is there for you?
Are you there for others?
How many people would you say are there for you or you are there for them?
When any aspect of your life, major or minor, just cannot be met by any means, how do you resolve that aspect?

On a more universal level. How many people out there can’t even begin to ask any of these questions, inside or outside of my recent blog; and already too late to save them, alive or dead?

I choose to value humanity on all levels no matter what. For some reason my human limitations are being tried. I have my moments where I feel beyond crap, and my moments of being beyond thankful for everything that is my blessing. Life itself grows a little too unnatural for some people. Why should we not reach out to assist them, especially knowing it is so easy to end up in their shoes, while they only wish they could be in our own? This is why I choose to write these blogs as well.

Also if you are wondering, just because I have no clue who you are as a person, I would stop you from committing suicide. Only because I know deep inside someone isn’t taken it upon themselves to have the balls to show you the light you need to see on the level you need to understand. Life may feel like war at times. Does not mean it needs its fill of sacrifice.

Be good, be strong and be safe. May you also receive what goodness should come to you.

Peace.

Can we eliminate money from our lives?

2008-04-05T23:16:00.001-04:00

Can We Eliminate Money From Our Lives?

Being one of those people who enjoys Star Trek, until Enterprise hit the air waves at least, I notice how they function their story line and never dealt with paychecks. Kept the money theme all to those Ferengi. But it will bring up an interesting point of philosophy; can we exist without money in our lives?

Okay, so financial earning master I am not (though I would prefer to be of course). Just knowing how greed has affected humanity, that whole power and corruption thing, how can money correctly be eliminated from life?

One method would be right away. Done just like that. Problem with this is chaos would explode in total madness. Riots, vandalism, very mass chaos in laws breaking, people dying, etc. It just won’t be pretty. Granted this would only last so long and there would be a point in life after this. Not the way to go really if a decision were to be made to get rid of economy and money.

The other method is over time. Personally a long period of time, say 30 years planning and programming. Basically training generations of people to think of money differently. The problem with this method is what already exist problem wise. SOMEONE IS BOUND TO TOSS A MONKEY WRENCH IN SUCH THE WORKS! Besides that, the idea is to eliminate the need of spending money for everything in life. Rather resorting to true equal rations, knowing flat tax rates, getting back to taking good care of the people who work for you, taking care of all the in addition to life cost (insurances, maintenances, general repairs and upkeeps, doctor, dental, etc). We would need to really reinforce the emphasis of honesty and rewarding such good behavior.

I have this friend who mentions, “In theory, Communism works.”

Personally in theory anything works, no matter what we label that anything to be. Any time someone goes out of their way to make a mess of things, civil lawsuits, accidents, theft, any other crime; of course there is going to be a break down in the intentional functioning. Thus ignorance is bliss.

Now, I know money is basically in simplest denominator, paper, ink, a numerical representation, and a simple idea in our heads. Why in the world are we allowing it to be this uncontrolled evil is beyond me? I don’t fully believe money needs to be eliminated as much as it needs to be re-evaluated on what it should mean in our society.

Stop with the higher pricing of everything.

Enforce laws the prevent some of the most needed aspects in life, such as food, transportation, communication, etc., to have any form of cost at all.

Make laws that state any law pass that demands a person to spend money, must be met with a law to be pass for a person to earn money.

Make sure all fundamentals in life are being met.

Make sure the cost of living is equal to the average pay of the majority of the population.

If anything else, stop with the ignorance, the scamming and the scandal, the underlining tones that seem to be created today, the conspiracies, the black mailing; just stop the blatant ignorance over a lousy number and let people earn their worth who want to.

In return, stop attacking the rights of earning a living by being stupid and stealing, playing games, going bankrupt, making loan cost too high, credit score games, not earning your money by pulling your own weight. Whatever the case may be, stop the pain. I can care less if you are an oil company owner or the burger flipper or ditch digger in this world, all those all mighty dollars are useless once you hit your grave. And every single one of us will eventually hit a grave in some form or fashion.

It is only more sickening to me to believe there are that many people so hung up on the superficial aspects of our lives. As pointed out in previous blogs, only humans let everything exist. So why attack and not take good care of the most important and only resource this planet does correctly have?

So far still no luck on my fronts of landing full time employment or having my sights work for me. I’m going to start looking into getting at least my own website of www.violatorsworld.com running in better function for me, since cams.com seems to be too scandal for most people. They are adult businesses of mine. You must be 18 years of age or over to view, as well as in a safe legal area for viewing, as the legal disclaimers go.

Also at this point in time, I’ll accept donations as well. Or anything that is positive recommendation where money doesn’t need to leave my pocket before it enters my pocket is also appreciated. (Yet another law that should be passed. Your charges for your services should only come out of successful payments upon people first. I think at one point this was.) I’m on a pre determine kick now of making myself rich so I can finally set up all my friends. I’m just hoping that in this life time I can just stick it to greed greatly. I could be a multi billionaire and still want money make illegal. Let’s just not wait until I am finally some billionaire and then do such a thing, since that would be my luck.

Our view of money only causes stress, bad situations and crime to occur. It is all basically a nonsense that just needs to end. Helping put an end to the nonsense of what and how we view money and economy will also help put and end to other ignorant behaviors as well. Such as sex offense.

Thanks to all who do give me positive feedback and links to my blog sites. I appreciate any help and support that I can get. For now I’ll accept my boost over dental cost that I have to do this month. Since that’s where my first major thorn in the side exist. Besides that, I’m doing fairly fine otherwise.

As always, be good, be strong, and be safe. Keep the good supporting fight alive and well! Peace.

Want To Preserve Existence? part 3 Percetion.

2008-04-01T23:26:00.001-04:00

Want to Preserve Existence? Part 3. Perception.

One of the greatest dangers humanity will always exercise will be knowing only what we want to know. This is a world of great diversity. Attacking the diversity that isn’t your own is where a lot of the wrongs stem from. We can all only be as good as the world that we see around us. These are the dangers of perception.

I would say religion tends to support the greatest problems when it comes to perceptions in life being an issue. I only speak out of know historical content. Under no circumstance will I know who you are reading this, let alone know what religion you practice. So please don’t bombard me with attacks bring up religion. Christianity is one of the top examples I can think of, historically speaking once again, that has used perception in some of the worst ways possible. I respect that it is a missionary religion. The teachings of the Bible do say “Believe in me and only me.” There were crusades and wars fought over religious belief. One of the downsides of this religion comes from the perception that comes off as this, “See religion as I see it of be eternally punished.” Rather this is an intentional or unintentional case, this is what gets observed.

For every action, there is an equal and opposite reaction. In physics, this usually revolved around the sciences of movement, inertia, etc. This saying can also apply to social and mental living. An action intended for good, can be seen as good, and bad. This you could say is the basic fundamental to perception. What you see and witness, and how you interpret what you see, hear, and then believe, is what makes up your perceived world that you live in.

We all need to be in better control of our perceptions. Here are some suggestions to doing so.

Don’t always believe in everything you see or hear. Take time in learning about the information you do see and hear to make a solid judgment on what that information means. This is a key reminder we should all be telling ourselves constantly.

What holds true for you may not hold true for others. Just worry about your life. It is other people’s responsibility to worry about themselves.

Your own knowledge should not be the knowledge of the whole entire planet. This may be tough due to historical bad habits, but very possible. Sometimes we all end up saying all the same thing in the long run, it is just how it gets said that people argue over.

Perception can be both neither right nor wrong. Some of the issues people argue over can ascend the whole notion of being in the realm of right or wrong, and these ideas or issues just are.

Simply put, allow what you know to work for you. Educate yourself over any new information you will come across. Research ideas to see the pro’s and cons about them. Don’t be afraid to ask questions. How you see things is but one way of seeing what is there.

So no matter what your views are in religion, in politics, in human sexuality, in money, or just in life in general; take good care of what it is you know and how you know it. Knowledge is power, and having a better open mind to this world is becoming more and more essential.

Personally speaking, I am very proud of being so open minded and having what seems to be strong observation skills. I may have had to learn some things in life the hard way, but that learning is something I don’t take for granted either. It will be better in the long run to be supportive of the ideas that will be different from our own. Worst case scenario, just because it doesn’t apply to you, doesn’t mean you even need to acknowledge it. Those who choose one perception should live their lives fit and happily their way, as you life your own life fit and happily your own way. The important thing is working in unison with the mass amount of diversity that does exist in this world. Since perception will also threaten existence as a whole. That’s just one perception I won’t be support of.

Okay, I’m not the best type of philosophy writer that may exist. It does get tough to explain ideas on such a large scale like this. It is a large scale of life to be conscious of. Just because what I know and what you know may be two different things, don’t mean we must be at each other throat over it. Controlling how we think, and not overreact to our thoughts, will help end some of the worst behaviors becoming so abundant in today’s modern society. Sex offense being a very top example since there is a lot of fear out of stereotype and enforced idea over actual case or knowledge on an individual basis.

That will have to be a separate blog. I think I did touch basis on that in a few blogs already. Then again, controlling or eliminating hatred from perception is the biggest thing to keep control of. What we don’t know, we fear, and what we fear, we end up hating. Time to make this what we don’t know, we learn about, and what we learn becomes focus and determination under control.

Continue to be supportive and keep fighting the good fight.

Be good, be strong, and be safe. Peace.

Positive vs. Negative

2008-04-01T08:28:00.001-04:00

Positive vs. Negative.

I think this is a good time to bring up some good points about feeling good and positive about you; over feeling bad and negative. There is this habit of saying, “Life Happens.” I think it is time to analyze and own up to what this means. Then I’ll be writing that blog on, “Want to preserve existence? Part 3, Perception.”

There is a lot to be said about living and thinking positively. Even for myself, when feeling up against a wall and sometimes enable to escape, there are blessings in my life that pull me through and get me back onto the right track.

The news shows, reality television, talk shows, most of the media, even celebrity scandal and gossip are all factors that have played into a lot of the negative energies that seem to surround us all. Rather it is money, politics, religion, and even sex, we all allowed each one of these life aspects get played up to tons of negative energies. Allowing all of those things to be problems in some form or another. So what will become observed are the entire name calling, the crime, the manipulations and abuses going on? Well, this is the energy that will kill our planet. It is the energy that will be end to all ends, where life goes on becomes without the human race.

I personally rather say I don’t think so. It would be nice to know I am not alone in that of course, but time will tell that as well.

The positive energies just aren’t broadcast like they should. Now, I am not about pointing fingers and creating blame. I don’t blame television or a video game or anyone’s freedom of speech or even expression. I will point my finger at myself first for allowing my thoughts to be in such a state. This is the importance of self ownership and what it means.

A positive life will live longer, have more fun, and support a better will power that people would rather be around. Positive energy will unite countries and people together. It will allow people to love for all the right reason. Allow families to be whole and together. No one exercises or advertises positive life like they should. But this is why anyone has their emotional roller coasters, they can’t make heads or tails out of anything, end up doing things they will regret, so on and so forth.

It is a positive way of life that will stop crimes from happening, help end sex offense, end all other forms of abuse, and allow life to grow exponentially. There is a whole lot of beauty in life and in every single person alive. Time to stop allowing the negative to overshadow our beauty.

A friend wrote her own saying from a Nelson Mandela quote, “Within our greatest fears, will lay our greatest beauty.” Well, I definitely enjoy living a positive and beautiful life. Plus I can keep it all real and realistic as well.

So be good, be strong, be safe, and be supportive to all and each other. Peace.

Personal updates and discoveries.

2008-03-30T12:21:00.000-04:00

Some Personal Updates and Discoveries.

So is anyone wondering why the hesitations in blogs for the past couple of weeks. Just a small load of life stress hitting me and some things not working in my favor basically. For starters, I’m still trying to secure full time employment. Not the easiest anymore with one major strike against me which people are not seemingly trying to overlook and allow my skills to be in their favor and services. Even this will have to change eventually as those who are ending up with criminal records just tend to be growing. May have to even go back to separating private life and public life. Private details are no ones business but those who it pertain to, public details are just that, what the public needs to only see and care about.

Plus people have made things that should be private, public, which even I feel is none of my business. But this is another blog concept all together. I’ll also add needing full time with benefits. Mostly dental insurance.

Had to get a tooth pulled last Wednesday. That killed the middle of this past week. Liquid diet for two days. Having gauge in my mouth is also not a good idea. They ended up sucking up drool more than blood. This tooth had to come out anyway. What would replace it is either a bridge or an implant. Right now implant sounds to be the better of the two options and what is recommended.

Now is a good time for my adult businesses to really start working for me. Help me afford the last bits of my teeth surgery. I had a root canal done not that long ago. The crowning is next. Dental cost seem like they should be criminal to a small degree. Money in this society is just insane any more.

Regular normal expenses, I am fine. In addition to cost, such as doctors, dentist, insurances (car, health, life, etc.), car repairs, home repairs, these are the killers and where the debts come from. The bottom line is this simple. People want and demand too much money to be spent, and just not providing options, even by law, to make sure what money people demand to be spent is even being earned to begin with. The cost of living HAS TO balance the average earn income. As far as health insurance and cost go, think of it this way, there are second world countries and countries who don’t have much in freedom who have their health coverage better than our own. This should be saying something.

There are some personal dilemmas plaguing me. Petty nonsense crap too. These kinds of details I will keep to myself. Let’s just say they are the reasons why I choose to always be the better man. They are the reasons why I will fight, strive, and keep alive goodness. They are why I am against abuse on all levels, not just the levels that the laws can only consider. Petty, juvenile, self center, ego feeding garbage that is just always uncalled for.

I’ve done blogs about the dating scene. I only want to say this. If you don’t even attempt to communicate, you just won’t be dating. It really is that simple. I can’t begin to tell you how many people start contacting me and just stop. I can just say their lost not mine; still, just too many women do this. When dealing with anything base beginning of email, face it, it will be who are you, what do you do for a living, and what may come off as a small questionnaire. People will want to know your details. If you prefer meeting face to face, say so. Even that requires some effort and energy. And all this isn’t so much just me, way too many people are dating for all the wrong reasons. Those who are worthy, just not connecting how they should. (Yes, like me. *sniff* j/k.)

Beyond that, the other major detail attacked with dating, be true to yourself. Way too many people are also trying to be who they are not.

Now, there is a good strong match possibility out there for me who I’ve had a very enjoyable time with last night. I’ll just let time and our continuing conversations see if that could be the case. I’ll force no one to make a decision they don’t want to. Don’t want to jinx anything, so I’ll just leave it at this for now.

So my weak points in life are love and money. No big fan of any type of asinine behavior either. As far as money goes, I’m never about it. I care too much more preserving the good personality of any individual out there. Money to me is just a number, paper and ink, an idea in our heads. It is but material to possess. There is no ethics to it. There are no mannerisms, no personal traits or qualities; that is all on us. I don’t hate an inanimate object; I just hate what this representation has done to humanity itself. We’ve gone as far as end life itself over the damn thing. I’m just having my rights and freedoms impended upon by not getting the cooperative help to remove my debts and support myself and others who I care for. When money starts becoming an oppressor, well, this is when the life crisis starts kicking in. To the degree of even wars being declared. This too is uncalled for.

Okay granted, if just one of these oil companies let me have the whole profit of a 90 day period, I would end up spreading it around so much that I would still leave nothing for me. Though I would much prefer to spread the bank interest around like mad nonstop. I’ll show you all how to boost and economy. Instead of that small bribe which we all know is just paying into one bill we all already have. I’m not rich through material possession. I am rich through knowing the greatest people around. Poetry wise, friend wise, even parent wise.

This is my big discovery as of late. I can only be the embodiment of goodness. Evil is just not in my blood. I can think evil. I can write about evil. At this point, I respect why evil exist and hope to keep evil in check by knowing how it works. I myself cannot do or succumb to evil. I may at times feel suicidal, it won’t ever happen. My energy doesn’t work that way. I may even at times wish to beat this planet down within an inch of its life for allowing itself to be so damn blind to our own ignorance. Besides being physically impossible, I would prefer to teach, preach, or guide how to self humble yourself, so this doesn’t need to even be considered on this planet.

I am in top control of my own personality, and what is in my power to control. I only suffer in the areas that rely on other peoples control to allow me or permit me to do what I want, desire, and even need to do. I’ll just keep fighting the good fight, even if my actions never reward me with the evils of money, debt, or cost in this world. I know I am rewarded by still meeting people who respect my goodness over my evil or demons.

These are the cards I am dealt with and what I chose to play out. So I see human sexuality differently than the stereotypes that get imbedded on a borderline conspiracy level. It even got me into trouble, but that trouble lead me down a more right path that I would not have discovered before. It was and event in my life that had to happen. Now I am the one in control of what and how things should effect me, not the vice versa. Probably have more of a great personality now, still filling in a major social void that did form in my life, and still fight to strive to be the best person I can ever be, regardless of the situations this world tosses at me.

I only ask to be able to be the actual independent man that I am raised to be. To finally hit my goals of living on my own and having a wonderful woman by my side. The last of my incomplete puzzle in life. If you don’t like me, or what I am truly about, then just stay out of my way. I am meant more to someone else then who does need to hear what I know, what I do observe in this life, and what should be done, even only through recommendation that falls onto deaf ears. These blogs are my rights, my freedom of speech, and even my civil duty.

The garbage aspects of sex offense screwed me over; I now chose to fight back. You reserve to know the truths before the crimes should ever happen. You reserve the rights to know the truths and the laws in how they are written. You reserve the rights to have an opinion, to be an individual, and to make your own decisions in life. Sex offense and peoples lack of well being should not be a job security measure. It should not be some probably psychological terrorist tactic. It should not be used as a weapon against people or making men the minority for once. I refuse to sit by being a blind ignorant eye to it all. I won’t ever support rape or murder. I won’t ever support the abuse or manipulation of empowerment. All people are created equal means just that. EVERYONE IS EQUAL WITH THEIR OWN UNIQUE FLAVOR AND SPIN. This means the hate and lack of education needs to stop. This means the lack of care and lack of invested interest in others must stop. This means creating a better supportive community and society, without making every way doing so impossible or shot down. What does the majority of the reality of people as a whole think, believe, feel, and know for fact? That is what needs to happen.

That, which does not kill me, makes me only stronger. I am far from dead my friends. I obviously have a lot of work ahead of me as well. I thank all who read my blogs thoroughly and is supportive to me in any means possible.

Be good, be strong and be safe. Peace.

Want to preserve existence? part 2, attitude.

2008-03-30T09:15:00.003-04:00

Want to Preserve Existence? Part 2. Attitude.

Now my week is over of not so happy to hear news, having a tooth pulled, amongst other nonsense, time to kick my blogs into high gear. I disclaimer now, I know for a fact I am a victim of what I write out in full detail, thus why I am doing so, to end the victimizing idea of it at least. Usually say preach, or teach, it becomes all the same. Plus, it does help for a great intro to today’s blog.

They say attitude is everything. It can be; the right attitude of course. Wrong and bad attitude can end in nothing, as in kiss existence goodbye. Thanks to things like nuclear technology, we are all one attitude problem away from being no more. Yes. This should be a huge problem and you should be scared of such an idea.

The one major point I will point out when it comes to the attitude of living itself is this simple. You simply have to control and keep your attitude in a positive direction. Or what would be argued as having the right attitude.

A lot of today’s problems stem from wrong attitudes, not being thoughtful or caring towards others, and loosing sight of being considerate to anything different than what you may be use to. So no matter what the walk of life consist of, being religion, sexual preference, sexual point of views, politics, race or nationality, work, employment, law and justice, family, money, etc.; what you think and perceive is unique to yourself. But what you perceive is, key word using, based on you.

They say too many cooks spoil the soup. So guess what happens when you got too many people saying how life should be? Here are my pointers for supporting a better attitude to keep our good existence going.

Just be respectful of differences. Diversity exists for a reason. What works for one person may not work for another person. Just because some idea doesn’t work or fly with you, does not mean it should not ever exist at all. There are a couple billion people on this planet. I am sure someone out there will have it in their heads your way to live should not exist at all.

Just because something exists, does not mean it has to apply to you at all. Pornography is the simplest example I can give here. Just because there is porn, does not mean the porn industry ever has to apply to you. Granted this won’t do me any favors for my own services in my name. The honesty in me points this out.

Just because it isn’t your own specific details on life, does not mean those other details should never exist. This is where I point out religion. Now let me just disclaimer now, there a as said earlier, a few billion people on this planet. I don’t know who all reads into anything, but please don’t pelt me with claims of insulting your religion or religions beliefs when I would not even know who you are, what your religion is, or how touchy anyone can be on the subject. This is just my observation and pointing out what has been taught to me as historical facts. Christian religion is one of the more top culprits here. After all, it is a missionary religion, spreading the good word of god. What has happened is how this point of view exists and what the belief means gets contorted and attacked throughout the course of time. Familiar with a game called ‘Whisper Down the Lane?’ Fairly similar concept, since there is a huge era of history that is before writing. How you see religion will be different than how someone else sees religion. Is there necessary a right or wrong way to all of this? Maybe, or maybe not. It is your own attitude of what makes you being you, that allows others to either want to share in your belief, or these days, curse you out and make you go away. To put it nicely. Your details to life apply to you, other peoples details of life apply to them. Why fight to make your details in life right and their details in life wrong?

Since my focus is about ending sex offense, let me make these attitude pointers.

No means no. This is just a beginning. If you are upon the no people, for lack of a better description, you can’t play games of maybe’s, then turning around making no’s after misleading into yes’s. While no means no, there is another side to this which is for those who want to be yes people to sex, it is just a fair to not impend on their own rights. Yes means yes just has a different set of rules and guidelines to them. But you should know for a fact where you stand. Be willing to learn and educate yourself on the whole view of the other side of what you already decided. Also, just be respectful all around. There is a lot of crap that goes on with sexual view, and it is enough to attack existence, either personally or in mass groups to even the planet itself. Why go there and is there really a point starting to go there to begin with?

Seeing how long this is becoming, let me simplify the rest. Self ownership and responsibility is what has been lost with this modern era. A lot of hate that exist seems to be for nothing more but simple short term ego boost. Greed is an attitude that will kill this planet, starting by oppressing sections of society enough where unfavorable, not so peaceful decisions will have to start being made. The male ego may have a domination factor to it, the female ego more of a submissive, does not mean men have a green light to just be careless and uncaring to women. Nor women to just let themselves not hold control or let themselves being dominated. (There are right and wrong ways to exercise these attitudes. Once again, controlling ownership and self responsibility, not controlling fear or paranoia or threatening life.) Last regards to sex. The average male orgasm is 7 seconds long. Is that 7 seconds of life really worth the drama, the ego boost, the threatening of a women’s well being, to attacking culture and even existence itself?

Attitude is everything when we all exercise a right attitude. Sure, is there really any right or wrong, since it is all about perception argument? Well, that will be my next blog with this title theme to it. Since the answer to that question is yes and no.

Attitude, just like money, can break and destroy all that is good on this planet. Without control of these aspects of life, they just threaten life itself. This should be seen as a problem, and even a crisis.

So be good, be strong and be safe faithful readers. I’ll be blogging overloading today to play catch up for all the days I did not get something out.

Peace.

Want to Preserve Existence? pt. 1. money

2008-03-24T13:23:00.001-04:00

So Would You Like to Preserve Existence? Part 1, Money.

While my current problems haven’t been making feel like being one of the best, I’m never truly down and out for long. Still, today’s society of people will need to keep in balance emotions, livings being earned, a health family life, a healthy social life, and overall balance to living.

My current problems also have me so un-focus, I can barely keep anything in order anymore these days. I like the reports of greed going to make everything too expensive for people to deal with these days. Here are some thoughts on how to keep control of our overall life situations.

This may also be a many blog process.

Money.

The government is helping too many people anymore properly representing them. There was a whole era of no taxation without representation, probably shot to hell these days. I don’t think there has ever been an era where conspiracy could be so obvious and still people can’t fight such power. Prices are on the rise, paychecks are not. Heck, there is no guarantee anyone can earn money, just guarantee you will have no choice but to spend it.

Some rules to start enforcing once again to better what can become disastrous on too many levels.

Tell your state representatives where and how you demand where your tax dollars go.

Start demanding to see the budgets and how money is being spend by our representing government.

Write to your congress people what your concerns are in our society.

Anybody who we vote in, we can also vote out. Do not fear exercising this right.

Have laws pass that entitle people a right to an income source. Follow this up with every law that demands people to spend money (insurance is the best example of laws I can think of on the spur of the moment), a law must be past and enforced people’s rights to earn money.

If need to be, LEVEL THE COST PLAYING FIELD! Even if we must iron fist this definition and execute those on the spot who resist too much. Make and enforce our economy to use basically what they do in video games such as a Final Fantasy or a Dragon Quest. (We just don’t have the means to bop slimes on the head for a couple of coins.)

CEASE WITH THE HIGH PRICE TAGS! The cost of a new car is more than some people’s yearly salary. The costs of some homes are more than what anyone can see in a lifetime. While I got no problem with people making a profit or earning a living, I find it very bothersome how much we’ve piled rules and laws to make this harsh to almost impossible to maintain.

Right now money and economy are enough to drive this society (or any other society) into a potential civil war. This is the danger level and crisis level people better start seeing what both of these things mean in this life, and on this planet.

While I prefer to not ever go down roads that will lead to bad everything on all people’s behalves, I won’t ignore evil just because I just rather say it won’t happen. I’m sensing just insanity and madness ready to implode in on everyone. Money is still just a number and an idea in our heads. The only reason why economy exists at all is because there is a human race, with the gift of reasoning, living on this planet.

Of course both money and economy will cease to exist without the human race. (Upon many other factors as well.) Since I prefer living and enjoying being human, I rather the human race to keep existing and life being well balanced.

Now, I realize this really doesn’t have a whole lot to do with ending sex offense. I am sure that if this world current financial chaos does not regain control, I am pretty sure one of the last things on peoples minds will be sex. The stress, worry, and just trying to survive and see a tomorrow will override any loving urges. Granted this is just like the joke of if your hand hurts too badly, let’s take a hammer to your foot and you won’t feel your hand anymore.

I’m also quite sure of seeing the potential dangers of a rise in sexual deviant behaviors as well, since oppressive stress from one angle may just as well heighten problems from another angle.

IF YOU WANT TO PUT AN END WITH A LOT OF PROBLEMS ON THIS PLANET, TO BE HONEST, START WITH MONEY AND ECONOMY CONTRL!

While I am still down with the idea of making currency illegal contraband, I would simply prefer getting back to the basics of why we allowed money to exist to begin with. Oh, well, in the USA at least, I do know how to make this happen where there will be no choice but to start developing a system to live without money. I don’t believe a need to go there either. Let’s just regain control of our livelihood the easy way, when peace does still exist. Verses the hard way, which becomes take this said offer or die.

The real question becomes can humanity actually learn to save itself WITHOUT the threat of life or even existence as a whole? Right now this passive oppressive warfare of uncaring greed is the first that must stop and disappear.

Welcome to earth, I hope you enjoy your stay.

2008-03-17T10:03:00.001-04:00

That Overall Picture

Ever ponder about the big picture? No, not that picture that some stick in the mud, non-budging from their position in life ego wants you to see. I’m talking about the whole, whole picture. Earth’s continuing existence itself?

Probably not, since we’ve been trained now to only care about the short immediate comings. I’m also not talking about any Armageddon coming around either. Well, I prefer not to be thinking about it as Armageddon. But this is why I fear for my own self and well being these days, which I think on peaceful overhauls to truly prevent such nonsense from ever taking head.

Here is the bottom line. I do mean bottom of all bottom lines. This bottom line grows beyond Nation, beyond religion, beyond thought and emotion, beyond money, beyond economy, in truth; it is the bottom line that grew beyond it all. There are but two things in this whole world of earth’s existence that can not be changed by anyone. Not by law, not by money, not by oil and their companies, not by technology (and not without getting too freaky sci-fi), and not even the bible can change these two given things.

Survival, and mortality.

I should flip those since it is easier to talk about my point in reverse of that order.

Mortality. What does the richest person on earth and the most homeless broke bum have in common? Exactly. Here is the one thing to remember about being mortal. It does not matter how important you call yourself, or how you make yourself out to be. It does not matter what labels you apply to you. It does not even matter what life choices you make, what opinions you accept and don’t accept, or even how good or poor or evil you choose to live your life. You will forever be mortal. You will eventually die. On the basic physical fact level, that is all there is too it.

On the spiritual level, this is where it matters in mortality how you live. If we want to live that whole brought into this world, have our place and purpose in the earning lifestyle, have children, have grandchildren, and move onward after living a full life; people, we HAVE TO, HAVE TO, HAVE TO do a much better job being a better open minded society, accepting differences, allowing people to learn from mistakes and let people earn their own spot, find their own balance in life, and draw their own enlightenment conclusions in life. What this means is stop earning your position in life by taking other peoples positions in life away from them. And I am not talking by the hour or salary jobs either. I should move on to my second point.

Survival. One thing humanity always does is survive. Think of the wars we already pulled through, won or loss. Think of the eras in life and what changes got made already. Think of the freedom movements that already happen, the histories that we all prevailed over, and even the eras of life that should have killed off the human race. World War 2 could have had a different outcome, in a mere 6 month either direction waiting time on Germany’s part. Right now you could probably only be alive as a German yourself with no imperfections worshiping the fuehrer. Let’s go back even further in history. The black plague. What we have now in medical history did not exist ever back then.

The human race knows all about survival. What is attacking survival now-a-days is of all things, greed, money, and the power we think we all have when it comes to money and the economy. Rather this bleeds into health insurance and care, rising gas prices, job security (insecurity on some perspectives), or anything in regards to money, economy, earning a living, or even being handed a living. Here is the other HAVE TO, HAVE TO, HAVE TO get a much better grip on. We’ve grown to sadistic and masochist for anyone’s good. Celebrity news, reports on running for government positions, this list can go on forever. Rather it is from chauvinistic behavior to women’s rights movement, racism, religion arguments and extremes, the ever growing criminal society (which I am trying to prevent the basic level of sex crimes from happening), any view we have with sex for all over or under 18, what people earn, what people demand other people to spend, etc. Our modern society is finally attacking today’s modern survival.

YOU ARE NO MORE a democrat or republican or on some wing or any other label you can put on yourself as YOU ARE a creation brought into this world, god’s or otherwise. You, me, everyone is human first.

Since this blog could go on almost forever for me, let me wrap up by saying this. It is time to start making better overall human decisions. It starts with your self. Be above and beyond every influence there is. Make yourself great not by demanding to be emulated, but by living through a positive example of what you care to emulate. This will in turn allow others to want to follow and their shining greatness will grow. They will allow even more people to want to do the same and then you have finally a prosperous and productive society that, from what I’ve gathered and been told, is already how we want life to be. We can’t demand life out of people; we must allow life to discover itself.

Humans are why everything today has its existence. From the bible to oil. From art, poetry, and wood carvings to ipod’s, cell phones, computers and the internet. From every belief that will ever exist. Even from sea to shining sea. It takes some elbow grease to keep alive all the qualities in life that we want to be shining and want to be known for. It will take cooperation to keep and preserve peace. It will take accepting differences that are not of our own perspective. It will take some overhauling on what and how we think today to preserve a better tomorrow. It takes a rise of spirit, a rise above whoever and whatever tries to keep you down, it even takes a helping guiding hand of forgiveness for those who cannot see and need to see a light to escape what they cannot comprehend is always theirs to escape.

Modern ways in ignorance, greed, stupidity, self absorbed behaviors, egos, attitudes, label callings, and anything else negative will just attack survival and mortality.

Refocusing our modern ways into support, respect, love, care, taking interest, being helping or guiding hands, controlling what humankind created to begin with, updating our ways, thoughts, and laws so everyone can have a chance to live, thrive, and grow; this is what we must do to preserve our survival and mortality.

For now, there is just too much negative news, too many wrong ideas, and too many people being left out of a very small yet dominating box which is our modern society of today. Still, we are at a time of peace and CAN DO SOMETHING, STARTING TODAY, about all these attacks on people’s overall well being.

I recognize evil. I respect evil’s knowing existence. I RATHER BE DAMNED THAN LET EVIL WIN OR HAVE its WAY UPON EVERYONE. Some would say I am already damned. I prefer to say THAT IS BECAUSE YOU ARE IMPENDING ON MY RIGHTS AND FREEDOMS TO NOT BE DAMNED.

Let’s unite and regain control of our modern lives people. I’m choosing to be successful and supportive to all. I’m just stuck in making this allowed decision alone and just need the right assistance to escape my own problems, which aren’t much to be honest, just made bigger than what they need to be. I’ll blog next time recommended suggestions on how to preserve our survival, our mortality, and our peace with what is all going on today.

So please, be good, be strong and be safe my good faithful readers. Keep the good fights alive. Peace.

Short Story: A Conversation Between Speck of Dust and Universe.

2008-03-13T21:49:00.002-04:00

Wrote a short story this time for all to enjoy. Slightly different from what I've been blogging, but just as important to my cause none the less. Hope everyone enjoys. I know the opening line is mainly from a Calvin and Hobbs comic strip I once read. Can't tell you the origins beyond that. It holds a nice enough reminder lesson for us all. Especially myself. Take care now and enjoy my short story. -----> Viodragon.

A Conversation Between Speck of Dust and Universe.

“I am significant!!!!!” Cries out the speck of dust to the vast universe.

“I know you are,” replied the Universe.

“Universe! You’re finally responding back to me!” A tear rolls down the face of Speck of Dust.

“Because I know you finally need to hear what I must say.”

“Oh Universe. I fight too hard to be ahead in my life and so many keep throwing me back. I’m tired of feeling insignificant.”

“That my friend is their mistake. Like I said, I know you are significant.”

Speck of Dust has a realization, “Are you god?”

“It is but one name that I accept. Universe is fine, for your sake.”

Speck of Dust smile. “Thank you.”

“You’re welcome. Now chin up while down there. I know you are in difficulty fighting to make a difference. I know you are not having luck on this planets financial front. I know you feel so back into a corner that you cannot escape and this make you feel like you are drowning and suffocating. Think of the meaning you do have, instead of the meaning that isn’t your own to mean.”

“Wow Universe. Can you please elaborate on what you mean?”

“I know you are not about money. For money only represents the material possessions of your planet. You yourself are above and beyond already what they should mean. Look at the faces you bring smiles to. Look at the people whose hearts you do warm. Those who know the whole truth about you, rather than only one aspect about you. Look at those who do matter and bring meaning to your life. Sure you might not be able to make them rich. Your warm presence is already a deeper value than all the money that can exist to them. Sure you might not be able to take care of yourself, where the world you live in fights even harder to keep anyone taking care of themselves on that financial level of yours. You already have the spirit to take care of the world without any wealth. It is your love for life that is already more significant than everything physical on your planet today. It is your hope and desire that keeps you from sacrificing your greatness that you do bring to the world you live in. It is your strong passion to do what is right and fix the many might wrongs that have occur that will take you above and beyond as you hope.”

A warmth flows over Speck of Dust, hearing what it is they needed to hear.

“Speck of Dust. You have always been destining for great things. For those around you are those who will matter to you the most. They will guide you in your times of troubles, as you will be the guide and shining light in their own times of troubles. You may not have the material evidence, but you already are successful beyond success, for making the conscious decision to always to what is right, to always do what is best, and to always make the differences where differences are needed the most. You bring smiles and love to those who need to see it. You provide meaning and insight where meaning and insight did not exist before. You lead through living example instead of demand. You are indeed a bright pupil of significance. Never forget this.”

“What is rightfully yours Speck of Dust will rightfully come to you. Those who matter will know your truth, and your truth will carry those who matter to new heights, bring you with them. The insignificance that blinds you now will be your tools to significance and insight for your own future and the future of others. Never give up the hopeful fight Speck of Dust. Never give up the hopeful fight.”

“Oh thank you Universe! Thank you! I know what I must do now. I only pray others will let me and help me succeed. But thank you! A thousand times thank you!”

“Oh thank you significant Speck of Dust. I will leave you now to carry out what it is you must do for yourself, and others. Be good, be strong and be safe dear Speck of Dust. May peace be always with you.”

No matter how big or small anything in this world may seem, it all will always hold, and have meaning. Never forget your meaning, to yourself, and to others.

Critics, hypocrites, and know it alls. Their dangers in numbers.

2008-03-11T15:58:00.001-04:00

Critics, Hypocrites, and Know-It-Alls.

Besides reality beating me within an inch of my life, I enjoy the story of a New York Governor caught up in a prostitution scandal which may be jeopardizing his career.

Let’s clear a little air here first. This is a world where everyone reaps what they sew, no exception, even if people attempt to bend around to make exceptions. If someone chooses to be a prostitute, that is on them. I personally don’t care about prostitute either way. I’m not earning the money to ever be with one. They would be better off not costing so damn much. Heck, how about paying me 200 per hour of my own time without any sex involved and let’s see who talks then. If you truly want prostitution to disappear, it has to start by losing our major attitude with human sexuality. Try supporting a better healthier relationship with others for starters. Also would help if you paid people their worth instead of constantly letting the greedy get richer and the poor get poorer.

It’s not a bad lead in to today’s long overdue blog. Three types of people in this world who create danger. Critics, hypocrites, and know it alls.

Critics – They can be the easiest to deal with. There is a saying opinions are just like orifice number 2, everybody has one. (You’re welcome FCC.) Thus critical people can just be shrugged off. The dangers of a critic are any critical person demanding that their point of view is right, even must be demanding law. Well this is nice and all fine and dandy, but who the hell are you to demand your opinion or your perception of life to be the perception of the whole entire planet? This mistake is common in the regards of television or radio executives, religious extremist, and anyone who takes on a strong heighten point of view (KKK for example). Such critical people tend to take their views a bit too far and can wind up becoming the next point in this blog lesson.

Hypocrites – Simply put critics who lie about their own beliefs, to a degree. The New York Governor is being called a hypocrite with his actions in being involved in some prostitution ring. Our society and our planet to a degree get stuck into a perpetual hypocrite state. Here we are the land of the free, home of the brave, united we stand. Yet, we are charging people impossible to cover rates, having debt expand beyond reason, too many people not able to stand up for themselves and force into taking least problematic situation, piled laws on top of laws where heads just start spinning, and not to mention more ways to divide people that anyone can shake a stick at. Political divisions, belief divisions, religions divisions, sexual preference divisions, coming up to divisions upon the youth, people with criminal records, racial divisions, etc. At what point will we prove that enough is enough already? To summarize as simple as I can make it, IF you are not building the androids to run everything with picture perfection, stop impending on those who have whatever imperfections and human discoveries they must deal with. Who you see and who steps up to the plate is who you get to choose from and deal with. Everyone seems to want all this perfection, yet the only support to it all is complaining about the imperfections when they don’t exist. This becomes a problem when you get caught up in your selections and decisions in life.

Last but not the least.

Know-it-alls – These are people who are dangerous on the level of knowing what they want and choose to know, and will stop at nothing to make their in their head perceptions the only knowledge allowed possible. People who know what they want to know, rather than an open minded truth. They know one detail vs. the overall picture. Care about a destructive negative vs. any good positives that may be true with other people. Their satisfactions end up being short term, or quick fixes, they become endangering and border line breaking laws themselves to keep their all knowing knowledge alive. Simply put, they are just being complete asses about who they are and what they are all about. Know it alls are a bit separate from critics and hypocrites, but are just as equally dangerous because of how they demand to know things, where if they put such energy into better positive solutions to life problems, would not ever need to even go there to begin with.

One example of a dangerous knows it all would be someone obsessing over what is on Megan’s Law website. Other kinds of know it alls would be religions extremist, people obsess with crying race or prejudice, really knit picking at the smallest of details to make someone’s life living hell. Those types of people.

I just want to wrap up that the need to break down others to simply build yourself up has to stop. Trust me, if we don’t get a better grip with the economy, letting people be employed, relationships with other people, and making life better, more positive, more worthy, and more respectful place to live. Well, the good old days of prostitution scandals, vocabulary terms you don’t want to hear, even the human naked form being the worst thing this world dealt with; is just one of those eras of life I would rather never see.

So please keep up the better positive support, keep fighting the good fight, don’t hinder those who are getting the help they need or deserve, and just band together united against all this bull crap which is killing and threatening existence as a whole, if you think about it.

Be good, be strong, be safe and keep the supporting faith alive. Peace.

2008-03-06T20:50:00.000-05:00

Pardon the Delay.

Sorry for taking so long in getting out a recent blog. My life has been a little chaotic lately. I did get more hours of work in this week which is a good thing. I just feel like a mess otherwise.

Today’s quick cut and dry lesson. Listening to the news and hearing about our economy and knowing my own current financial corner I got backed into, I’ve not been in the greatest of moods of course as of late. Here is the flat bottom line. IF YOU WANT PEOPLE TO SPEND THE LEVELS OF MONEY LIKE YOU ARE DEMANDING, YOU HAVE TO LET THEM EARN THE LEVELS OF MONEY YOU WANT THEM TO SPEND.

I love how people talk about all this like it is a rocket science. The real problem to me is this. If our own society cannot maintain a better control over earn income to expenditure ratio, you will witness some real ugly behavior that will definitely be illegal to flat out borderline war level.

What we are all witnessing is what greed and ignorance can do to society and life. This is why gun violence is on the up (despite a theory of it being a fad, and some things in life I would not recommend calling fads, personally speaking), you will witness more sex crimes occurring, peoples stress levels will be on the up, more sickness going and spreading around, and who knows what else society can conjure up in levels of hatred.

Money is becoming oppression. Do I really need to remind anyone why oppression is very bad and ill gotten in this country? I am begging for one of these candidates to do the mathematics and get this whole economical situation turned around. Or at the very least, help provide solutions to current problems. Including knowing grant money to spread around and allow people to earn. (As in won money, not to be taxed, to remove debt levels or take care of modern necessities like vehicles, health cost, dentist cost, etc.)

The expectancy levels are very high but the supports to these expectancies are harder to find than a needle in a stack of needles. We must get better programs in full running swing. This insanity will be beyond turning back destructive if people don’t tread carefully. While I myself would rather stand still until dead myself, since I can’t tolerate evil on all levels. I will recognize that without stronger and better support to all people without any excuses to keep everyone in a productive supportive society, let me just say I don’t want to hear about it since to me, people have been warned.

Stop with the lack of support or answers to major questions and concerns and do be better directing in solving problems.

Do all live better and happier lives and keep fighting the good fight.

Be good, be strong and be safe my faithful readers. I’ll try to be back on track more often.

Peace.

More personal venting, more positive this time.

2008-03-03T14:51:00.000-05:00

Some positive venting this time.

I figure this time to get out some frustration in a much better lime light.

If you hate me, fine. Life still goes on. I am sure you can live your life without me. I am already living my life without you. No sense interrupting my livelihood or your livelihood over some attitude either you or I need to have.

I know life isn’t perfect. This also means I don’t go out of my road to add to such imperfections. We did not start the fires, remember. So stop fueling them!

I love how people expect me to spend money, yet have no answers when it comes to me earning the money they demand me to spend. WTF?!?!?!?! I should start charging a flat rate to anyone with such expectancy. This way I will have the funds to pay out what you seem to expect me to pay!

I love how some novelties are now necessities. There is no liable option to not driving a car. There is no liable option to not having health insurance (or any insurance for that matter.) There is no liable option to not having but a cell phone on you. How about it is not a liable option to ever make anyone unemployed. It is not an option to ever have anyone earn less than a salary pay of 65 g per year. It is not a liable option to increase the cost to ANYTHING AND EVERYTHING so the cost even excels over what 65,000 a year can cover. Even after taxes.

When you own oil, make profit margins more than what whole entire states can ever earn in a year. Cough up some of your ignorant greed you overcharging f’s. You know damn right well people work way too hard for your sorry fat asses to live on easy street. If you want people to spend the money, ya all kind of gotta let the people earn the money ya all want them to spend! Ya hear?! (Seeing how well this economy seems to be doing, I’ll take that as a no.)

Of course I love the idea of being rich and tossing those riches around to my friends. Can’t do so if my initial do-please-make-me-rich investments don’t ever go anywhere. Excuse me for not already having the funds that I seek to EARN FIRST before spending those funds.

From this point forward, any business opportunity out there must pay me $50,000 just to hear them out. If their service already works, then they should have no problem paying me such a fee. After all, this should be the equivalent to a quarter in an arcade with what they should be rolling in. So cough up my fee or just have a good day, never bothering me with your nonsense and crap ever again.

I was born the wrong gender. No one will pay me to be naked for 8 hours of my time. So how can I be supportive and help pay women for doing the same. Now don’t get me wrong, I would have no problem being able to earn my money in such sets a thousands that a hundred here or there did not matter. Even take note how there is no chauvinistic belief coming out of me of supporting single moms in this. I know not all strippers are single moms. That’s just a bad stereotype. I also know strippers are still human who choose to make that their job and more power to them. Still can’t really be upon the supportive entertainment field of such if people don’t help pay me first.

Oh believe me, I will have every intention passing along the buck and boosting this economy if I ever earn more than what I would need. No one else seems to have the balls to be doing so. May as well stick it to the greedy, sucking up the tax payer’s money, life and soul of everything that does make life worth wild.

AS FAR AS BEING IMPORTANT GOES. Bullshit is still bullshit. Just because you call bullshit important does not stop it from being bullshit. Also, being god’s leading attitude problem to bullshit doesn’t change it all from still being bullshit. Live and let live people. Just because you can’t deal with bullshit does not mean EVERYONE ON THE PLANET HAS TO BE THE SAME! Their problems are their problems, your problems are yours, and my problems are mine. Life still always goes on now doesn’t it?

Hate is wasted energy. If you ever realize why you hate to begin with, you would end up hating yourself for being so stupid. So stop the hating. It’s pathetic and unbecoming as well.

I choose to be positive. I choose to live my life to the fullest. I choose to not need to live in regret, even if there are actions about me that can be regrettable. I choose to be a productive norm of society. I choose to earn my living. I choose to prove my hard earn living should also work hard for me. I choose to be a good person. I choose to make a difference any way I can. I choose to be positive and supportive and choose to put others even before me. I choose to love. I choose to care. I choose to succeed.

SO PLEASE! STOP TAKING MY CHOICES IN LIFE AWAY FROM ME!

I also realize existence itself is allowed to happen at all. So why attack what we are all so blessed to be having in the first place. I choose to be humble and discipline and have the courage and energy to back off when I need to. I choose to be a voice in this society and world, to end what oppresses people in great droves, even if we forget to recognize what they mean. I choose to preserve everyone’s freedom. No price tag included. So I falter in the realm and world of money. So I even falter in the realm and world of love. I will not give up being the best person who I can ever be, just because I don’t ‘fit in’ with some one else’s ideal ways of life.

With love, the good guys finish last. If people save the best for last, man, I must be god’s greatest gift to ever exist for some lucky woman out there ever!

So down with the hate. Down with the ignorance. Down with the asinine and chauvinistic behavior. Down with not employing people. Down with greed, and stress, and having no answers. Down with the evils to this world. Once and for all.

IT SHOULD NOT HAVE TO BE MY FAULT YOU SUCK!
I only need to deal with those who rock! *raspberries*

Be good, be strong and be safe. Even if it seems like no one wants you to be upon that. Be good, be strong and be safe. Peace.

"Cost" in more ways than one.

2008-02-28T22:06:00.000-05:00

Many different levels of “cost”

At least I am starting to get over my cold. I think it’s breaking finally. I’ve also just got done reading an online article about how just more than 1 out of every 100 Americans is living in prison. Not exactly the best of articles to be reading. Only sparked something mentioned to me by my psychiatrist that a lot of crime seems to be a fad. (I can think of better fads to be apart of, I wouldn’t put any money down in keeping criminal behavior a fad.)

What will pain me more is thinking out many of these crimes can easily be prevented by supporting a better standard to keeping people wanting to be free. They did mention in the article how a couple of states are considering keeping the jails for the violent offenders while keeping the low risk offenders out and apart of the tax payer’s society.

As mentioned in previous blogs, our society is no longer natural where people can keep up without fear or concern of doing something they can regret. This is a prime result of our modern society running away from us. Also the result of some form of oppression. Rather someone prevents someone else from working, knowing what they need to know, getting the financial assistance they need, etc. All these things when not working in our favor can lead to unsavory outcomes. Even on today’s news is the mentioning of how bad our economy is (I’ll ignore how our President thinks it isn’t as bad as we think.)

People right now are having a tough time just making ends meet. We are witnessing the idea of earning a living to be basically a blatant lie. This will only cause society to become more dangerous than what it already is.

Of course sex offense will play apart of these fears. I think way too many people are overestimating the cost of living and underestimating what the cost is to live. Plus we forget the cost when people are denied their ability to live and survive. This is not a way to live people. Granted it is all human judgment and error why any of it exist, still, I rather make a stand to stop a ration of 1 out of every 99.1 people are behind bars in this country. What will we expect when we see that number becoming 1 out of every 70 people? 50 people? 10 people? 2?

I hope our world does not become that.

Just remember that cost pertains to more than just a numerical digit, money.

So stay healthy faithful readers. Do keep being supportive of me.

Be good, be strong and be safe. Peace.

Just personal me since I'm sick.

2008-02-25T23:33:00.000-05:00

More Personal on Goings.

Well, running a fever and head is all stuffy. Thus my thought process of course is all shot. Got this cold from shoveling snow before last weekend. I can’t really win. I’ve been either in pain or sick for the past 9 days now. I would enjoy a solid not sick, no pain day for once. Even something this simple may seem too much to ask for.

Still no luck in loan consolidation. Also no luck that my efforts and energies in doing these blogs are starting to pay off for me. Especially since I really, really could use them to.

I am only tired of being lied to and being told promises that don’t happen or occur. I fight way too hard to remain a good person always striving to do the right thing, to end up unrewarded for my efforts and energies. I love the idea of going out of my way for others. It’s what makes be the best person who I can be. This is just one of those bad months where too much of my expensive stuff had to happen to me before I was ready for it to happen. So now I got my back into a corner and no light for now to escape it. Which is sad and sickening at the same time.

How did it become too much to ask for a solid steady job to keep me more than afloat, a decent life and a good way to take care of myself be too much to ask for, I dunno. Somehow this became the case. I’m already scarred enough psychologically by hate alone, I rather not have to add the phrase, “I’m not allowed,” to that. But this is why I would bring up how dangerous our world turning into a permission base only world can become.

Life itself is more than a right or a privilege, it’s a given. Our modern society is a very shallow box format of a society that doesn’t always include everyone and does leave some people out in the cold. This is why we must open up our minds and be better acceptance to the large amounts of diversity that exist. Support the commonalities in the forms of respect, gratitude, understanding, and all the usual give and take needed to make society thrive. When you make everything a dog eat dog competition, what do you anticipate? What I’m witnessing at least is the larger amount of gun violent stories, hit and runs, higher levels of identity theft, a major attack on honesty in this world, too many people being a-holes to other people, the list just goes on.

Have we really lost that much insight to being a better supportive nation? More importantly, when do these matters at hand become important to you? When it effects you directly? When you have no other choice? When someone else takes it upon themselves to demand you to make it matter or die?

I see it as my civil duty to point out these issues before any of those things occur. Life has almost too many demands to be on top of. Without a system that supports our modern society where everyone can and will thrive in a not so small box in society, then of course you are looking at a form of mass destruction. The type that isn’t boom, game over.

Anyways, no matter what hell I feel like I am going through, I will never give up being who I am. That’s another given. I can’t live alone, despite how much this world loves me to keep trying. Right now I’ll accept anything to make the financial headaches be better, a government grant, my loans consolidated, donations, a major hitting of my services, full time employment with good pay, anything really.

I also accept the fastest way to get rid of a chest cold, runny nose and fever. Nothing sucks worst than being sick. Well, for now. So hopefully I will heal and something will roll in my favor very soon. I’m just tired of being screwed over by those of empty promises while fighting to keeping the good fight alive and well. Sorry for trying to live up to good standards, even if I did slip up along the way. I picked up quite nicely though, minus hate pushing me out of a good job and line of work. But the karma train knows how to roll.

(Maybe I should work on my road rage. That could help.) Also welcome to the problems that will happen with earth having too much population. (And yes, overpopulation of this planet can be problematic.)

Be good, be strong, be safe, and be healthy and better supportive to all.

Peace.

What happens when people can't win.

2008-02-24T13:53:00.002-05:00

Becoming a Can’t Win Society.

I am just batting a thousand this year, I say sarcastically. No good deed goes unpunished. Went to shovel the snow this past Friday and now have a chest cold and head congestion, again. Got to love having a fever, a nose that wants to become a mucus waterfall, all your energy zapped by being so sick, on top of a root canal that is finally ready for a crowning in a week, still not able to get my loans consolidated so it’s but one bill, not finding full time work, and still have and own a couple of ways in the adult industry, a multi-billion dollar industry not even letting me have a dime of money back.

How the heck I ended up such a mess, I may only partly know, but still, the cost of living and what people are willing to pay are starting to show their ugly head in my direction. OF course I am going to feel like I CAN’T WIN. Plus I am very far from alone in these natures.

I think it is important to point out, in some ways once again, how dangerous making our society a “can’t win society” can become.

We already get some sense by hearing the reports on how dangerous gun violence has become in our nation. Reports on violent crimes are on the up. Identity theft is sky high right now. Even watching this news report before going back to see the dentist, the automobile industry and loans for cars, how cars seem to be costing more but lasting even less in years for people.

Not too sure how much easier I can spell this out for people. Let me try this. IF YOU WANT PEOPLE TO SPEND SUCH LEVELS OF MONEY, YOU NEED TO ALLOW THEM TO EARN SUCH LEVELS OF MONEY. If any question should be asked, why we allowed a number, a numerical digit, and idea in our heads be so controlling and damaging to our world. (And yes, if you really want to boil down into the simplest denominator, its paper and ink people. Where is all this attitude coming from?)

We should be careful making too much of our society a permission basis society. People being told no too many times when it comes to trying to live life normally, end up doing the theft and the crime and we still sit back saying inexcusable when we can’t even figure out if they wanted to be a productive member of society or not.

At this rate, our comfort bubbles in life are going to be popped and it will be ugly and offensive on too many people’s behalves, but too late to do anything about it. Also remember this; our world is one bad attitude problem away from never existing again. I THINK IT IS MY CIVIL DUTY TO STOP THAT FROM EVEN BEGINNING TO HAPPEN.

Some things to consider to change this downward spiral of our society around.

Let people earn their living. Even if this has to go as far as passing a law that everyone is entitled a right to earn one source of income. I like when I hear about laws that basically demand people to spend money, yet there lacks any guarantee way for them to earn money. (Must buy life insurance, must have other insurance, etc.)

Regain control on the cost of living. I understand about letting people earn their profits, which is fine. Problem is everyone wants to make a profit and no one wants others doing the same, practically speaking. Too many greedy spoiled the soup called our society. What this means is enforcing a cheap flat rate on all the basics in life. The candidate who basically supports doing the math and get society to match that support on all levels will easily win my vote.

Live and let live. You need to concentrate on how to live your life and allow others to concentrate on how to live their own lives. Their personal problems should not be your concern. While your personal problems should not be anyone else’s concern either. Worry about your self first. Be true to yourself first. The rest should follow.

Use your time wisely and productively. If you have the time to make some one else’s life hell, you have the time to do something good in this world. This goes for all that chauvinistic behavior, people being asses to other people via dating or other means like work, picketing against and individual, making racial arguments or religious oppression argument and even committing sex crimes and other major forms of ignorance and stupidity. Try being useful and productive for once. You will be surprise how much better you can see life.

The common thread we all must live up to is general, not specific. Meaning we all can get along and not have to hate other people or disrespect other people just because of their race or religion or sexual preference or mistakes made in their past or anything else anyone can think of when it comes to oppressing other people and making them feel like crap.

It was mentioned in the third installment of the X-Men movie in the opening credits. Humans are not very well known for being ones to share life very well. Rather your hatred to others is some addiction or stereotypical norm you are living up to; this hatred does no one any favors. I rather see people back in society being productive and useful than rotting in jail or deciding to Swiss cheese as many people they can shoot at because no one wanted to toss a productive opportunity their way.

So may we all find ourselves in a better more productive and more supportive society that what we’ve been living in? While I will continue to battle not being sick and getting my regular life back into a better order once again.

Be good, be strong, be safe and be supportive now. Peace.

They Grow Up Too Quickly

2008-02-22T05:28:00.000-05:00

They Grow Up Too Quickly.

Today’s SOAP lesson is base on that news report two nights ago somewhere around my in general area, (I will keep out specifics to protect the innocent.) Basically there is a school district where the principal is not taking very seriously what 5 to 6 young boys are doing to a few of the girls in the same school. Everyone is a 6th grader, thus the age range is 10 to 11 years old. Right now there is basically just investigation going on first. The report is some of the daughters at this school are talking to their parents about being touched inappropriately and just a little beyond by their fellow classmates.

Here is how I recommend this whole situation to be handled. Let me start by mentioning hold off on any needed jail sentencing unless whoever proves that there is no other option. Some people in this world can only learn the hard way, sad enough.

It is vitally important to educate those boys on why these types of actions are wrong and what could happen to them if they continue to grow up utilizing such actions again on any girl (woman) out there. It is just as important to get those girls to understand that they have a right to speak their mind and be able to say no when any boy or guy steps out of line like that.

CONTROL, RESPECT, AND EDUCATION. As my blog today is entitled they grow up too fast, there is quite a bit of truth to this. The adolescent years of a child is when the human hormones start kicking into action. Just because we consider that age range too young does not mean they are exempt from human sexuality. Remember, if you go back enough years, (at this point beyond 300 years and then some), the adult age was basically 13 years of age. The woman had to be pregnant between the age of 10 to 14 while ending up an old maid by the age of 20. Then again, humans rarely had the opportunity to live past 30 as well. This does not go away just because there is a major advancement in our history with everything from technology to medicine.

Here is a good time to band parents and student together and explain why the current situation is wrong. Women should not need to live in fear due to social ramifications or fear of being physically abuse. Teach these young men that it is vitally important to be in control of what will be their urges and when and how releasing them can be appropriate. It could end up being just as wrong to oppress what they do not comprehend vs. giving them the correct education so they don’t make such mistakes again.

Fear and paranoia will not end sex offense. Focus, determination, education and respect will. (I could create the acronym FRED or even DERF with this. I rather not get too acronym happy. SOAP should be plenty enough.)

So please remember to remain in control what is natural to all of us. I thank all for any contributions or support of my blogs and cause.

Be good, be strong and be safe now. Peace.

Ask and ye shall receive. Let's see.

2008-02-21T13:49:00.001-05:00

Ask And Ye Shall Receive.

Well, let us see how true this is? No thanks to needing a root canal and a crown, where something happened and my cheek puffed up, I am having no luck in consolidating my bills so I got but one bill.

Obviously I am doing these blogs for two reasons, 1. Is to get my already paid for investments rolling for me, and 2. To truly help put and end to sex offense on the simplest levels that can be ended.

Since my back is against a wall now as I still try to fight out, I now ask for whatever assistance I can receive. I am going to list in order of preference what I want most in life. Take note the top of the list is earning my living.

1. A full time job, decent pay, and won’t care about me having an unfortunate criminal record, which is almost. Sorry I really cannot take away my past in this one level only, but it was an event in my life that had to happen and taught me truths (thus what I am sharing with all of you in these blogs) that I probably would not have know about otherwise and just been apart of the ignorant of this world that keeps shaking his head. I only hurt myself in reality, I REFUSE to hurt others. If you come at me with hate, I may be the one pushing charges on you. Beyond that, personal business and professional business is still kept separate by me. I work to do a job right. I can’t care about anyone’s personal life or problems. I will care enough off the time clock to hear you out, but worst case scenario, you don’t need to be involved with me and I don’t need to be involved with you. I’ll give details on offers privately, depending what gets toss my way.

2. My services to be kick started in high gear. Convince those out there to use my websites and numbers or have fun supporting my ads on Blogger. I believe having my money work for me is a good thing, but do you realize how annoying it is to be involved with a multi-billion dollar industry and this industry can’t even shine a dime back my way. (Something isn’t right with this picture.) I’m also willing to help take the abuse parts out of the porn industry to prove to people sex does not need to be a problem.

3. What I am doing now by blogging. Help me make SOAP a reality. Help me create a physical organization that will pay people to teach and educate how to be Sex Offense Awareness and Prevention. Help me stop the crimes before they begin. While sitting in the dentist office, the news had a good story I want to take on next blog, being back on track, where everyone involve is a 6th grader and what to do about that, from my knowledge. But that’s next blog. My blogging could not be enough without the word being spread enough to others. I would love nothing more than my whole career dedicated to stopping sex offense from initially happening as well as prevent other crimes from happening due to sex offense natures.

4. I’ll accept donations. You need to message me and we will talk in private whatever you feel you can donate. Heck, there been a couple stories out there of people getting a random check in the hundreds of thousands range. I’m not going to mention any numbers, since it isn’t really professional, but there are definitely college loans out there so much more worst than my overall debt. (Which really doesn’t seem like much at all.)

5. Accept access to a lawyer, who cannot be paid a dime unless I win my civil court case, against those who did push me out illegitimately from my last good paying job. Even my parents get screwed over with money investments and no one comes to our rescue when people lie to us or deceive us in empty promises or inappropriate work. Got a wonderful basement story I would share with people. Probably made this house unsellable due to the juvenile nature of their work. Plus they only wanted our money and broke some laws as well with work options. As for me, when told I have an open and shut case, but nothing to pay a lawyer with for being push out of one of my best full time jobs, and then just hearing nothing for help does not sit well with me either.

You can forget about me prostituting myself, I’m not a good body for that anyway. Even though the smallest part of me says I have no problem taking a bullet to the head and just saying well screw the living for not including me, I know I have too much to live for still and plenty to offer this world.

I have no problem earning my living. I believe in earning my living. Problem is today’s times are killing what earning a living means. I won’t argue if someone handed me what I need, but I will always prefer to earn my living and pull my own weight. I’ve been suffering being able to do this, even well before committing my crime, pulling ahead in my own life.

So here is to asking and ye shall receive. I am asking for assistance since I got back into a corner and not having any luck escaping. Time to see how well this works. I thank all for your support and reading my blogs at the very least. Time to make better things happen in this world and prove that I refuse to be but another fallen victim with no answers to escape. Thus why if anyone out there would rather me be dead, and just bite me. You won’t have your way in those regards. Besides, that attitude will just prove someone else out there wanting you dead as well, and this nice domino effect is something I much rather prevent.

Be good, be strong and be safe. Keep health and positive. You are a whole lifespan of greatness, not one aspect of failure. Never allow one aspect of your life destroy your whole life. Everyone will have something to learn from. Peace.

I needed to vent. Thanks to your patience though.

2008-02-19T15:03:00.001-05:00

F’ you vent. (We all know the f’ means fancy.) ;-)

F’ you for making me suffer.
F’ you for depriving me a dream and life.
F’ you for making excuses to oppress.
F’ you for not giving me the support I need.
F’ you for creating so much in life in the category of need.
F’ you for making life too expensive.
F’ you for price tagging everything in life like you do.
F’ you for living off my own expense.
F’ you for spitting at the face of happened history.
F’ you for being so self absorbed and greedy.
F’ you for caring but only after it is too late.
F’ you for not letting me do what I need to do.

F’ you for being a critic.
F’ you for being a hypocrite.
F’ you for being a know-it-all.
F’ you for trying to be a dictator in a non dictator society.
F’ you for just being a dick.

F’ you for driving people insane and causing the innocent to suffer.
F’ you for not providing the help or support in need.
F’ you for making everything in life agenda, propaganda, special interest, or favoritism.
F’ you for being so corruptive.

F’ you for being insulted and demanding apologies.
F’ you for immigrating here but refusing to accept our rules.
F’ you for all the expectancies you demand people to live up to, but do nothing to reinforce what you demand.

F’ you for making sex something it has no business being.
F’ you for being a dick when it comes to sex.
F’ you for being an abuser or lying about your abuse.
F’ you for all the corruption that plagues everyone, and made this system unable to do anything about it.

F’ you for contaminating life like you allowed it to be.
And F’ you for refusing to do anything about it all.

But for those who know what is going on, are not blinded by the truth, do not give into ignorance, willing to provide answers to questions that need answering, being supportive, knowing how to live life and knowing how to not take life away from others to make themselves better; keep up the good work and hopefully you will stop being f’ by those who fit in the criteria written above.

So, can we all please stop the nonsense, the bitching and bickering and name calling, all the attacks to others, and just start making life a little bit better, even if it is only one step at a time?

My praise to all who need credit where credit is due. Trying to get my ends to meet this week and already just want the week to end.

Let’s get our heads out of our rear ends and start making this world a better place to live, however you can and to whatever you can contribute to this great world we do live in.

Hopefully next blog I can get something in a more positive direction going. Thanks for the support or cooperation from whoever thought. Always appreciated.

Be good, be strong and be safe. Peace.

Must be in control of it all, guns, sex, etc.

2008-02-17T17:17:00.001-05:00

Hearing the Heighten Pressures

One main reason why I stopped watching television and just stick to playing games, reading books or the internet is because they usually tell better stories and aren’t so negative prone.

So from acts of stupidity to acts of desperation, today’s blog is about the heighten news of gun violence.

Here is another one of those examples where gaining control of our lives can really come into play. Rather the reasons for those who snap and go on shooting sprees are oppressed beyond understanding, psychotic, or sociopathic; I am willing to bet a little caring interest or energy to help divert those reasoning’s would have prevented such inexcusable acts to begin with. When the gunman kills himself as well, we’ll never know that truth, since it went to the grave with him.

My condolences to the families of course for suffering a lost of any love ones. I hate hearing anything bad happening to anyone, especially the good people who want to make a better future. To me this is the reason to take our lives by the horns and drag our evils to a grinding halt and allow our greatness inside reign supreme. Have to start somewhere to get order again from chaos.

Here are my thoughts with guns. I can care less about the ownership of them. I personally don’t need to own a gun and feel no need to bother shooting one.

I realize a gun, like everything else on this planet, is but an inanimate object. Only the human who picks up the gun can risk hurting some one with it.

I also remember watching on one of those wildest police video extreme shows, they were showing how one of those domestic disputes where the guy was getting way out of line with his anger, was shot by an officer with this gun that fired a bean bag. The officer claiming that the guy who got arrested basically thanked him realizing that he could have been shot and killed instead. GUNS DON’T NEED TO FIRE BULLETS TO STILL BE EFFECTIVE. I think such guns (firing bean bags or something else not lethal, not including point blank range shots) are ingenious.

As far as regulation goes, sadly, all the regulation in the world isn’t going to stop evil acts from happening. What can not be done legally can always be done illegally. Plus if someone wants to do something evil bad enough, they will find a way anyways, no matter what the laws or barriers are. I’m just falling short of writing a season of 24 from this point on.

Gun control and human sexuality both share this same commonality. Both require a great deal of self control and respect. Just think about anything that is a problem or issue in this country (anywhere really, but I’ll keep it in my own country for blogging sakes.) Most problems stem from laziness or a lack of energy of thought being given. Not realizing repercussions of our actions, carelessness in thought, the total amount of consideration and expectation that is now more of a demand in life, rather than an option. These problems will domino effect one day to the point this whole planet will be in nothing but regret and beyond too late to do anything about it, for those still living of course.

This is no future I care to support. That is certain. So keep your control and safe guards up faithful readers. There is no time like now to recognize what our needs are and what we must do to remain in control of those same needs.

Be good, be strong and be safe. No unnecessary violence to others either. There are indeed more good reasons to be alive than bad. We just fail to psychologically enforce and reward good behavior and goodness in general.

Peace.

Use your brains to avoid indecent exposure.

2008-02-15T08:07:00.001-05:00

Have to Use Your Brains, People.

I practically don’t watch television anymore, due to too much reality television and negative news, but I did catch that one of the news stations was doing a report on outside contractors, like painters, roofers, carpenters, plumbers, etc., are doing their jobs in peoples homes and for some reason, whipping out their junk in the homes they enter.

Why?

No seriously morons, why?

What is the point behind jeopardizing your job and your freedom for some either quirky sexual gratification or you just have this natural uncaring habit of airing yourself out, outside of your own private homes? There is a reason why they are referred to as private parts. Keep your privates to yourself and your professionalism out on the work front.

Apparently the new report dealt with questions to ask to make sure such people won’t enter your home and pull this nonsense. (Yes, this is grade ‘a’ nonsense in my book. Thoughtless stupidity.) Background checks will be fine for those who may have already offended and were punish by law, but remember, it is highly possible that people have no background check to go by (yet) and therefore not the most reliable knowledge to have.

EVERYBODY is capable of being a sex offender. Indecent exposure (which is the crime being committed here) is but one of those sex offense laws that should be easy to safe guard ourselves against.

Simple pointers to not allow indecent exposure affect you.

Keep your desires in the privacy of your own home.

Keep your clothing on when on the job earning your pay.

If it is a sexual fantasy to enter another person’s home for potential gratification as such, you should set this up as a role playing fantasy, instead of tempting fate and finding yourself in trouble with the law. The line is crossed when consensus is not given from both sides who would engage in such an encounter. Even if such good encounters may have happened, (more power to all people involved), there is a properness to enacting in such a thing (acting as in role playing, and setting up the whole scenario to be the case), and not having to worry about the law being involved.

The whole key to helping end sexual offense is taking ownership of your own sexual levels. What they mean, what needs to happen to keep you and others safe and not crossing lines or boundaries involved with sex, and a well rounded education on all aspects and elements that will involve sex.

Let’s face it, whipping your junk out in hopes to getting laid in a random strangers home isn’t one of those ways to keep yourself out of trouble and ending up a sex offender. This is just complacent stupidity. If you want to make sure you fight such an urge, wear many pairs of underwear. When it would be too much to just make sure you urinate correctly without making a mess in yourself, you stand little chance of wanting sex as well.

So keep your clothing on faithful readers when out in public and doing your job. Even paid for escorting has to be careful with what they say, which is the only possible job where such hopeful occurrences are bound to happen. Keep your wits and don’t fear asking questions on how to keep a fantasy appropriate.

IT DOES TAKE EFFORT TO KEEP YOU SAFE. If you are too lazy to consider what other people may think or feel, you can always have all the lazy time you want behind bars. I rather stop that from happening than let people learn the hard way they should have thought things out first.

Such news reports would not exist if we kept common sense and courtesy alive. So until then, be good, be strong and be safe. Be smart and courteous to others as well.

Peace.

Some prevent sex offense reminders.

2008-02-12T21:30:00.000-05:00

Simple Ways to Not Sex Offend.

Just because some people out there don’t like making life easy, does not mean some of us should not try to make some things in life easier. In a world where we need healthy relationships, solid cooperative network of people and friends, right levels of income source, etc. the amount of things to be on top of and keep track of can become overbearing and at times, forgotten about.

Here are some quick tidbits to help keep you out of the realm of becoming a sex offender.

Keep dating relationships within a couple years of your age. This is most important when starting from the age of consent and going upward age wise. One to two years of your age until around mid twenties is not a bad standard, then open up the year range a little bit at a time, such as 3, 4, 5, maybe up to 7 or 8 years of your own age. Just avoid the under 18 at this point to keep yourself out of trouble with the law. I myself follow a standard of 5 to 7 years of my own age. Thus anyone younger than 25 I just won’t bother with. (A slight admittance of my own age.) One more note from this.

Don’t attack the relationships that may exist from those who are only one or two years of each others age from 16 to 19 year olds. This can be situational of course, but under normal knowing each other and dating each other from teenager to adult, you can be doing more harm prosecuting that 18 year old loving their 17 year old counter part just because that’s the law. I do believe there is age of consent laws in place (I also believe they are state level laws as well.) There are also laws that will protect later teens and young adults in this age bracket as well. You can always check in with your local representative and libraries on how to find these laws and read them for yourself.

Age isn’t always a given for responsibility. One of the biggest set backs to making sex 18 and over only is a slight oppression and conspiracy factor that can become involved with having such a law. Everything that applies to the adults of this world is also going to apply to the youth of this world equally as well. This is where I’ve blogged about being in better control and having a self ownership of what your own sexual levels are. Just remember history. Being 18 to be an adult is fairly recent compare to overall years of written history. We may have to go back 300 years now and further to realize that 13 at one point of time was adult age. A woman being 20 during these times were old maids. Then again, any human living past 30 was amazing just by itself. More importantly, adolescents is when all that growth and hormones kick into a higher gear. It will be better to educate and prepare a youth on what and how to think than to let them flounder without answers to questions they may have. Winding up on the wrong side of the law eventually, only because people are not helping to nurture the information they may need to know.

What holds true for you may not hold true for others. I’ll example the whole no means no, and how to be a yes with this one. You may be perfectly fine with abstinence until marriage. This is something that would work for you. This does not mean this will work for everyone across the board. Rather that board is our country of this whole planet. No one should be disrespectful to your wishes. In return, don’t disrespect other wishes as well. If you want to be upon the yes you want to have sex category, this takes some time, patience, self ownership, some good solid correct communication between you and your potential partner, and an understanding of equal levels, so you both don’t end up just suing each other until old age take you both.

Never, ever, force anyone to act against their will. This is why any form or molestation, abuse, or any other act such as rape will always sit ill with me. Even just simple stuff like slapping someone across the face or pulling their hair should not be condone or supported. It is also equally important to not allow opportunity for someone to start such actions onto you as well. The wolf hunts his prey by smelling fear. This is why I say replace fear with focus and understanding. If you leave no room for the behaviors to begin, you also eliminate the continuing psychological reinforcement of those behaviors we all don’t want to begin with.

I’ll finish with this tidbit.

Always be supportive and understanding. I realize how much history has already happened and none of it can really be undone. We can all sit around and mope about what we all cannot change, or take control of our own lives and destinies and pave the ways we all need to have. To error is to be human. So rather you have been wronged or are upon the wrong doers in this world, the unwanted trends won’t break themselves. Sometimes it is better to now dwell over what has already happened, but to focus on how to not let those ill happenings occur again.

Remember the past, live for the present, hope for the future.

May we all find what we seek in our lives, may our lives be lived without so much hassle and may we be rewarded for our good hard work to keeping and preserving the peace.

Be good, be strong and be safe my faithful readers. Peace.

Keep it simple!!!

2008-02-11T19:51:00.000-05:00

Keep It Simple

Since I just got done being over the complex nature of the hassle of obtaining a newer car, be a good time to go over the easiest of reminder lessons in life.

Keeping it all simple.

Now, I’m not fully sure if complex living is just a trend, something of an addiction to some people to making life impossible, or just a bad side effect for allowing lawyers to exist? (Hey, need comedy in life too.) It is tough to notice and escape the layers of complexity that is plaguing today’s society.

Simply put, we are all just not keeping things simple anymore. A lot of the complexity can be blamed on those who are committing crimes or being ignorant in life. Such as terrorist and vandalism to just trying to date and start up a healthy relationship; we allowed what should be simple enough to fall victim to being taken for granted and abused to torn to absolute sunder.

Notice how many commercials or reports are out there for high stress levels, high blood pressure levels, and other thing to battle depression and what not? Modern society escaping us all just piles onto these problems. Everything that can be considered a problem or issue in our society will be a combination of many aspects to life. Thus no problem is ever a single isolated unique to its own self problem, but the accumulation of many different, repeating problems, such as health problems, social situations, etc.

Heck, even my attempt at describing this is getting complicated. Let me wrap this up simply by saying stop going out of your way to make anything worst than what it is or what it needs to be. When we work to keep things or get things back to being simple and easy to do and deal with, people become happier and have less hassle or headache in their life. From purchases to bill consolidations, from taxes to earning a living to even have your money work hard for you.

Just keep it simple. You will be surprise how many problems won’t come about by doing so. No matter how difficult we perceive life becoming, there are those out there who do know how to get back to the basics once more and make things easy once again. It will take some work, energy and elbow grease, but that is why this country is considered great. Smiling at the rewards for the efforts and energies of our hard work.

Comprehending sex offense is about as complicated as it gets. Even I still struggle to sort out how bad of a mess we allowed human sexuality become in our society. But I am sure there is a way to organize a majority type of view where we can eliminate possible endangerments of becoming a sex offender, and stop ourselves or others from ending up a sex offender themselves. I’ll work on that simple list for next blog.

Until then, don’t let the chaos of this world get the best of you. Be good, be strong and be safe.

Peace.

Remember the past, live for the present, hope for the future.

2008-02-10T12:06:00.000-05:00

No Regrets

There is but one truth about the past, no one can ever change it. Even if there are things in my own past which can be perceived regrettable, I fully recognize that they are but events in my life that I had to go through and experience to get to where I am at today.

Therefore I don’t regret anything in my life. I may have small issues here and there and don’t agree with some aspects of life, but I will not regret my own life. These are the cards dealt to me. I have to play them out how I can best.

So I’m tired of griping about what isn’t always in my control, life goes on. How people act is their karma, how you respond to it is yours.

Doesn’t stop some facts however that there are overall issues and problems which should be able to be within all of our control, but aren’t, that if we allow these systems to escape us too much, will result in many unfavorable decisions.

Since bullets don’t cut and paste very favorably in Blogger, but no problem in Wordpress, I’ll stick to listing main words and do a small paragraph on them.

Things in our modern life to regain better control over:

Money – I have no problem earning a living. I support the idea actually. The problem is earning a living isn’t what it use to be. Our society is earning its funds in sets of hundreds while there are becoming demands of money to be in sets of thousands. One tooth fixed at a dentist is equal to one month’s pay. (Thus health care issues.) A new car cost one year’s salary. Even heard a few times that even one million dollars won’t go far these days. We all need to remember the basics of why money exist once more. Get our economy back into balance. People won’t survive anymore working but one job. While today, you have to have your money work hard for you. But unless you are a famous celebrity, into real estate, sales of some major sort, or the stock market, you won’t be rich. (Gambling lucky is also possible, but not upon the practical list when it comes to earning a living.) Once money becomes too oppressive to just let people live normally, well, how do you think the oppressed will respond to this when given no peaceful resolution to escape? (One of these days we will all stop repeating history as well where we just change the vocabulary terms around to fit modern day times and issues.)

Sex – It is fundamentally apart of everyone physically but socially torn in more directions than cotton candy attacked by a couple hundred people. Talk about your damn if you do and damn if you don’t issue. Rather it is men are studs but women are sluts, the whole must be over 18 years of age and all the pro’s and con’s with that (discussed by me in a few previous blogs), religious belief and sex, sex discrimination, gender issues, preference issues, the list just goes on an on. One good starting point I recommend when it comes to helping put and end to sex offense, sex crimes or sex issues is this simple; don’t bitch ONLY about it. Meaning all you do is complain non stop about the matter rather than support positive actions to help eliminate these problems and issues. Know the laws word by word what they mean, support better education and establish better open minded points of views to lower bias decisions and behaviors, most of all, realize what is truth for you isn’t necessary truth to others. Other people have to make their own decision how to live and who they are. Guide rather than enforce. Explain rather than demand. Nurture rather than punish or enslave. Treat others how you want to be treated yourself will go along way.

Government – A friend of mind mentions, “In theory, Communism works.” Heck, in theory any government works, if the people in power aren’t doing their jobs and everything decision wise is base on what people what to hear, behind close doors agenda and propaganda, and who knows what else? Of course the system of running things is going to suck. Instead of trying to make heads or tails out of every ‘ism, ‘isk, or ‘ist out there that exist, I much rather stop with all the labeling and all the can’t do everything red tape garbage and think along these lines. U.S.A. is clearly United We Stand, Divided We Fall. Well, if we will fall by division, what’s up with the whole Democrat vs. Republican, Conservative vs. Liberal, right wing vs. left wing, etc. so on and so forth? So, who will step up to the plate and make it clear this country needs to stop breaking down everything and build up living hear instead? They will win my vote.

Ourselves – There is always room for improvement. Every person is indeed their own unique individual. They have something to offer this world. We are all human with needs that must be kept up with, want and desires that we seek out and prefer to be rewarded with, emotions that will hit major highs and lows. No matter how imperfect this world can become, the human race is still the only reason why everything, both good and bad, exist at all. How about we all stop being our very own worst enemies? It may take time or patience; some people handle some things in life better than others. Where we may be weak in some regards, we have strengths in other regards. Be true to yourself first, the rest will fall into place. This includes stop the superficial lives and egos, stop pretending this world is something that it is not, and recognize how great the beauty truly is on this planet.

One of these days we will all stop making excuses to not being able to share life very well. It starts with providing a positive energy in the marching path of life you choose to walk. Mine apparently is ending the nonsense involved with sex and human understanding with sex. For now blogging and writing is all I can do. My services or ads being my only payment means for all this work as well. I’m going to blog click around in blogger and do some ad supporting myself after this. Maybe I just need to roll the ball for others first for their causes and purposes.

Stay on top of the positive path of life my faithful readers. Be good, be strong and be safe.

Peace.

What I believe, do's and don'ts

2008-02-09T17:44:00.001-05:00

What I believe, do’s and don’ts.

I’m going to do a simpler format to prove some points and reveal but more personal details and tidbits of myself. Both in life in general and with sex offense.

I DO believe everything happens for a reason.
I DO believe in fate.
I DO believe there is goodness in everybody.
I DO believe we are all capable of making mistakes and learning from them.
I DON’T believe in wronging other people.
I DON’T believe in having to resort to evil to prove a point.
I DON’T believe in harming or murdering other people.
I DO believe in people becoming humbled, learning their lessons without such sacrifice.
I DO believe there are starting to be too many elements in life to be on top of.
I DO believe we are oppressing some people who are different from expectancy.

To sex offense stuff.

I DO believe we all have a fundamental emotional drive which is called sexuality.
I DO believe we all allowed sex to become something it has no business being.
I DON’T believe in sexual abuse, molestation, or any other form to put sex crimes in.
I DON’T believe sex is automatically offensive just because you did not spend 18 years on this planet.
I DON’T believe every sex law written is done correctly and can be at least amended to make better sense.
I DON’T believe anyone in their 20’s and up should have to date and have sex with anyone in their early teens and younger.
I DO believe a lot of sex crimes are committed only because of other major aspects of life are not being met, up to par, or have been attacked in a major way.
I DON’T believe that we need to destroy a happy couple who would be 18 and 17 or 16 years of age respectfully just because, “that’s the law.”
I DON’T believe in a lot of the stupidity and ignorance that has hit our nation and world.
I DO believe that there is enough of a common thread of understanding between us all that we can resolve a lot of the problems and issues we are facing today.

Back to anything in general.

I DO believe that when we tell every graduating generation that they are the generation to make a difference, we keep fighting to make sure that keeps true in the best possible way.
I DO believe everyone out there does have enough common sense and logic still left in them to be better supporting of a better living system so everyone can thrive and be well in.
I DO believe we all sometimes become blinded by what we know vs. what we want to know.
I DON’T believe in sacrificing any of the virtues I have learned just for some short term goal to be reached.
I DON’T believe in having the need to be labeled. I should not base who I am as a person by being some labeled defined vocabulary term.
I DO believe we still refuse to learn from historical mistakes.

I DO believe people are capable of being addicted to hate and worry.
I DO believe some people are abusing our justice system and destroying the fabrics of our lives by doing so.
I DO believe some hefty changes must be made and some major decisions on our attitudes in life need to be doubled checked or at least re-evaluated.

I DO believe in being a United We Stand country.
I DON’T believe in being divided and keep dividing people by any means necessary.

I DO, DO, DO, believe in being good, keeping kindness alive, not lying to people and being able to be honest and trusted, helping others in need, guiding people who can help others out better if I can’t be helpful in that sense, allowing hard work to be rewarded, letting people live and experience life, having fun, knowing and learning all you can to be whoever you need to be in life, and having no need to use any of these traits against another person.

I DON’T, DON’T, DON’T believe in abusing or molesting people on any level, having to hurt someone to teach them a lesson, in ignorance, in hate, in making others suffer even after they screwed up, making people pay more than what something is worth, making people pay more than what is needed or what has been done, thinking this world is only evil, thinking there is no hope, having to commit suicide/homicide/genocide, having to lose yourself in an unsupportive world, being unsupportive, not giving answers/advice/guidance to those who need it, and just plain flat out being insubordinate to the blessings that do make our lives possible.

Between two failed fatherhoods in a natural father and step father, committing a crime I had no business committing but grew greatly from and discovering it was a process I had to go through, probably 15 different attempts of making my financial life easier with investments that done nothing but failed for me, growing up isolated and forming the worst social void one could imagine, a major problem with just stating up a dating and loving relationship, not being able to earn the money I should be worth, up against more barriers in life than even I can keep track of, now fighting to make sure my ends meet without sacrificing too much in my life; this is me in a nutshell. I’ve been lied to way too many times to count. I live in a family where we just cannot do wrong for it will haunt us way too fast. My family has been cheated with investments to their house and other ways where no one seems to know how anything can ever be done right again. Problem upon problem dumped onto us with mostly no solutions to find. Now force to live with the idea of doing too much on my own and seeing how for now I am failing at that and will be greatly screwed if I can’t change things. Sometimes life just isn’t what we all wish it too be.

But guess what, take me or leave me, this is who I am. YOU ARE EITHER WITH ME, OR JUST STAY OUT OF MY WAY. But stop trying to inhibit me, attack me or prevent me from continuing to move my own life forward with any excuse out there anyone can fine. There are no lawyers for us to sue those who wrong me or my family. There are promises made that aren’t kept. There is but one of me, doing my damnest to be the best supportive person who I can be, and tired of slipping into this un-fun mentality with no escape, and still justifying my life, comparison and all, and reminding myself of my own blessings in regards to others and what they do or don’t have going for them.

The only thing I truly want is my own little piece of life to be unscathed by others where I thrive and prosper rather than suffer and wonder what the hell I must do to escape this constant stagnant unanswered evils that hit me now and then. A decent job, good family, good friends, everything in fine working order. Not being a slave to materials, popularity or some other peer pressure crap, or anything else that must be destructive in life.

I DO believe in living and let live.
I DO believe in keeping a positive future alive for all.
I DON’T believe in keeping alive this vehicle in life, rather which is economy, politics, or anything that is agenda/propaganda base that no one controls to keep existing.
I DON’T believe my life should be controlled by money, hate, misunderstanding or ignorance.

I KNOW I am not alone in any of this.
I KNOW UNITED, all this crap can and will stop.

See a person for their worth and what they have to offer, not by a cover they may or may not have.

Once again and always again;

Be good, be strong and be safe.

Peace to all and thank you for taking the time to read my blogs and understand where I am coming from.

I DON’T believe in the chaos nonsense of this world, but I DO believe in putting such chaos back in its place.

Our whole planet is a detail.

2008-02-09T16:23:00.000-05:00

Other things in life not worth sacrificing.

“I am significant!” cries the speck of dust upon the vast universe. A Calvin and Hobbes comic that I’ve remember. Nothing can bring about depression, criminal intent, or thinking errors more than attacking a person’s worth. We fight too harsh to live superficially and not being true to ourselves. At the same time, those who fight to be true to themselves and the best that they can be are not seeing the rewards in life they need. Either hard work or energy is not paying off; there is some major lack in cooperation somewhere or some other fault in rewarding a good standard not being met.

My week has been one headache of a week with my transmission dying in one car and having to replace my car. Thankfully it’s all done with now. Still, a lot of my energy got torn from me just going through this process and headache. The parts that tend to hurt me the most is how uncooperative this world gets trying to make things happen. I’ve been also thinking over a whole lot of my blogs and attempts to get myself ahead in life as well.

What I want and what is reality are two different things. Then again, what anyone wants in life and what life is becoming are also two different things. We all should be in control of what this means, yet at the same time these control factors are not in our hands, or anyone else’s hands either. Between how highly demanding this world is becoming with multiple needs of businesses, high cost of living, low payments with jobs, allowing some people to work at all, greed, rich, poor, hanging around like vultures to those who self destruct trying to rely on other peoples worst behavior to make ourselves feel better, etc.

I sometimes wonder how this speck of dust called Earth still exists. Oh, I do realize why, but think of all the things in life that could have ended life on earth. Wars where evil lost but could have won, things like the black plague, other major diseases, even now some major natural environmental changes attacking whole major areas, hurricanes, tsunamis, floods, droughts, fires. The human race still survives, but one thing that so far most people I know agree to is some very major changes need to occur.

But this is what people can expect if we don’t stop trying to live in our little bubble world societies, think ill and mistreat others, and act immortal or above and beyond the outside world when in reality such people are above and beyond nothing. More rise in crime, more wrong ideas and thinking, more temptations to kill or destroy, and just natural life itself taking matters into its own hands.

Karma is a tough ride at times and probably felt a good chunk of what that is all this week.

Worth – One thing any person wants to feel in this world is a sense of belonging. No one is perfect and it is more important to be supportive of those who may be struggling or has whatever handicap that there is that stops them from living life normally. Once in a while it just helps to toss a bone someone’s way and let them prove their own worth and what they have to offer to this world. We all have some gift worth wild sharing. Learn from others what you may not be able to handle or do yourself.

Education – What we don’t know in life ranges from won’t hurt us to ending life on earth itself. Time to step up and prove that what you do know and realize does mean something. Help put into check all that hate, ignorance, and stereotypical badness that is plaguing our society and forcing people to thing and react how they don’t need to.

Life – We all only have one life to live. Why allow any of the evils out there take what is ours away from us. Sometimes there is too much evil for any one person to be dealing with. They end up drowning in their own choices and decisions.

I’m just going to list some more elements in life worth wild giving up.

Hate, ignorance, making life a permission basis, oppression, depression, low tolerance, physical abuse, sexual abuse, sexual oppression, and attitude.

There is a great deal of beauty on this planet. It is being drowned by the ugliness and the beast of evil in this world. I may have allowed my money are resources run away from me a bit, pulled back on those now, and I may not have all elements of my life going in my favor.

I WON’T GIVE UP OR QUIT JUST BECAUSE THE RESULTS OF MY EFFORTS SEEM FUTILE.

So far since I began all this for the reasons I began, I’ve earned nothing.

Fine, I’ll keep fighting to end sex offense upon other problems in this life and on this world for free. If there is one thing I know most, things always find a way to work in my favor yet. As long as my one bank lets me consolidate and I can make my own ends meet, I will be satisfied. I am far from living in a bad situation, I am far from dead, I am also far from even wanting to try anything majorly stupid. I count my blessings, and thankful for knowing who I do know in life, and have a strong will to keep proving myself and fighting to always be the best man who I can be.

If you are just as tired of the ignorance of this world reigning supreme like it is, by all means keep referring people my way to read my blogs and hopefully support me through my services or ads.

Every one of these may not end up being one of the best reads. But at least I am doing my part to make whatever difference I can in my own way and only way I know how, for now. My innocent knowledge and understanding of human sexuality and lack of means to being up to par with the rest of the living world tries to destroy me, and all I have to say is screw that. Some of the best people in this world failed many times before finally succeeding.

So be good, be strong and be safe my fellow readers. There is a lot of greatness to life that needs all the preserving hands it can get. I’m looking to aid the beauty in this world attacked by the constant misguiding understanding of human sexuality of this world and end the majority of nonsense involved with sex offense. Where we can all finally determine the difference between being offended with sex and sex crimes themselves.

Peace and be well.

Don't sacrifice these best human qualities.

2008-02-08T17:00:00.000-05:00

DON’T SACRIFICE THESE BEST HUMAN QUALITIES.

Nothing can be more fun than the hassle and the speed of urgency in this world when everything needs to be set just so in motion to make things work. Found a good car for myself, still need my own mechanic to check it out and have what will feel like a couple hundred calls to make today.

But besides those headaches, knowing some recent feelings some friends had to put out there and share, it will bring me to today’s blog and lesson of a fairly daily doing on my part: Keeping alive the best traits humanity does have.

So please don’t sacrifice these best human qualities.

Trust – This is probably the largest attacked human quality that is slowly becoming dead in society. I would not be able to survive in this world without the ability of trusting other people to have sound judgment. Trust seems to be sacrificed the most in work and dating relationships. As pointed out in earlier blogs, a lack of steady and comfortable work and money earning situation, and a lack of a health relationship with those you can love will lead to the criminal thinking errors in this world. Sex offense definitely included.

Faith – Believe in yourself first, the rest will follow. Our society and our world are becoming unbelievable in way too many ways. If we cannot have faith in ourselves and faith in others to always do the right thing, we will all end up living in a world which will seem like hell on earth. Have faith to keep life’s order. Have faith in the energies or god(s) referred to by religion. Have faith that difference isn’t so harsh or horrible as you may have been told. Have faith that goodness of mankind will reign supreme.

Honesty – There is a reason why it is the best policy. It works. Just like trust, if you cannot be honest with yourself, no one will be honest for you. (No one will trust you or for you just the same.) It is even more imperative to be honest with others. Telling lies gets people no where. Lies basically come back to haunt people as well. I like the way a friend of mine put this. What people do is their karma, how you react to that is yours.

Willpower – In the good sense of exercising your will. We cannot let what we know be imposed onto others. Others thrive and learn best when they discover and develop a will of their own. This is all about exercising our little grey cells, using elbow grease, and appreciating the hard work, effort, and energy that does make this world a wonderful place.

I’ll continue on with other top human qualities to be on top of later.

I am willing to share one human quality to do sacrifice.

Ego – When anyone becomes self centered, self absorbed, exercise way too much of that me, me, me behavior; look at most of television to see how well ego, when no longer in control, works for those people. Plus a bruised ego is probably the easiest thing to heal from. Compare to allowing your bruised ego destroy your own lifestyle.

Human sexuality does host a whole lot of ego. It is fine to have an ego, just like everything else, keep the controls all in working order for it. I believe it’s just finally time to stop the nonsense, breaking heart, abuse, and any other garbage to all this nonsense going on in our world these days. Too much of it is going on and not enough people even making attempts to stop of the nonsense.

Keep being supportive of me and to each other now. Be good, be strong and be safe.

Peace.

Can Money Ever NOT Be an Issue?

2008-02-05T16:18:00.000-05:00

Some Personal Dilemma, Money Sucks (lack of).

Apparently Murphy’s Law loves me and my family. I like how an automobile is such a wonderful yet expensive investment in life. I feel like there is just no win for me.

If there was ever a time I wish people called my numbers or visit my website and use such services, or even just be bored clicking on my blogger ads, this is definitely one of those times.

My transmission went in my car. It will be cheapest to get it rebuilt but will also be futile. The thing is a 1992, I’m glad it made it this long. But it is obviously going to be too much money in the long run for me. Time for a newer used car and some loans which is already bad enough that I am trying to consolidate, now need not much more than 7k just for another vehicle.

I blew off some steam yesterday to my friends on myspace. I can guarantee, if someone ever just let me have 30 million dollars, I will easily hook up all my friends with 100,000 just like that. Yes I realize this is but 300 checks, I can fill that quota easily leaving myself nothing of course. Obviously should make it 298 friends or so just so I can end some of my financial crap. I may even allow people to prove to me something useful for a week or two just to be added to that list.

I already read a couple stories of random money being left to some people. I do respect such good gesture.

If you ever wonder why people resort to crime, consider the typical money situation, earning, lending, owning, etc.

What is the average cost to live for one month?
What is the pay rate of the average person for one month?
What is made before taxes?
What is cleared after taxes?
How many jobs out there are covering the basic cost of living?
What novelties in life turn more into necessities to own?

How many people are easily covering the cost of living for one month?

The percent is probably quite low. But financial stress is very obviously a major problem to a whole lot of people. This stress will lead to thinking errors, abusive natures, and worst case scenarios. Sex offense happening being obviously amongst this mix.

A lot of today’s problems and issues begin with such a domino effect. I may be agitated and feeling a little like a drowned hopeless rat for the time being, but even I realize I will overcome this major bump in the road. Nothing like material possessions that break or break down on you to spoil a good day or life.

Sad thing is a whole lot of these aggravations don’t need to exist. It is all still man made decisions and consequences. What needs to happen is a much better control factor in place. Maybe even adding you have the right to a major income source. I would naturally vote with the greatest of ease making currency illegal. I will be content with getting back to the basics on why money exist to begin with and stop tossing such huge greedy price tags on every element in life.

The insanity will catch up to all eventually and then dire decision will have to be made if you think for once second that; when you take your cost of living, take the average earned income, notice how much of a curve this will make, and think for one second this won’t snap. Since I choose to be one of the good people in life, I would probably most likely end up one of the first dead. I know I can lose but that one fight.

Financial situation in this country, health care wise, cost wise, people being cheated or gypped; needs better control.

I also know I am not alone and I am far from being in a more true hell with plenty of blessings to still be thankful for. But this is my now reality that must be dealt with. I’ll work things out yet. I am also far from alone with such problems also.

Do be supportive now. For now blogging and writing like this is my only method of trying to get ahead financially and end sex offense at the same time. Which by and by, my lessons will end many other types of problems also. There is still a whole lot of great beauty in this world which should not be destroyed over our own ignorance and insubordination.

Be good, be strong and be safe my fellow reader. Peace and less expenditure to all! (May as well be hopeful or wishful thinking. Evil can also be washed out by a flood of good and supportive behavior as well.)

Friendly reminder to good friends.

2008-02-03T16:12:00.000-05:00

A Good Friend Indeed.

Lately I’ve been assisting friends of mine who are somewhat down on their luck. Also a couple of people who had relationships end on them after being used and not truly loved. Sometimes life is never easy, but it still needs to be lived.

Sometimes even the simplest of gestures can stop someone from doing something truly regrettable or going off the deep end. Remember, please, thank you, sorry, my bad, I forgive you, you are not alone, etc. The simplest of sayings like this is all a person needs to hear from time to time just to get back on the right path.

I don’t know how valid the story is, I remember it being said to me as a kid, but apparently a man on death row giving everyone a tough time and close to being ready to be sentence was visited by a priest, to say his prayers for the criminal and ended up saying, ‘I forgive you.’ This was enough for the criminal to stop acting up and accepted his punishment willingly. It was but one simple gesture that this criminal never received before.

How many crimes out there can be turned away from or even prevented if we just gave those in need just a small portion of your time of day. Something simple as hearing out a person is all it may take to keep that feeling of worth going for that person.

A few years ago I even wrote a poem about hearing people out and about being a good friend. I’ll share it with you all next time. But for now remember about keeping things simple. Hate and animosity will only continue to fuel the fires of hate and animosity. It is love and care that will extinguish them.

A friend who helps a friend in need, is truly a good friend indeed. I’ve chose to be that good friend. So what about you?

Be good, be strong and be safe. HAPPY SUPER BOWL SUNDAY as well!

Peace.

Exploitation of an insult, incident vs. dwelling over incident.

2008-02-03T14:16:00.000-05:00

Exploiting Insult.

I’m guessing it has been five years now since Justin Timberlake pulled off the “costume malfunction” heard around the world with Janet Jackson. This was clearly a publicity stunt so Janet could sell her upcoming album. I’m more annoyed with the media on this handling more than anything else.

If you take it upon yourself to show something 5 thousand times over, and act disgusted at the action 5 thousand times equally, what the hell do you expect? I would sooner argue how wrong these people are being by constantly dwelling over and over again some incident like this non stop, than if they all totally ignored this, no one would have known about it because it happened too fast.

But we rather prove how good our technology is for one, while also accommodating a massive hate for sex for two. Tempting me to mention how many parents out there have no clue how to educate their kids for three, but more or less rather not go there. There is a simple bottom line of life will go on.

I will state however that it is this type of sour taste in people’s mouths and lives that I’ve grown to be against. They are letting themselves be offended by something you need slow motion and pause just to realize it happened to begin with.

Rather people may think this next part as apples or oranges or not, I face reality. I would sooner be more offended by war pigs, violent crimes with guns, massive rape and/or murder sprees, slavery, and any other form of major abuse of power and social manipulation, over a very brief moment of exposed breast. Kind of like the article I shared about people upset with breast feeding in public. GET REAL. Please.

I fail to compare a naked body, or even a fully clothed body, just not clothed how you may prefer them to be clothed, to be equal to the offensiveness of everything mentioned before that. World War 2 of offensive. Remember my last blog about blessings and changes, in true reality, you have yet begun to see or witness offense if words or normal body figures is what sickens you. I hope for everyone’s sake, NOBODY SHOULD EVER LIVE TO SEE OR WITNESS WHAT TRUE EVIL CAN DO AND HOW IT CAN BE.

Be more thankful for the freedom you have. Let us all stop exploiting our own freedom and be better learned all about what our fears can be. With in our greatest fears lies our greatest beauty. I think we can truly separate the offense from the crimes when sex is involved.

I’m following this up with one more blog today. But I did mention in Wordpress at least that I would write about the Super Bowl incident 5 years ago (or so, in case my math or memory may be off.) I can shrug off an act of ignorance; I’ll just ignore the constant dwelling or bickering of the same act of ignorance since I know I can move on with life. If any major question should be asked, how about this one. How is your own life so good and perfect that the worst thing about it is some publicity stunt done by a couple celebrities? I must be doing something majorly wrong because the things in life that concern me are definitely so much more worst than an act of simple stupidity.

Anyways, keep being good, being strong and being safe my faithful readers. I’ll add in be smart, less ignorant, and better worldly minded as well. If you got the free time to exploit something simple like that Super Bowl incident, you got the free time to cure cancer, VD’s and STD’s, and many other things including the common cold.

Peace.

Remember your blessings, work on positive changes.

2008-02-02T21:07:00.000-05:00

Blessings and Changes.

Even when it is obvious there are things in society that do definitely need to change, and hopefully won’t fall back into the category of the more things change, the more they stay the same; always remember to count your blessings as well.

One thing I definitely notice with our country is how much we tend to attack and take for granted this countries freedom. From stepping out of line verbally to any of this demand apology nonsense I tend to catch on the news every so often, we seem to forget that we are fortunate we are born and allow living to begin with.

Take a look at some of the history, where being evil failed mostly because that type of life is just not meant to be, even though the reality could be different if evil was successful. World War 2 is a good start. I’ve heard mostly that if Germany waited six months in either direction, attacking Russia in the summer time verses the winter time, you could be alive and well but only as a blond hair, blue eye German. Today even Germany hates that aspect of their history. But humanity also survived The Black Plague, an era where medicine was unknown. Evil just is not meant to have their way.

Subtle evils tend to be the worst. I think retail and fast food are the easiest examples to point out. As far as any mall goes, any burger or pizza or whatever fast food you enjoy, as far as any diner goes or convenient store goes; we are all fortunate any of it exist at all. Think about any of the second world and third world countries out there who don’t have this type of life or even freedom at all. I think it was mention to me that North Korea is the country where the government has huge amounts of power. If you even look at the government the wrong way over there, they would kill you on the spot. They would kill you just because they can, if they wanted to or just desired. No way would that even be tolerated here in this country. But imagine buying clothing from any clothing store where you had no choice or say on what to wear. You would be shot on the spot if you even try to rebel. Everything food wise would be that Oliver Twist slop where asking for more ended in immediate death. Compare that to being in this free country and ordering any kind of food, no matter how right your order is, you will complain and bitch about the service anyway.

Since my working hard for my money jobs involve retail, I’ve learned to respect retail and fast food, knowing how the behind the scenes work. I also humble myself remembering how fortunate we are with the amount of material possessions we are free to choose from and the amount of diversity there is. It is a blessing to have such fortune when other countries out there don’t even have enough food to feed their own nation, let alone the opposite side of the coin which is America today.

Even while knowing how bless we are, there is great need for major changes and overhaul that is our system as well. Since that opposite side of the coin becomes high amounts of waste, greed and conceitedness running away from us, being too complacent for our own good, griping about things we are fortunate to have at all, and overall just being painted as this self absorbed country without any major care in the world besides ourselves.

It is our system of living that does entrap us like this. A lot of people don’t even realize how they are acting or being because of how natural it is to complain and let off some steam here and there. I liked some of the talk shows that now and then showed video tape of people with how they are. Sometimes just watching yourself or listening to yourself makes your subconscious kick into gear and strive to change for the better. I’m no fan of talk shows, mostly because they helped established this era of a competition on who can live a worst type lifestyle. Note my last blog when I mentioned Britney Spears.

This is why it is so important to be aware and know about self ownership of who we are as people. What elements in life are attacking us from being or continuing to be productive members in society? What changes, little or big, should happen to make sure the majority of people can live normally enough in today’s status quo? While we are bless greatly with many things, we also need to safe guard ourselves from allowing our lifestyle getting the best of us and run away from us.

Since I am all about helping end sex offense, I do know there are a lot of people who end up committing sex offense crimes just due to the self absorbed nature and conceitedness where they make their initial thinking errors in life, or even repeat offenses. Many other crimes happen for the same reasoning.

Be thankful you have a family, you have friends, and you have a job and opportunity to work how you are pleased to work best. Be thankful you can choose what religion to follow, what philosophy to believe in, and what mannerisms to have. Be thankful to have freedom at all and remember that life is always capable of being worst. While remaining thankful, grateful, and humbled, also band together to unite needed changes to help end other traps that our modern world is establishing. Better internet controls and control factors. Better monitoring systems; and ways to stop things like identity theft. Don’t fear to educate your children the truths and realities, or actualities of life. Stop being paranoid over ideas that are different from yours. Be firm with your focus and determination to end any chance of being wronged; while realizing some things in this world are not wrongs to lose sleep over.

Money is but a number created by human. Humans created this modern world and society, created convenience and laws to abide by, and created how to think in this life and in this world. Let’s fight to make changes for the better, and remind ourselves how bless we are in life to have what we already do have in life.

Be good, be strong and be safe my fellow blog readers. Also enjoy the Super Bowl tomorrow! I really don’t care who wins or loses there, I’m in one of those home towns where I would justify both teams to lose. Doesn’t mean it’s not worth spending good quality time with friends.

Peace.

Basic opinion on recent stuff getting me down.

2008-02-01T18:29:00.000-05:00

Time to Vent a Little Opinion.

Hey gang. Time for me to state just a little what’s what and small opinions of stuff here and there. Some small open vulnerable life stuff.

This has been one of those small situation depression days for me. Major rain going on outside of course does not help, but more along the lines of a loneliness factor, which has been something I’ve been battling for a while. The two major factors I am fighting to gain control of in my life, love and money.

My money situations, (lack of money to be more honest) is intended to be better with these continuing blogs to help end sex offense. Rather by Blogger or by Wordpress, both are fine by me. I accept people clicking on my ads just as much as people calling my numbers or going to my one web site specifically. Therefore my part time jobs then won’t have so much pressure on them. But I’m more depress over the love (lack of once again) situation.

Time to complain about Craigslist.org.

When it comes to jobs, want ads, or advertisements for stuff on sale or announcements for local events, Craigslist (CL) is fine. The whole personal ads however is quite different and the opposite. It seems like everyone there is either a fraud, wanting people to join True, Fling, Adult Friend Finder, or Match (all dot com’s of course) and are probably stolen pictures from elsewhere with false ads written. Or they just refuse to reply back or prove they just have no actual energy to pursue anything relationship wise. The last thing people tend to be are just very blatantly ignorant (guys, do everyone a favor and stop taking pictures of your ‘junk’ as they call it) or have impossible size laundry list to live up to.

If this world were so perfect, we would never need personal ads or even half the laws written in any book anywhere. News flash for the wake up to reality, welcome to earth people, I hope you enjoy your stay.

The part that irks me the most is how well written some of the ads seem to be, and find out what kind of insult it truly becomes when you do see some fake reply. I would have to save enough messages before sharing what that all is.

But if it isn’t basic life for those without fame or fortune, it’s complaining about those who do have fame and fortune, and truly have no room or reason to complain.

I avoid talking about celebrities only because I am just not supportive of the gossip talks and scandals. But I don’t know many people out there who cannot go long enough without the name Brittney Spears being mentioned. Here is my own advise just for you Britney.

Get out and lose the media and all those paparazzi for starters. Privately take time off and away to get your act together. Stop partying like a rock star with no responsibility. For crying out loud, get some sleep so you also don’t get hauled off in a straight jacket being a threat to surrounding society members just because you lost it up stairs. You got money and fame; you honestly have no room for complaint. But if you want to know what the average Joe’s and Jane’s are like in life, flip burgers at a fast food joint somewhere or work cashier retail for 10 dollars or less and hour. You will understand problems then. But your two options have basically boiled down to this, and I hate to admit to the second part. 1. Get your act together and keep your head about yourself, or 2. At some point in the near future, your name will just end up in the obituaries.

Think of it like this, how entertaining is a Chris Farley, Heath Ledger, or even half of the decease pro wrestlers out there are today. No money, no party, no social life, just dead. You aren’t winning anyone’s sympathy over like this.

Still, rather it is from the richest to the rich, to the poorest of the poor, we all still have common needs that have to be answered to. When they go unanswered for too long, this is where all that living mess comes into play. The bottom line to think about when ready to go off the deep end is this; is it really worth it?

Usually this is no. I might not be feeling at my best, but at least I am still keeping a good head about myself and refusing to give up knowing and doing what I am good at. As for money, unless you make it illegal contraband, get back to the basics to why it exist, stop taxing money on top of already tax money, and if you really prefer the money flow to be better, also start with all the name calling attitudes on how people should earn money. It is still and always be just paper, ink, and a number, some numerical value. We are still the only reason money exist at all.

As for love, single ladies, take me or leave me. I am who I claim to be and nothing more or nothing less. Some woman out there will know my true value in life and share the love on the only level I know how to share love.

But of course until then for either/or both, keep fighting the good fights out there my faithful readers. Together we can end the ignorance that plagues this world yet.

Be good, be strong and be safe. Peace.

No good comes from any lie in life.

2008-02-01T08:34:00.000-05:00

To Lie is Unbecoming.

Lying is one of those traits upon humans that really allows no one to get anywhere in life. I’ll use today’s blog to also mention how the computer and internet is a phenomenon in the sense that it is the greatest and worst thing to happen in modern times, at the exact same time.

Honesty is the best policy. Always has been, always will be, and always frustrating when you learn of other peoples dishonesty in life. People’s dishonest lying seems to however, become the popular in thing to be doing these days. This is probably only true to maybe 50% or so of people out there. I can only guess at this percentage. It is probably higher in some areas of this country, lower in others. To error may be human, but this simple beginnings to a major domino effect is just another bad habit trait to attempt to stop.

Since the ready available of the internet and how important it does become to some people, it is a phenomenon in the sense that it is the best thing and worst thing to happen in society.

In regards to being the best thing to society: It allows people to earn money in different ways faster. (Why I seem to still be excluded from this, I am not sure, but at least I am still trying.) Business communication is on the up and allows production of commerce to be done faster. It created a whole new world of jobs for people. Makes life easier in some regards. Also provides information to people who may not have known where or how to begin to look in the first place.

In regards to being the worst thing to society: It tapped into the evil in humans easier by allowing corruption to run rampant. It raised crimes in some aspects. Allows people to be more fraudulent and lie by heightening scams and creating a cyber world of corruption and theft. Amongst these crimes of course is some of the sexual deviant crimes of sex offense.

I do know one thing in regards to sex crimes on line. If someone is being under 18 putting themselves out there looking for sex, you can bet it is an undercover detective looking to sucker you into committing a crime. Sure, it is a way to capture creepy people in this world, but the down side is who is being more corruptive or destructive, the creepy individuals seeking inappropriately, or the sting operating law enforcement. This border lines entrapment when suckering people into breaking a law.

But this is also the main reason I blog. I rather keep sanity alive and well, help prove why being honest with yourself and owning up to whom you are as a person and an individual is extremely important. Sure I can talk about the idea of your lack of well being is other people’s job security measure amongst other blogs I already wrote. My main point being it will always be up to you and on your own shoulders how you live and what all this does mean to you as an individual. Do you want to live life as a victim of the inconsideration of other people; rather they are the criminal bullies or legal bullies in life? Or will you rise above and beyond their simple evil ways and be more than a person to yourself first, eventually being a leader to others?

To error is to be human. Lying about what makes us human is why there are so many messes out there to be cleaning up. Victims of crimes, those who commit crimes, relationships, dating, employment, etc; no aspect of life is safe from people being deviant and corruptive with what powers they have and are exercising.

It may be as simple as telling people to don’t lie. Don’t abuse other people. Don’t molest other people. Keep love interest within a couple years of your age range. So on and so forth. Sadly it takes more than simple guidelines to really put and end to the slew of corruption that is plaguing today’s times. Sex offense included.

Keep fighting the good fight faithful blog readers. Do please support my services as well. Any and all support will always be appreciative.

Be good, be strong and be safe now. Peace.

Attitude is still everything, make it right.

2008-01-30T11:35:00.000-05:00

Continuing With Having the Right Attitude.

I think, therefore I am. A popular proverb initially created by a Rene Descartes will hold true to a lot of good people these days. Today’s era of life is filled with distractions, things to be on top of, desires/wants/needs that must be met, standards that we are losing track of, and simple aspects of life becoming forgotten. From relationships to politics, from television shows to the media and talk shows, humanity is becoming pulled in more ways than one, and some of those pulls are breaking people.

There seems to be this great expectancy on what the majority of people wants society to be, just no great support, besides complaining, when it comes to living up to these expectations. When your attitude is, “I can do this, why can’t everyone else?” This is simple to answer, because you are your own unique individual, everyone else is discovering their own individuality. They are not you and you are not them. But to insult what others are not doing well needs to stop. This is a notorious bad wrong attitude in this nation. Maybe it is due to the idea of seeing others being and living worst than us, but still, I would not want to put money down on those types of bets.

No matter how imperfect this world is, it becomes important to realize it will always be better to help someone climb with you than treat life as a competition where you sooner tread on those who are faltering rather than helping them out. Thus always fight and strive to be the best person who you can be. I am sure you have strengths where others don’t have; they have strengths in other areas that you will lack. Don’t expect too many football quarterbacks to be geniuses in chess as well, or chess masters being quarterbacks on a football team. This does not mean that the Chess Master won’t end up being the agent to the Quarterback, helping him bring in the big money.

What I notice in modern relationships should be seen in similar light. Men and women are going to have their strengths and weaknesses due to the differences in gender. Everyone will have their views when it comes to religion, family, politics, and even sexual desire or nature. When we have a society being raised with unfocused families, premature pregnancies, love situations not for love, or just trying to keep normal dating situations going; how can we not expect this chaos of offenses to be happening, sexual or otherwise?

I will still have problem with the word offense being used only because it covers too much basis on perception, some of that perception being absurd or ridiculous, which also takes away from the truly serious victims in this world. Simply put, anyone can become offended by everyone else. This just ends up being the wrong attitude to have and just more bad karma affecting people in all the wrong ways.

We cannot change our past; only continue forward for our future. Will you allow other people’s bad decisions to hold yourself back? Or will you fight to preserve what is the goodness and well being in others? Rather it will be easy or not, it is what needs to be done. Remember, evil is always easy and probably way too fast to catch to stop some of it from happening. But as long as you always exercise the right attitude for yourself and strive to always be the best you can be and just be true to yourself first; then you will start to see the major positive changes in life. Money, relationship, religion, and even with human sexuality, the negative aspects of all these things can disappear, but only by exercising the right attitude to get to those points.

It may not be so much an impossible mission as it is improbable to happen due to the greedy and those who think they control life on such levels. Time to prove how wrong those people are.

Keep being good, being strong, and being safe and supportive. Peace.

The dangers about evil, fight the evil.

2008-01-28T22:19:00.000-05:00

Dangerous Times Growing.

One of the disadvantages of the news and media is it starts to become impossible what to think. Too much of it is negative these days. This of course just filters through with the greatest of ease to the masses who aren’t thinking clearly at all.

The tough thing about evil to me is I just can’t ignore its existence. I only respect how it can work. Evil holds but one benefit over good. This benefit is it does not take even a second for it to work or even hit. Even the best of people around can very easily have a dose of evil affect them and all that good rapport becomes for not. I’m learning not to discredit the goodness still in people, even if that goodness became very slim. It is that little bit of goodness that can stop evil from having a mass bad effect on society itself.

I consider Pro Wrestler Chris Benoit a respectable example of this. What he did to his wife and child is beyond inexcusable, but before that whole point hit in his life and committed suicide, he was one of the greatest in the business. It only took a small snap in his life and for whatever happened, what or why, regardless of reasons; his goodness went from being highly respected to nothing at all. Evil and sin can work that fast in everyone.

This is why I am pointing out the importance and emphasis of keeping your heads up, replacing fear and paranoia with focus and determination, and understanding self ownership. No one is exempt from slipping into the traps of evil. Rather it is money evil, crime evil, political evil, evil in how to view religion, evil in manipulation, evil in sex, etc. It all needs safeguards to be put up into place so no one needs to fall into those traps. To the best of ability of course. Not everyone is capable of learning the easy way, and some people never learn unless they go through it the hard way.

So between today’s government, wars, money or lack of situations, health care, social desires and expectations; I think it is almost fair to say that life is starting to get ahead of ourselves and there is also a danger of people not being able to keep up with it all. From keeping up with the Jones with today’s electronics to living conditions. The cost, money or otherwise, is starting to become too much for the handling. Even if other life aspects are being maintain very well.

No matter how harsh this world may seem, all that can be asked is only this: Always be true to yourself first. It will be better to lead by example than through demand. You could be amaze how many problems in life can disappear when you allow to let people follow by choice rather than no other options. Now to make sure the people who call themselves power can understand all of this. Just do your own part to make life and this world a better place. The rest will surely follow.

Be good, be strong and be safe my fellow blog readers. Don’t allow the evils of life effect you. Even those will dissipate within time. Peace.

A recent example of email exchange and what I am talking about.

2008-01-26T18:09:00.000-05:00

All below is a recent email exchange between someone random who replied to one of my craigslist ads. This is why I refuse to be evil to others. Do excuse the language, disclaimer a head of time of course. I'm not editing the email exchange, just showing you how important it is to be the better person in life. I did edit out of course all personal information. To protect me and the initial respondant. So remember to keep fighting the good fight my faithful readers. Be good, be strong and be safe. Peace.

after my experience last nite..i'm certain that guys who say they want a relationship...just want to fuck!....i'll take my sister's advice and look on "casual encounters"..because those men are fucking real with what they "really" want.....good luck......and by the way...I'm beginning to wonder what is wrong with everyone....

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First let me start by saying that I am sorry to hear you had a bad experience. I know craigs list is notorious for having the bottom of the barrel people and frauds, but there are still legitimate men in this world, like myself, who seriously prefer to not be assholes to other people, especially women.

I am definitely one of those men who does truly want an honest and loving relationship. Sex should be establish after all the other fundamentals are develop into a relationship. But hey, if for some reason I am the only gentleman left on the face of this planet that thinks like that, then so be it. I'm guessing you replied to one of my ads, thus why I got your message. There is nothing bullshit about me wanting to be a true lover to someone else. It does take two to tango of course and been one man dancing for too long now. Sure sex itself is great, but real passionate love is where it should be at.

I'm not too sure what is wrong with everyone myself. Kind of scary to know how many people out there are just not caring and willing to put forth true energy to have a health relationship. Just be true to yourself. The man upstairs knows the truth and will allow the karma train to roll around for you eventually.

May you have better luck in the seeking romance scene. But there are good men out there still and I have every intention remaining that good man. So I may be rare, but I am truly looking for more than just sex. I thank you for your concern though.

Peace to you and may you find what it is you seek in this lifetime.

---------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------------i'm sorry to be so crass..but you wouldn't believe the horror story..if i told you..(i prefer not to discuss)....i'm glad to hear that there are normal people seeking a relationship and don't ever change who you are.....and I hope you find someone that is worthy of that...

Complacency creates bad decisions.

2008-01-26T11:01:00.000-05:00

Becoming Complacent

If there is every a major draw back to being a citizen in this country, becoming complacent with our lifestyles is upon the top listings. It is too easy to be satisfied with life. Therefore, when the little bubbles that make our personal world safe gets popped, of course all hell finds way to break loose.

A lot of people who commit crimes and are caught for them are usually too complacent for their own good. Sex offense can also fall easily into the same trappings. Sexual deviants usually occur when routine life becomes simple and somewhat boring. The mind and imagination will start to wander and then the thinking errors start to happen. So lines end up being crossed and boundaries broken. People start to hurt other people and the domino effect just continues from there.

I am finding that modern life in general is running away from us. Some people just are not able to keep up. What people want in society and what is society’s reality end up two different things. Money is probably the most noted issue where this can be seen. When the cost of living starts getting too far ahead from what the majority of people are earning, and taxes start taking more away and charging more, this is how money itself can become very problematic and endangering to life itself.

My biggest points when it comes to money is this, it’s still nothing but a number and an idea in the heads of humans, the human race is the only reason why money exist at all. So why allow our economy, that no one really controls, get too far away from us and end up putting people in danger from being able to survive at all? I could end up a multi billionaire and I would still say outlaw and make money illegal. Knowing my luck, once I (if and when) do become a billionaire; that is when currency becomes outlawed and done away with. But that’s just my own dumb luck. I rather get back to the basics and remind people why money is there to begin with, stop putting mortgage level price tags on all aspects of life, and just realize not every aspect of life needs a cost to it. Greed is easily killing this planet. Environmentally, emotionally, socially, etc.

When complacent living attacks peoples ability to just survive, this is where and when ill thought start taking over and winning. The piling up of wrongs, the heighten levels of stress, the outlets we may seek through substances or sexual releases, and the thinking problems and errors that will pursue when just the basics we all want people to live up to are just not happening.

We all must be in control of what is our life. We should also be more respectful to those who may not fit into some trends in this world. Plus we should all not allow our comfort zones run away from us as well. Complacent behavior can lead to destruction in some sort of way. Sex crimes are definitely one of those destructive behavior patterns.

Don’t fear analyzing your life and seeing where room for improvement can happen. Also look for ways to humble yourself on a daily basis with a reminder on what your blessings are and how to be thankful that those blessings exist at all.

I will once again write a second blog today to make up for the blogging I did not get done this week. I’ve been work busy and exhausted afterwards. Plus my focus got pulled in a couple hundred ways. This is another thing that happens too easily. But that is not so much complacent as it is just too many things in life to be on top of. The ADHD of life.

Be good, be strong and be safe my faithful readers. Keep spreading word around to help put an end to sex offense, at least the absurd aspects to it. Peace.

inspirational story.

2008-01-24T20:51:00.000-05:00

This is just one of those inspirational stories being passed around. I wanted to share since it goes hand in hand a little with my last blog. Thanks to all who are supportive of me. Be good, be strong and be safe. Peace. Oh yea, I'm just going to cut and paste the story, sorry for the lack of edit.

one day i decided to quit.. i quit my job, my relationships, and my spiritual walk.. i wanted to quit my life. i went to the woods to have one last talk with god. "can you give me one good reason not to quit?" his answer surprised me..."look around" he said. "do you see the fern and the bamboo?"

"yes" i replied.

"when i planted the fern and the bamboo seeds, i took very good care of them. i gave them light. i gave them water. the fern quickly grew from the earth. its brilliant green covered the floor. yet nothing came from the bamboo seed. but i did not quit on the bamboo.""in the second year the fern grew more vibrant and plentiful. and again, nothing came from the bamboo seed. but i would not quit. in the forth year, again there was nothing from the bamboo seed. but i would not quit." he said, "then in the fifth year a tiny sprout emerged from the earth." Compared to the fern it was seemingly small and insignificant. but just 6 months later the bamboo rose to over 100 feet tall. it had spent the five years growing roots. those roots made it strong and gave it what it needed to survive. i would not give any of my creations a challenge it could not handle."

he said to me, "did you know, my child, that all this time you have been struggling you have actualy been growing roots. i would not quit on the bamboo. i will never quit on you. don't compare yourself to others." he said, "the bamboo had a different purpose than the fern, yet the both make the forest beautiful."

"your time will come" god said to me. "you will rise high!"

"how high should i rise?" i asked.

"how high will the bamboo rise?" he asked in return.

" as high as it can?" i question.

"yes" he said "give me glory by rising as high as you can"i left the forest and brough back this story. i hope these words can help you see that god will never give up on you.

never regret a day in your life.
good days give you happiness
bad days give you experiences
both are essential to life
keep going happiness
keeps you sweettrials
keep you strongsorrows
keep you humanfailures
keep you humblesuccess
keeps you glowing
but only god keeps you going
have a great day in the lord

and always remember
god is so big he can cover the whole world with his love
and so small he can curl up in side your heart.

by Hank Miller

What we want in life takes effort.

2008-01-24T19:29:00.000-05:00

Wanting Requires Elbow Grease.

Like they say in life, nothing is free anymore these days. While our love and spirit will always be free and without a cost to it, and falling short of making a MasterCard commercial, a lot of things we want in life don’t come free. As a matter of fact we all end up working hard towards what we want most in life.

Today’s second lesson is simply about this. If you want something major in life, in regards to relationships, job opportunities, how and where we live, etc, it takes effort and energy to get to that point. Thus don’t just complain only about it.

Once again, let me make this clear. Don’t JUST COMPLAIN ONLY about it. There are plenty of things in this world that can get under our skins. Another saying that is so true is this; don’t just talk the talk, but be willing to walk the walk. To gripe and complain is easy, and may even be your full fledge right to do. Anyone can bitch about a problem; real people stand up and are willing to do something about it.

Some problems that exist are easy to resolve, other problems are so messy, it will take forever to sort out first before being able to tackle head on. I realize this as well. I also realize some people are so much more able to do some thing in life over others. This is the nature of life. Where you may lack ability in one area, you make up for in other areas.

I have yet to meet someone who does not want to find their little place in life. So here are two things I know, which do go hand in hand, that can be worked through with the right efforts and energies to end. No one I know of ever wants to be offended sexually, including ending up sex offenders only by not thinking or our animal instincts over ride our logic and understanding. I also know many who prefer to be in health relationships with other people. So how does not wanting to be sexually offended and healthy relationships go hand in hand?

I am very far from a relationship expert. I can agree to most books written on how to have a healthy relationship, but I would be damn if I can establish my own, yet. (I do realize that word yet applies to probably too many aspects of my life, but this is beside the point.) Between knowing what today’s dating world seems to be and knowing the stories that have been dominating the talk shows, statistics on divorce rate, and just reading the typical profile ad or blog here and there; it looks like society half forgot how to have a health relationship with other people.

Today’s dating scene seems to be growing harsher every day only because one never knows if they are looking at a love possibility or a potential crime just waiting to happen. Some of the stories out there are just sickening. I know it affects me greatly since I rely on trust to be my strong motivation. I also admit I am but a dead man without trust being on my side. This is why the good guys finish last or die young. I do try; just have yet to succeed greatly. Kind of like my adult services. I can’t get them rolling to the point where I can invest into better advertisement. So what I want takes some effort and energy to get the word out there until I can get better suggestions to attaining my goal.

What I do notice a lot in the ads or blogs in regards to dating tends to be too many people being just too shallow and reciprocal of each other, being dumb or ignorant and just a plain ass, or there is the opposite side of having this check list of requirements that no one on this planet is living up to, where just one thing not meeting this massive major check list is automatically disqualification as for a potential date. This is their lost of course, not mine. But let me wrap up by pointing out the major error in this entire high requirement standard and my initial point, saying only what that all means.

This world is far from perfect and I am sure everyone has something about them that other people won’t like. No one is ever going to just hand the world to you. Like stated earlier, you have to earn your living, which extends beyond money and material possessions. You lose appreciation in life when you only care about a final destination rather than the journey to get there. So when that many people are aiming high but not paying any attention on the path to hit those high targets, this is where all those thinking errors and bad decisions end up coming into play. No one wants all their hard work and good energy to be for not as well.

I was sent this inspirational story, which I will end up following this in a simple cut and paste without doing any editing of it myself, which I think should be shared. This will be the same thing as a story posted on breast feeding in public a few weeks ago.

So remember my faithful to aim high and keep open minded and aware of the world around you. One never knows of opportunity when and where it can strike. Just be true to yourself and be true to each other. You will never need to ask for anything more than that. Of course if you want something, work for it. You will be rewarded yet.

Be good, be strong and be safe. Peace.

Safety tidbits to remember.

2008-01-24T07:53:00.000-05:00

Considerations Easily Forgotten.

Sorry about the delay in some blogs lately, been working and busy the past couple of days. I’ll write two blogs today to make up for some lost ground.

Feeling safe is becoming a big thing these days, thanks to terrorism of course and some sex offenders out there doing what they have no business doing. Knowing and remembering how to feel safe is what we should all remind ourselves now and then, since paranoia will block our common sense and reasoning.

Like anything else I am arguing, it all starts with you. Self ownership is one of the major keys to ending a lot of these bad thought processes. Of course knowledge is power. Such tips like know who your kid’s friends are. Physically monitor your young kid playing. Make sure your teenager kids understand what could go on out there and have their safety systems. Know what groups or clicks they are hanging out with, etc.

I’m definitely no fan of those out there who prey on others, on any level. Their ego or psychology will never make any sense to me. I would rather know more about the dangerous over the stupid or simple ignorant, yet safe. There are many different levels of sex offense out there of course. A lot of people are fighting to make blanket cases and create these laws to effects all sex offenders. The problem here of course is there is just too much variety to sex crimes to do this. The GPS monitoring system is a good example.

As mentioned in earlier blogs, not ever sex offender is caught by the law, some people have crimes out there probably even worst than half of those who may be registered, and not every sex offender actually committed their crime. Just like those people in prison for murder and DNA proves they have the wrong person in prison. Having a GPS monitoring system on every sex offender may sound like a novel idea, the down side is cost. It is highly expensive to do this. I can see such a system in place for those who are violent predators, but I can care less about the average Joe who may have done nothing more than pee in public or mooned someone. I also don’t care to bother with the person who was so drunk they can’t remember anything and pleaded no contest due to being in such a state. There are a few cases out there where this has happened and after psychological examination, they did not commit the crime they’ve pleaded no contest to.

The nature of the crime is situational. Sadly it is always situational. There are no stereotypes or cast sets to simply recognize. I’m also no fan of stereotypes either and people making themselves live up to them. I would not argue a heavy monitoring system for those who prove to still be dangerous. I will argue the people who can see this monitoring to be kept to trained law enforcement agents. Only because I don’t believe the average citizen needs to make the mistake and making some decision that lands themselves behind bars. What we know is one thing, how we exercise knowledge is another.

To wrap this up, the quick fix to a solution, which is a very common trait to exercise, isn’t really going to apply when it comes to wanting to end sex offense. It will take a little bit of time and understanding what the laws are (word by word detail if you can), knowing and remembering the history of human sexuality, remembering it is apart of our nature to be sexual being and have an ownership of what that will mean, and having good communication with your family and love ones will establish a safety net for your comfort zones. This will eventually reduce the problems of making mistakes that can end up landing you as a sex offender and protect yourselves from those making sex offense type mistakes.

Think of it this way, for those who give into paranoia too easily. The wolf catches his rabbit prey by sensing fear. Do you think for one second that a wolf wants to catch a lunch if that lunch looks like it is the depths of hell itself and would tear that wolf in half before it can blink? Probably not. This is why I encourage replacing fear and paranoia with focus and determination. It really is a great sin knowing how much time it takes to get good rapport built up and the years that can go by to make a dream exist, and evil does not even need a second to happen to take it all away.

Please keep fighting the good fights out there and preserve your goodness. Be good, be strong and be safe. Peace.

A common thread that all people share.

2008-01-20T10:51:00.000-05:00

A common thread.

I believe we all have something in common that every person will share. I refer to this as the common thread. While I am still looking for a complete definition on what this means, I know respect is on top of the list on what this means.

All people have something in common. There may be different physiologies, different religions beliefs, ethnicities, backgrounds, preferences, and so on and so forth; but there is a definite commonality that all humans do share.

To me, there is a mutual understanding that all humans will share. There may be different ways to define what this means and many different perspectives on how this will work, but there is a definite common threat that runs in all people.

Some of humanities worst habits revolve around hate and war. Trying to make might makes right. The war on terrorism and human sexuality has one thing in common, a war is declared on an ideology over a physical trait for the first time in history. Granted religious wars are all wars over an ideology, but they all shared common grounds in ethnicity as well. (I am sure there could be some exceptions to that, I’m just not aware of them.) Human sexuality is going through its revolution. It is a part of our genetic make up, it is a major factor in social status, it is hated, shunned and oppressive, has people going to great lengths for satisfaction, torn rifts in families, created much talk and controversy, and this list just goes on and on. Human sexuality is going through its freedom movement.

The best way to get through this freedom movement revolution is to have an understanding what the majority of common ground can be. You can see all of this with the many books written already, the drive for relationships to be form, adult ads on the radio now being more around the clock rather than just at night, etc. Trying to deny it, deprive it, and even oppress it is not going to make human sexuality disappear. You can recognize it and just not allow it to apply in your life, just respect that only some people may fit this mold. (There are studies on people being asexual, not needing sex at all. This is a liable option for people to choose.) The bottom line becomes be respectful to the opinions and lifestyles of others.

My goal of course is to remove the absurdness that is attacking human sexuality. I don’t support rape or molestation for obvious reasons. I don’t support the mass age difference when dealing with over 18 and under 18. I do realize that 18 years of age can only be a measuring stick to law. Tearing into an 18 year old loving a 17 year old is more insanity rather than justice. Human sexuality just doesn’t have those exceptions. We all just have to do more than create and enforce laws. It is just as important to educate and respect individual differences and explain the purpose of the laws to exist to begin with. This level of ownership begins with yourself.

I may not be the happiest of campers having to learn these lessons the hard way, but if my writing and blogging is what stops someone from making a bad decision and realize their sexual nature needs to be focused and redirected rather than breaking a law and ending up in jail and a job security measure to criminal justice, I consider my part done.

May we all continue to learn and grow to make the best decisions for ourselves and lead by example for others to follow. Be good, be strong and be safe my fellow readers. Stay healthy as well. Peace.

Too many wrong's will not end sex offense.

2008-01-19T14:19:00.000-05:00

When wrong’s just pile up.

One major thing I definitely notice is no one ever likes to be wronged in any way, shape or form. Sexual interaction is definitely up there when it comes to how to wrong other people.

The main important idea behind owning up to your human sexuality is to help prevent you from falling into the traps that can end you up as a sex offender or committing some other type of crime. Even regular plutonic dating shows many signs of how people just wrong other people. Proper communication and be educated to the fact of what does happen in these situations is the best defense against making these mistakes.

Simply put, men need to guard themselves from wronging others if they have a strong dominant hormonal drive. Women need to not be misleading and let themselves do what they may not be ready to do or handle. Just like a saying in the Spiderman 1 movie, “Great power comes with great responsibility.” You are responsible for yourself first, those closest to you next. If you can own up to being responsible for who you are and all the actions you can take, this is when the thinking errors come too easily and next thing you know, you are battling out of keeping your own life from being totally destroyed.

Even when people have fell and are sex offenders, leave it to those hired for probation purposes and counseling to do their jobs. Taking a course of action yourself, to pile onto a wrong can end up backfiring on you otherwise. Either by those who you seek to protect, questioning and learning inappropriately or your own actions end up landing yourself in a prison yourself for a different crime sense.

There is still a lot of confusion as to how to handle this whole sex offense era in life. Two wrongs will not make a right; neither will three wrongs, four wrongs, etc. Now-a-days there are so many wrongs piled up, who knows what the basic beginnings, or the square one, is suppose to look like. Domino effects can be happening that you don’t want to begin falling. Fires get fueled that we would rather put out.

Take a deep breath, relax, and let logic and reasoning take its course. Human sexuality is going to apply to everyone. If we allow our human sexual side to get the best of us, this is where the sex crimes happen and start coming into play. If we allow our protective side or defensive side get the best of us, this is how the law ends up turning against you, even for meaning well and being good intent. Bad things do happen to good people, and good people will make bad decisions or mistakes. If we allow our offensive fighting nature get the best of us, this is where all the other crimes come into play, up to murdering for stereotypical reasoning’s.

Do what you can to learn what it means to not wrong other people. This also means finding a balance so while you are not being wronged yourself, how you chose to not be wrong also does not wrong others for their own decisions. This whole idea isn’t easy. It all breaks down to specific details and good judgment. But since there is a very heighten number of stories out there where judgment isn’t happening, this is where people such as myself must step up to the plate and do whatever my part is to point out what ever details I can to start neutralizing a problem.

People’s view on human sexuality is powerful enough to destroy our planet if we do not control our perceptions about human sexuality. To prevent this from happening, it starts with simple understanding and ownership of yourself; follow by simple teachings, understandings, and even discoveries with others. It’s easy to see the immediate chaos created by the sheer hatred that exists with different sex offense crimes and types of crimes out there. It can become beyond a full time job to sort out what got us here to begin with.

To wrap this up, don’t go out of your way to wrong other people. Is your sex drive more important than your freedom or your independency? Apparently many people who thought this to be yes discover the difficult way this should have been a no. I see no benefit in being an ass to others, rape, any kind of molestation, as well as no benefit in a continuation of belittling or making others feel unwelcome or unwanted in life. Those unwelcoming feelings are probably why some people ended up down the wrong path to begin with.

Two wrongs will not make a right. Let’s stop making sex something that is wrong on all levels. Sex offense can disappear yet.

I’ll work on getting this blog idea more simple. Sorry for missing a post yesterday. Sometimes a day ends up over before I realize it even began. Time will fly when having fun or are just busy. So please be supportive of me and lets all continue to fight the good fight. Human sexuality does not need to be half as bad as we make it out to be. Just when we make the conscious decision to make life this bad or harsh, that’s when the evils of life find their way in and take over, and sayings such as, “who does not have their problems these days,” are allow to exist.

So be good, be strong and be safe. Have a great weekend and may this new year still be a prosperous and good year to all! Peace.

The golden rule goes a long way.

2008-01-17T20:29:00.000-05:00

Golden Rule Does Wonders.

Do to others as you would want others to do to you. As simple as this sounds, I still see too much televise evidence that not enough people understand what this means. This also holds extremely true in human sexuality as well.

Would you ever want to be beaten within an inch of your life? Would you ever want to be dominated so much as to never have any life or individuality of your own? I know I wouldn’t. I will admit I just don’t understand having to be evil towards others that seem to be going on. It must be too easy to have no thought process. Just look at what such inconsideration lands you, either in jail or in your grave prematurely.

Consider this idea, if you truly want life to be such a certain way, then why not exercise and reward those who keep life on a good path? The main reason why I would claim all I hear is complaints when life is not being lived up to in a certain way is because that is all I seem to be witnessing. If you believe disrespecting others will earn you respect, you are dead wrong or sadly misguided. Either way, people forget greatly how important it is to hold a neutral understanding of all around respect.

It’s really not that complicated either. Think of how all that energy of yours could be spent if directed correctly. When we turn human sexuality against us, making one of our fundamental emotional drives a weapon to keep humanity down, it shows. So let’s stop with all the offensive sex nonsense. We can separate the nonsense from the serious criminal minded. Still, I run across the occasional story where the victims seems to be more or less milking it with the grain rather than being actual victims, compare to other situations out there. Not that I care to single out the apples from oranges.

I think of it like this. We are bless to have freedom at all. Think of any second or third world country out there and what they don’t have. Are you still so willing to attack independency knowing how life could be? I know I would be such a dead man in such a world.

Keep being good, being strong and being safe my fellow blog readers. Please support my services or my ads. Any support of course is greatly appreciated. Peace to you all and feel free to do good to someone in the next few days. Sometimes Karma is the best investment you can make.

Remember those simplest things.

2008-01-15T10:31:00.000-05:00

The Simplest and Little Details in Life.

It is the smallest things in life that can matter the most to people. A friend of mind recently pointed out how to be very thankful and grateful to all who you know. There could be no tomorrow to make amends. While I do not know the details of their situation, I found it quite prideful to knowing how they choose to grow in leaps and bounds in their own way. Even inspired a poem out of me, which hasn’t happened in quite a while. (Poetry is the other writing I do fairly well.)

So today is all about recalling those simple reminders to appreciate life. When you no longer have something, that is when you miss on what you probably been taken for granted. I believe the worst heighten sense that I am witnessing these days of this deals with the courts removing the 10 commandments from their areas, the highly offended in this world over the littlest of matters, and some of these demand apologies or over heighten situations that somewhat started with a Super Bowl fiasco a few years ago dealing with Janet Jackson and Justin Timberlake.

How easy is it to forget we are all fortunate that a Super Bowl exist? How easy is it to forget that we can have high tech electronics? How easy is it to forget that we even have freedom? Why attack what you should be thankful for exist at all?

Even in my own personal growth, these types of lessons were learned. I do believe everything happens for a reason. Some reasons do become obvious while others may never be able to figure out. Keep counting your blessings. Be thankful for all that is goodness in your life. We were all born human before born anything else. Today’s life gets too easy having the harshness of it run away with us. Mistakes get made, bridges get burn, and crimes even happen. Sometimes you even have to prevail through evil to become a greater good. That is how I see what I consider my worst of my own worst in life. I took that experience and became that much better of a man and person as a whole from it.

Now I just fight to do my own part to take on issues head on and not allow evils that I know we can all prevent get the best of us. I’m always beyond grateful to knowing who I know. I have established the best of friends and the best of fun outings for myself. I cannot ask for anything more in reality, but let me keep preserving what is my own goodness in life.

Don’t forget to stop and smell the roses every so often. Until next blog my faithful readers; be good, be strong and be safe. Peace.

No problem is ever a single problem, sex offense or otherwise.

2008-01-14T13:28:00.000-05:00

The Accumulation of Problems

Being sick is a good way to have all your major energy sapped out of you. But I still have my own self obligations to keep up, so here we go!

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I want to mention in today’s blog that no problem is ever a single problem. Sure we can isolate a single detail to life, but the truth is problems are things that stack. These accumulations are what drive people into doing and exercising behaviors they don’t want to be exercising. The problems we find in sex offense can stem from problems in social patterns, earning money, social status, education (or lack of), to even depression and mental issues. I believe a lot of the problems start with social problems or dilemmas. Such as healthy relationships, either with parents or fellow peers; being able to be out and about to socialize, having the money to go out and socialize, etc.

I would even consider our view on today’s money and economy a bigger issue than sex offense, since money issues can lead to bad behavioral patterns that can lead to sex crimes happening. When the cost of living goes up and people’s rate of pay does not match, this creates a curve which can become in danger of snapping. There is a huge trend to say we don’t talk about taxes. Guess what, tax subtracts from earnings and adds to expense. Why do you think this country went through that whole era of no taxation without representation? The one major thing a tax does to individual earning is make the curve greater than what it is. What people need on a monthly basis is what they need to clear, thus they even need to earn more than that just to make sure ends meet.

I know enough people who share this same conversation. Better control on what the cost of living is will probably resolve a lot of other problems going on. This also requires an end to being needy or greedy, accepting the world around you better and increasing respect levels, and establishes a better support system to go by in this world to make sure no one is being left in the dark without answers.

When people feel left out and major factors of life are not being answered to, this is where that negative ball begins to roll. We can stop this from happening by recognizing and realizing what we should be doing to preserve people’s positive side and good usefulness. No problem is ever a single isolated problem.

This accumulation can actually destroy our world. I beg to differ with that idea and refuse to allow some uncontrolled nature beast that we all so readily agree to just run away from us like this. WE ALL HAVE THE POWER TO DO SOMETHING. It is a matter of how you choose to think that will make you a better person or not.

Right now writing a daily blog is my only method of ending sex offense on the levels I know I can help end. It may seem like an impossible task, but I care most about those who don’t want to fall into the constant entrapments mentioned in earlier blogs. So do please keep being supportive of me and any fellow peers who pick up and enjoy the idea of supporting what I am labeling S.O.A.P. (Sex Offense Awareness and Prevention). Keep supporting or start supporting my sites or service ads and do support other people’s services as well. Within your reasonable budget limits of course.

So while trying to stay healthy as well, since my cold is probably 80% defeated by now, as I usually always sign off.

Be good, be strong and be safe. Peace.

Manners will stop sex offense.

2008-01-12T19:33:00.000-05:00

A Little Mannerism Goes a Long Way.

My cold is breaking up, but not completely gone yet. I still thank you all for your time and patience if my cold has got me off track of a daily posting. But today’s blog is a simple point that does go a long way.

Manners are a simple practice that stands out in a lot of people minds. Make sure you say your please, your thank you, your excuse me or pardon me, bless you, etc. A simple two second detail is actually enough to stop a person from making very bad decisions. Kind of like do you want the negative dominoes to fall over or the positive dominoes to take their effect?

Even in the world of human sexuality, where no means no:

“No thank you. I prefer to not do that.”
“Hey. Not a problem. I would not want you to do something you aren’t ready for.”
“Thank you for being so understanding.”

Granted this is simple as simple dialog can get between two people, but it is a simple enough gesture to keep the respect levels up and appreciation well on the table.

So remember to keep your manners. Think of it this way, will it hurt you so much to exercise a couple seconds of time to pay some manners to another person, vs. the hours of stress on end that could come just by being rude?

No matter how imperfect this world may seem, at least try to strive to make a difference. I thank you all for your time and support.

Be good, be strong, and be safe. (And be healthy!!!!!) Peace!

Social dilemmas with human sexuality.

2008-01-10T23:41:00.000-05:00

Social dilemmas with human sexuality.

Sorry folks. Being sick has not done me any major favors. This cold hit my chest and I’ve been more zapped of energy more than anything else.

Sexual identity has created some very major social boundaries and dilemmas. Some people will ostracize you for being sexually involved, while others will ostracize you for not being sexually involved. A damn if you do, damn if you don’t, no win situation. As I will keep reiterating, your human sexuality side is and will be apart of you. Most important point I will make is, YOU DO NOT NEED TO HAVE SEX. Your sex drive and ownership is solely for you to decide on. It is more important to know what your own sex drive is all about. DON’T CARE WHAT THE MASSES MAY THINK.

One of the biggest social problems there is, has always been fitting in. No one wants to be an outcast. No one wants to feel socially inept. You should never feel oblige to doing what you do not want to do, or are not ready to do. At the same time you should not feel oblige to answer to those who beg to differ and only care to have negative opinions about any decision you make anyway. You are the only person who knows for a fact if you should be sexually involved or not. Being attacked for your needs or your decision can be more offensive than whatever the claim attack is.

Simple guidelines to follow.

* Keep your negative opinions to yourself. If you got nothing nice to say, then say nothing. Making your opinion known to others can be hurtful and cause misguided actions to occur.
What is true to you WILL NOT necessary hold true to others. Abstinence only is a fairly good example. While this could work for quite a few people, there is still the other side of the coin where you are oppressing those who can be sexually responsible.

* While no means no, do respect this at all cost. But for those who are no’s, remember to not disrespect in return those who are trying to be a yes in the realm of human sexuality. There is no sense in breaking the law to violate another person’s rights. At the same time, there is even less sense to create such oppressive laws and boundaries that you actually harm the other side on what should be better balance to begin with.

* Be careful to not turn an ideal lifestyle situation into a conspiracy. Sometimes even when we only mean well for everyone’s behalf, there are those out there who don’t fit into that mean well norm which we could perceive. Some situations require an open mind to understand better. Sex offense and the problems with human sexuality are very individual basis. This is why there won’t be any solid cookie cutter solution to this problem.

* Don’t go out of your road to make others feel like garbage. Here is a simple way to handle this last point. Karma knows how to find all. The good man upstairs also always knows the inner truth to all as well. There is no reason to directly involve you in other people’s problems or dilemmas. Protect yourself indeed, but don’t go out of your road to be or make something more problematic than it may be worth. The Karma Train will roll around correctly for all. It’s up to you if you want to be that rider of it or hit by it.

* Always do right. This sounds very common sense, but knowing or listening to police reports and knowing some of the numbers and percents out there, reminding people on common sense never hurts.

Attacking a person’s social well being is about as worst as a non-illegal action that one can do to another person. Freedom of Speech and you rights to opinions is all fine, but in the end, going after others for whatever reason you have, isn’t worth the energy.

You will know your own sexual history and if you want to be upon the sexually open or sexually responsible. There is no reason for you to feel ashamed for who you are. So keep your actions legal, don’t be an ass to others for their own decisions in life, and try being supportive to differences that don’t apply to you. Being a trash talker won’t get anyone far and does no one any favors, no matter what side of the coin you yourself personally belong.

So be good, be strong, be safe, and be healthy and well. This sickness has really kicked my rear end this past week. I am noticing some support. My efforts don’t seem to be paying off, yet. But I have faith in making this whole Sex Offense Awareness and Prevention thing work. We can all work to make the most offensive thing about sex is a sour attitude towards sex yet. Peace.

Social issues and well being in human sexuality.

2008-01-08T19:30:00.000-05:00

Modern social problems and issues, fight to stay socially fit.

One good way to help end sex offense is to tighten up our views when it comes to our social outlook with human sexuality. There are two elements to viewing sex in our modern society, biologically, and socially. This means we can look at sex offense in the elements of it being a biological problem or a social problem.

Biologically speaking, the development of your hormones is perfectly normal and natural. Our adolescent years’ developing into an adult creates a make up and a definition of who we are on a physical level. What is considered to be normal on a biological level is very abnormal on the social level. At least in the eyes of the news media, the eyes of the law, and even in the eyes of a community. Sex offense has turned into modern day excommunication to some people.

No one ever wants anything bad to happen to today’s youth. I agree with this. The problem becomes that the youth are never exempt from what exist in our lives just because of a perspective people are holding onto dearly and probably failing at. As stated in earlier blogs, no matter what the reason is that we allow oppression to exist, there will always be a level of wrong to it. This attacks a person’s social health the most on many levels and fronts.

Sex in today’s society is clearly going through a freedom movement. This topic is actually so immense I’ll have to create a series of blogs to cover it correctly, instead of turning this blog into a book.

I’ll just list the examples of social issues that seeing sex in today’s society has brought us:

* Sex is taboo. Is it really? Ask yourself what makes sex so taboo and forbidden and try to figure out what elements about sex make sex taboo? I believe to a certain degree that there are people out there who don’t hate sex, but the surrounding situations that make sex more of a tool in a final goal.

* 18 and over. The big problem here is adolescence actually is the beginning of sexual exploration. The adult age going back enough hundreds of years was 13. As a matter of fact, going back 200+ years and then some, the woman had to start her family from the age of 10 to 14. By the time she hit 20, she was considered an old maid. Today being 20 is just the adult age where the only thing left for you to wait and legally do is drink. The reality is age has no bearing on your sexuality levels. The age limitations are more for protection to other aspects of responsibility when it comes to sex. Sadly our world doesn’t live up to such responsibility as much as it should. By all means respect this law, but also realize it is only a small part of the whole issue when involving sex.

* Men get to be studs but women get to be sluts. The gender differences are where a lot of the problems exist. To me that assessment is unfair and should not be true. The male’s ownership to his sexual side is what may need to be hammered down on and focused on before anything else could change. Men have the tendency to be the victimizers and criminals, women end up being more of the victims. All sorts of misguiding social barriers form due to the gender differences as well. This is one of those human bad habits we all need to start breaking.
Thirst, hunger, protection, and sexuality. If you eat, drink, wear cloths and are protected from weather elements and have a sex life, you covered all your fundamental emotional drives. Problem is we’ve attacked on great levels the emotional drive of human sexuality. See earlier blogs of mine on this matter.

* Abstinence only until marriage. This may work great for a few people. But it is one of the main oppressions to human sexuality. The belief initially does stem from religion, so there needs to be caution since our First Amendment can allow anyone to disagree with this idea. Also, while the painted overall life image of growing up, having that great job, having a family, kids, and grand kids is all a great American dream. If the only support is complaining about it when it isn’t happening. This is where I say, “Think about this for a moment, seriously.” You will never win a battle by being a stick in the mud with how things should be inside your own perspective. Someone else’s perspective will beg to differ with your own.

* STD’s, Venereal Diseases, and AIDS. Obviously one of the many things to want sexual protection from. Every sexual situation will have levels of danger to this. From very minimal, such as masturbation, to extremely high, such as many sex partners without protection. They are a modern reality that hosts all sorts of nasty social repercussions.
Social status. Just like gender issues, a man can suffer from being seen as abnormal by not having a healthy sex life. A woman can suffer if she is a virgin or not. Plus with issues like homosexuality, transgenders, and other types of issues out there in regards to sex, a persons private situation publicly tearing them apart can be highly dangerous.

* Relationship status. Some people’s situations in sexual issues become nothing more than if they are dating or not. There seems to be this timeline and expectancy on when to date, get married, have kids, etc. I know as well as many others, this just does not always happen, and when we end up with high divorce rates because of a social status over legitimate love, this is just the beginning of many future issues to come. I didn’t even get to that whole lack of parenting ownership (That ain’t my baby, etc.) or other issues in relationships.

* Hate. What we do not know we fear, and what we fear we hate. Understanding sex crimes and why some things happen in this world is where this comes into play. I think to a small degree there are actual hate and worry addicts out there tossing their weight around. While I could not prove this, I would not doubt it either. I myself would rather never see or witness anything bad ever happen to anyone. Sadly bad things do happen. Also bad things happen to good people and good people get caught up in bad things. This is a part of the nature of any society. This is also why I choose to fight against all the negative elements that have attacked human sexuality as well. I believe we can unite together and end the hate plaguing our lives. It takes some unity in education and understanding to get there however.

As you can tell, this list can be massive. People from all walks of life are easily fighting on a daily basis how to keep themselves socially fit. Active friends and lifestyle. Healthy dating relationships. Just wanting to belong and not end up a loner. The list can go on and on. Sex offense is honestly a smorgasbord of many different problems and issues.

This blog became essay size anyway. Well, I don’t kid anyone or lie to anyone when claiming this issue is immense. So please keep supporting me and my blogging and hopefully this idea of sex offense awareness and prevention will take off. It can happen of course. Someone needs to exercise the elbow grease to get things moving back to a better living once more.

Still, the great irony about sex being such an issue as it is, sex is still but one aspect of life. All of this can still never apply to you at all. I will only hazard a guess that it applies to a percent between 80 and 90 these days. So that makes my target audience those who are tired of sex being a problem in society and want a better well rounded solution.

So be good, be strong and be safe. Also as of lately, BE HEALTY! I can’t stand being sick. I’m getting by what should *knock on wood* be the worst part of it. Just keep being good to yourself and each other and always fight to do what’s right.

Peace.

Self worth will help end sex offense.

2008-01-07T23:34:00.000-05:00

Self worth support is the way to go.

I can guarantee one thing, I hate being sick. If there is one benefit to being sick when you don’t want to ever do anything, this includes doing bad and illegal stuff as well. I doubt this anti-crime method will ever fly, (it does, but I doubt anyone sane would support some full fledge effect to go into place) but sometimes negative overriding negative will have its merit.

There is also a major truth that when you have a lot of snow on the ground that crime is almost completely non existence as well. I tend to respond to this knowledge in the sense of how many high speed chases have you known exist with 3 + feet of snow on the ground? Sometimes we all just need to laugh at the ironies this world tosses at us.

If anything, I learn to value the importance of our freedom and what it does mean to be a citizen of this country. I believe that is why I am so bothered by the nonsense and the ignorance that exist on all levels. There are some amazingly ridiculous details that happen in our society. Britney Spears is a good example of a celebrity mess. She should un-celebrity herself for a while and get her act together. That and make the Paparazzi stay away. But this is how others make matters worse than what they are.

Sure we know what people say and claim by reports. Even the campaign trail for the next elected President of the United States of America shows how much we will tear into the smallest of details, with flip flopping or catching statements being changed. This level of absurdity is what tears away the very fibers of why this country is so great.

This becomes important to know even on the unimportant not being a popular name business day to day life. Or the average Joe as we can all be called who are not celebrities or such. There is strength to supporting a healthy balance life. Making our physical life match to some basic standard, getting the correct exercise we need to stay healthy and well. Making sure our mental and social lives are flowing in the right direction as well. We have our friends to fall back on, we have our social outings and enjoyments in life, and not being afraid to go out of our ways and reach out to those who may not be fitting into these categories well.

So when some virus or bacteria isn’t making you want to stay bed bound, consider these pointers to keeping yourself on the right side of the law and life to help end sex offense:

^ Are you getting enough exercise in your life? Running, walking, playing sports, or just being physically active in any method or form? There is some merit to the stereotypical norm that some sex offenders are those who suffer from enough physical energy and suffer from depression due to such lack of fitness and positive stimulus. While not a guarantee bad formula, it is likelihood to be a truth.

* Are you keeping your mind stimulated with positive activity or do you have a healthy social outing? Some of the worst ways to slip into criminal activity is by not caring or not knowing how to avoid such lack of interests in anything. Mental and social also go hand in hand since going out and being with other people and being expose to different lifestyles and types will enrich your own appreciation with who is all apart of this free country. Rather you go out to see a local band, attend some event of some sort, or just go out to have a social outing with friends; it is important to have such a network of good people to surround you.

* Are you someone who excludes individuals for certain handicaps or lifestyle types that just are not for you? One of our own society’s worst habits is attacking those who do not fit into this norm of life, which even the attackers probably don’t fit into perfectly. Everyone has some problem to overcome. Some problems are easier to deal with than others. It is important to make people feel worth wild to be alive than to attack them and make them wish to not be alive.

That last point sounds a little common sense and silly, but this is a very die hard truth that literally kills people at times. Supporting self worth at any cost is a bold and tough thing for some people to do. There are people though willing to do this. So even in this world of great imperfections, at least there are those who can step up to the plate and make the positive changes that need to occur.

Sure we can make people feel guilty until they die with history that no one can take away of change, does it really resolve the problem at hand? I have yet to witness that to be truth. Supporting your own self worth and the self worth of others is one of the best ways to end most problems, sex offense included. A lack of self worth is why a fair amount of any crime occurs. So if you really want to make some negative aspect of life disappear, strengthen your life and your goals by making positive changes and doing what ever you can, and however you can, to support a better future to yourself first. This energy rubs off onto people in a good way. Plus you lead through living example rather than barking demand. Something politicians forgotten about which seems to be an eon ago, but that is what will happen when you allow agenda and special interest rule, over good nature. (The politician who does figure this out will win my vote, that is for sure.)

So be good, be strong and be safe my faithful readers. And BE HEALTHY! The person who cures any cold instantly in seconds wins any vote my way as well.

Be thoughtful and considerate.

2008-01-05T19:06:00.000-05:00

Think of consideration and hope.

First let me apologize for not getting these blogs out sooner. I am fighting off a cold that is easily going around. The weather loves to change radically and sickness thrives greatly with it.

I’ll keep today’s blog simple. Thought and consideration go a long way for everyone. It is the simplest things in life that can keep a person going. Something as simple as ten seconds of your time to say thank you to someone can let someone feel the significance they need in this world.

A lot of people I know seem to keep saying how harsh life can be at times. Of course I agree with them. Heck, I’ve felt some of the worst living experience yet all not that long ago. Every person has their purpose and reason in life. Everything does happen for a reason. Something as simple as being considerate to others is enough to stop them from doing something they will regret doing later.

Upon finishing a job done recently with work I know that is paying me, I was talking to the department manager of the area I was working the nature of the beast that retail offers. Saying this is just how it is and what can you do? I replied just keep doing your part.

If anything, that is all everyone can do. Just keep doing our parts to make whatever differences need to be made. I’ll keep blogging to help end sex offense; you keep living life how you need to in order to keep yourself and your family safe. Rather my methods work or not, time will only tell, but feel free to spread word around about my efforts. Any support is of course greatly appreciated.

So remember to count your blessings in life and be thankful for what good things you do have working for you. I don’t care how harsh life may seem at times, I will at least always try to keep fighting the good fight and do my part to be thoughtful to others and considerate to their own needs as well. It is better to play and lose than to never play at all. (Just don’t follow this philosophy in a casino, which can become very bad. But like most things, there are those few exceptions to rules that exist.)

Be good, be strong and be safe. Peace.

Breast feeding in public article.

2008-01-04T19:20:00.000-05:00

This is that article I was talking about in my previous blog. I am begging to know why copy and paste hard returns and paragraphs don't want to work. I had to edit this on word just to keep the paragraphs seperate and still copy and paste is funky. So hopefully I got it right enough and nothing from the original will read too funky. So if you want to copy and paste this article below into email to pass around for your friends and supporters of information or paste in blogs or bullitens elsewhere such as Myspace, the feel free to do so. I thank you all for your support. Enjoy the read. -----> Viodragon.

Article on Breastfeeding in Public.

Breastfeeding doesn't stop being best for babies and mothers just because other people are present, and mothers want to continue to give their babies (and themselves) the best.

Cultural Attitudes

It can take a while to get comfortable with breastfeeding in public. The main reason for that initial discomfort is probably the taboo against revealing one's breasts around other people. Ironically, most breastfeeding women reveal much less skin while breastfeeding than the average jeans commercial reveals. Yet many people find one inappropriate and the other tolerable. Their concerns seem to stem less from actual skin exposure and more from cultural beliefs.

One of the differences between drinking from a bottle and nursing from the breast is that the breastfeeding mother and child are in direct, intimate contact with each other. The breastfeeding mother and baby respond to each other physically and emotionally. A mother who bottlefeeds her baby with either her own milk or formula is more physically distant. In some people's minds, the physical and emotional intimacy of the breastfeeding mother and baby is sometimes connected with sexual activity. So, when people see a woman using her breasts for their most basic function, in an intimate relationship with her infant, they may consciously or unconsciously confuse it with something that's sexual and should be done in privacy.

Current cultural attitudes toward breastfeeding mimic past attitudes toward pregnancy. At one time, it wasn't acceptable to discuss pregnancy openly and women who were "in a family way" were not supposed to be out in public. They were expected to quit work immediately. Although that has changed over the years, mainstream media and private conversations alike still tend to focus on the external aspects of pregnancy rather than the emotional - preventing stretch marks, maternity clothes that disguise the growing belly, pain prevention in labor, and article after article on losing all that "fat."

The breastfeeding mother and her baby continue the physical bond begun in pregnancy. Mainstream publications sometimes gloss over the unique relationship a mother shares with her baby while she is breastfeeding. Health writers are quick to assure mothers they will have a perfectly wonderful relationship with their child if they bottle-feed. Where is the discussion of the intimacy involved in giving and then sustaining life? A very popular pregnancy and child care book lists, under information on the decision to breastfeed, that the mother take into consideration not being able to fit back into pre-maternity clothing because of larger breasts. In any other context, most women would see the possibility of having larger breasts as positive, not negative. But when connected with their biological function, breasts seem no more than a nuisance and breastfeeding just another baby care gadget to consider while you are pregnant.
The availability of clothing for breastfeeding mothers may also reflect cultural taboos. Sexy lingerie is available in plentiful supply in major department stores and specialty stores alike. But shopping for a nursing bra can be a daunting task. The nursing bras are often behind the counter, if they exist at all. Some sizes may have to be special-ordered. Unless the mother asks, she may assume they are not available. The unspoken message is that breastfeeding should be kept behind closed doors and is inappropriate for public display, while displaying images of women's bodies to help attract customers is just fine.

Images of breastfeeding infants also reflect the taboo. A brand new infant nursing in his mother's arms is often seen in a soft-lit, lullaby-laden, nostalgic atmosphere. In a talk at the 1999 La Leche League International Conference, Dr. Jack Newman gave an overview of images of breastfeeding in the media. He pointed out that advertisements depicting breastfeeding rarely show women in public lives. They often show breastfeeding mothers dressed in darker hues or in nightgowns, and rarely looking at her infant. Yet images of feeding a baby with a bottle are portrayed with active, smiling, well-dressed women who are out in public and/or back to work. Once again, the unspoken message is that breastfeeding mothers should stay in the nursery and that once they return to "real life," they will leave breastfeeding as part of their private lives, not bring it out into public view."Just Give Him a Bottle"

Offering breast milk in a bottle is often suggested when the debate on breastfeeding in public hits television or radio talk shows. But that option offers problems for the mother and baby that may be overlooked by the general public. First, it takes extra time and care to pump, store, and transport milk - time that may be precious, particularly in the early weeks and months. Babies receive fewer of the benefits of breastfeeding when they receive human milk that is not fresh from the source. They also run the risk of developing nipple confusion - having trouble switching back and forth between breast and bottle. Mothers run a higher risk of developing a plugged duct or breast infection because of the delay between feedings at the breast, particularly in the early months. A mother who skips feedings will probably be very uncomfortable from full breasts. If she is unable to pump her breasts, her supply will probably decrease slightly. So she'll still be experiencing the consequences the next day, when her baby nurses more frequently to replenish her supply. She also loses the convenience of being able to soothe her baby quickly and easily while she is out. She may even run out of milk in bottles before she finishes her errands.
All of the challenges of offering human milk in a bottle while in a public place can be overcome. But the bottom line is that many women find it easier, healthier, more economical, more ecologically sound, and more relaxing to fit breastfeeding in with all their daily activities than it is to fit occasional bottle-feeding in with their breastfeeding.

Other Options

Another often suggested strategy for breastfeeding your baby when you are out is to take him to the restroom or toilet facility to feed him. However, no one would suggest that an adult eat his or her lunch in a public toilet. When a mother has older children, spending twenty minutes or longer feeding the baby in a toilet facility with a bored two-year-old does not seem like a viable option. In smaller stores, toilets may not be open to the public. At least in the restaurant, the mother can feed herself and her older children, too. And babies invariably get hungry when everyone else is eating.

Some shopping malls and larger stores are starting to offer a separate room that can allow privacy for nursing mothers. Sometimes they have a small lounge with a chair or a couch, which can be more comfortable for some mothers and babies, particularly when the baby has older siblings. When such rooms are not available, try a fitting room in a women's clothing store, or check to see if there is a rocking chair in the baby department or the furniture department. Many maternity stores welcome nursing mothers to feed their babies in a comfortable area. Or ask at an LLL meeting about where to find the most comfortable places to breastfeed in public places in your area. Any place to sit, even the floor, can work if it is out of the way. You can often face away from onlookers while you get baby started. Once your baby is latched on and nursing contentedly, most people won't give you a second glance.

Using Cover-Ups

A small blanket can be used to cover your baby while he nurses. There are also special capes and other cover-ups made just for this purpose. This can be a good compromise if it worries you to be too exposed. In some situations, a blanket or coverup acts like a flag that says, "I am breastfeeding my baby now." In addition, some babies don't like having their faces covered while they breastfeed. A blanket may provide a little extra privacy while you're getting your baby started, though. Once he is breastfeeding, there really isn't much for anyone else to see unless they look so closely that they are intruding rudely on your personal space.
During mild weather, the car can be a quiet, familiar place for both you and your baby to settle down for a nursing. Breastfeeding just before you go into a store helps fill your baby's tank emotionally and nutritionally and may encourage a nap, particularly if you put your baby in a sling. Overall, it's easier to find a comfortable place when you plan ahead and pay attention to your baby's hunger cues so he doesn't get too hungry to begin with.

Many women prefer to find a place that is "private enough" to breastfeed rather than searching for absolute privacy. You may have initial doubts, but faced with the obvious needs of your baby, you may find that your priorities will change.Other People's Reactions
Ironically, women who choose to feed their babies at the breast in public situations, especially in social gatherings, often find themselves in the middle of the "why breastfeeding didn't work for me" discussion. This can be uncomfortable for everyone. The breastfeeding mother may feel that her breastfeeding brings up pain for other women present. Those women have a need to discuss their experiences and often the discussion is about regrets. This need to talk about their experiences hints at an underlying truth. Being unable to breastfeed, whether the cause was societal pressures or lack of information and support, may leave women with nagging regrets and a feeling of failure. The mother who is nurturing her child at the breast may be surprised when such things happen and feel ill equipped to handle the strong feelings coming from those around her. Probably the most helpful thing to do is just to listen to their story, empathize, and gently move the topic along to something else.

In a recent issue of NEW BEGINNINGS a question was asked about how to handle the decision to nurse in front of co-workers in an academic setting. While each woman's life is different, this situation brings up the issue of the woman's comfort level with mixing her personal life and her professional life. While some may argue that a mother who feeds her baby with a bottle wouldn't face the dilemma of whether or not to feed her baby in front of her colleagues, she may well be faced with another dilemma. Instead of, "Why is she doing that in public?" the question may become, "Why didn't she leave that baby at home?" In both cases, the real issue is not about the feeding method; it's about what society expects of babies and their parents. Mothers who keep their babies and toddlers close as much as possible are frequently cautioned that their children will never learn to be independent. Healthy attachments between mothers and children are seen as too intimate in some circles.

INCREASE AWARENESS - BREASTFEED!

Breastfeeding advocates point out that being too discreet or too private about breastfeeding may actually work against more acceptance of breastfeeding in general, since it tends to keep breastfeeding hidden from most people. In her new book, Natural Family Living, Peggy O'Mara suggests:

If you encounter any curious or hostile stares, smile benignly back, knowing that you are contributing to the health of the next generation, and that you are setting a beautiful example for other women, young girls, and expectant fathers. Fortunately, fewer people raise an eyebrow at nursing mothers today - in fact, a woman's right to breastfeed in public is protected by law in many states. Perceptions are changing, as people become educated about the health benefits of breastfeeding. With continued awareness, perhaps breastfeeding in public will become as accepted as smoking in public is now frowned upon.

Hate with fear and paranoia. Plus a lesson in appreciation.

2008-01-04T19:03:00.000-05:00

Fear and Paranoia with Hate, Plus Appreciation.

The saying is simple but very bad and deadly habit amongst the human race. What we do not know about we fear, and what we fear we hate.

I would consider this saying the worst bad habit amongst humans as a whole. What we should be doing is making claim to, what we do not know we learn about, what we learn we use in practicality with focus and determination. Hatred is just so natural to slip into. This is why it is important to check yourself when you do slip into a bout of hate for any reason. Think before we leap.

Fear and paranoia become just as natural with hate. The big problem with paranoia and fear is people end up creating scenarios and making matters worst than what they are. This is similar to never getting your mail from the mailbox by the street side because a car can hit you. One of the bad things about humanity when it does turn to crime or evil, when someone wants to do something bad enough, they are going to find a way no matter how many precautions one can take. This is the nature of the beast that people end up fighting on a daily basis. While the idea of deterrent isn’t necessary a bad way to prevent crime, I know it takes so much more than that to truly end any major criminal problem. Sex offense just happens to be the subject matter that seems to be the unsolved mystery in my world.

The best thing to do when slipping into paranoia is to research on the subject you are paranoid about. To me the best way to end sex offense is to get to the roots on why sex is offensive to begin with. Knowledge is a power worth having and exercising.

I’m going to turn this lesson a bit into a personal realization which I had but last night. Using Myspace to be in touch with friends, now and then I see these pass around post to help warn women or anyone on subject matters or issues at hand. I am going to follow up on this blog post with that write up, since it does get to the heart of some of the issues I care to talk about and deal with.

The article is about breast feeding in public. It’s quite long actually. But the case scenarios written up in it are great prime examples of the flip side of sex offense issues which occur in this country. Apparently some people are so hard up on anything that can be sexual perceived they just want everything about sex outlawed. (I wonder how they feel about procreation then. More importantly are they somewhat hypocritical by having large families but acting like this?) A couple of previous articles that my one friend posted to pass on dealt with date rape drugs being slipped into drinks and how dangerous they are getting. This by and by disturbs me greatly since I am one who prefers the honest way of earning to be with a lover rather than drugging them for sex. More importantly this is where I am going with this conversation.

The article and a couple other things brought to my attention, such as the argument of “In God We Trust” being written on our currency which seems to only bother 14% of everyone; I am so bothered by how unappreciative we all become of our freedom and attacking freedom with petty arguments.

We have solders across seas fighting, defending, and dying for our freedom. In truth, we should be thankful that freedom exists. It would be so quick and easy to destroy freedom, but just like good behavior or even Rome, freedom isn’t something built in a day. SO WHY SHOULD WE EVER ATTACK WHAT WE SHOULD BE BLESS IN HAVING?

Since right now my ad clicks or my web sites are earning me nothing, my daily work involved retail level work. I realize how thankless retail can become. If you ever needed a reason to never hate being inconvenience, to never want to commit a crime or hurt someone, to never hate another individual; think about living in a country with no freedom. When you want to bitch about hating vocabulary terms or take the most minute details in life and make mountain out of mole hills, like breast feeding in public as an act of sex offense (read blog article after this one); witness what happens in any second or third world country. Experience life in an area where freedom is not in existence. Then come back and tell me to my face you feel the same way you did before seeing no freedom in action. Then and only then will I probably let you win your argument. I will also probably be getting a restraining order and refusing to ever want to be around you again, since I will see that as having no humanity or human side at all, but you will win your argument and keep such opinion alive and well.

It’s just this idea of how unappreciative society becomes of freedom and independence. So I don’t care how freedom is attacked, legally, illegally, not even involving law; it all becomes a wrong. This is just a good stem that gets me to the roots of what I see is so wrong with some aspects of life. This is why I believe some things in sex offense are just ridiculous and insulting. Rather it is crime, hate, paranoia, and even fear; this all attacks and insults the history we all fight to stop repeating. We only prove how self absorb and conceded of a nation that we’ve become, taking the greatest thing we ever fought for, for granted. I’ve grown to be bothered by very little in this world, but the petty nonsense is very bothersome to me.

This is why I want something like S.O.A.P. to be alive and well. To put and end to at least some of the many imperfections we all created on ourselves. I’ll end this blog here. I’ll have that second follow through blog which is a reposting type blog for everyone to read into as well.

So please all those who are faithfully taking my side and willing to support me. Keep being good, being strong and being safe. Fight the good fight and always do right. If you fall then don’t fear to climb again. The good energies upstairs know the truth of your inner you, and that is what matters most.

Peace.

Hate is everybody's enemy.

2008-01-03T21:48:00.000-05:00

Have to stop the hate.

Well, I said I will focus in how to concentrate to help end sex offense, so here is a key beginning. Hate is a great enemy to human sexuality. It is hatred that attacks the psychology and causes mistakes and bad decisions to happen. Hatred will also entrap you into making other mistakes and bad decisions such as breaking different laws and bringing trouble onto yourself.

I know Sigmund Freud pride his study on sex and hatred being the top two driving forces in humans. This is very true in so many ways and on so many levels. Together we can learn to curb certain hatred to actually eliminate certain problems that do exist.

Here are some samples of what hate can do subconsciously without you realizing it.

Hate can cause those who are usually highly intelligent, especially kids and teenagers, to question where that hatred is coming from. They end up running the risk of learning a hard lesson by taking inappropriate actions or learning curbs and the next thing you know those same kids end up becoming sex offenders themselves, only because they did not see the reasoning behind the hate to begin with.

Hate is a major tool in power struggle. Take any war for example. Hate fuels a unity or common cause, but in a bad negative sense that will eventually implode in on itself. Sex offense is no different. You have politicians using the hate and fear of sex offenders for votes, which to me should be just as sick as the crimes committed themselves. You have laws being demanded to be pass on everyone’s behalf that only apply to a very small portion of the overall population. A different example of this is a recent poll in the using “In God We Trust” on currency. Apparently only 14% want this down; the other 86% demand it to be kept. While I’m against that whole passing along email thing for any reasoning’s, I agree that attending what a minority of the overall population wants is unfair to what the majority wants.

This brings me to the other fact that hatred also fuels petty nonsense and makes matters worst that what they are. The old saying making mountains out of mole hills. There are some sex offense stories out there that to me got blown out of proportion and people are paying more of a price than what is necessary. The biggest problem with this is on a personal feeling note, the whole human race will have to die just for the satisfaction of such emotional control in power to win. Good luck and let me know how well that will work out for you.

Now, I fully respect the need to protect kids and the youth of this world. I will never call anyone’s emotional response wrong. But I will guarantee you need more than emotional response to end this problem. Emotional response alone is actually why sex offense is such a heighten problem to begin with.

Hatred blocks logic and reasoning. All the above factors prove this to be a truth. People have the tendency to go with the quick immediate fix. Understanding human sexuality is never going to be quick or immediate. So is the truth for ending sex offense. There will never be a quick or immediate solution there either.

I do want to share a story where logic and reason did prevail. I was sitting in on a social group meeting where this woman mentioned how this one time four young boys, mid teenage years I believe, thought it was a good idea to whip out their organs and chase her. A cop was on the scene and she makes it clear to the officer that these kids will be told by their parents why they were in the wrong. Making it clear to their parents what they try to do. Instead of pressing charges and having these teens serve some prison time.

To me this was the correct action to take. They are young and not very worldly most likely and had no clue what the consequences would be of their actions. Some times it is better to not exercise legal matter than to go through with charges. I have no way to knowing anything beyond this story. There is a likelihood any of those 4 boys did commit a different sex crime. I would not be able to tell.

Hate can end up making you a hypocrite. Look at the criminal charges happening to even some of the best people. Senator Foley, who help create child protection laws and acts, ends up guilty of the one of the very things set up.

Overall, hate is never going to resolve this problem. (Won’t resolve any problem falling short from destroying everything, only because nothing can never be a problem to itself. Not withstanding slipping into quirky arguments of speculation of course.) It is going to take time and understanding, as well as a health education and open mind to put and end to a good chunk of the problems in sex offense. While we can not please all of the people all of the time, we can aim to please most of the people most of the times. Education, focus and determination are your tools in doing so.

Sometimes we even have to look above and beyond what we understand as right and wrong. I believe people have being taken advantage of, being manipulated, or lied to, etc. over hating sex itself. Why people will continue to use sex as a tool against humanity, I may never really understand since the best I can do with evil is write about it. I rather die before acting on evil. Just have too much pride and honor before going down that path.

So ask yourself what is the source of your hate when it comes to sex? What are some of the things you can do or activities you can partake in to stop yourself from falling into the traps of becoming a sex offender? In what ways can you help educate kids and teens so they themselves won’t end up sex offenders or better yet, even support others by not falling into the same trappings? Do you understand the very reasoning to any of your emotional responses?

These are some questions to ask yourself which can help you not become a sex offender, not end up re-offending if you are one of the people who unfortunately did commit a sex offense crime, and support an end to sex offense overall. I’m going to continue next blog on how to focus yourself in helping end sex offense.

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Be good, be strong and be safe! Peace!

Conspiracy and sex offense.

2008-01-02T12:55:00.000-05:00

Conspiracy or truth, decide for yourself.

Even when I prefer to keep a better positive outlook on life, I tend to can’t ignore the negative that seems to have to exist. Today I want to focus in on the idea of conspiracy. Personally I hate to even use the word or acknowledge its existence, professionally, I realize it does exist on a slight level and it cannot be ignored. Like all other elements to living life, it can only exist if we allow it to be.

I could boil the argument down to how everything on this planet becomes conspiracy or how current government has help to make it so obvious, but I much rather let those who refuse to play nicely do themselves in and just be victims of their own demise.

It is too easy to see human sexuality being used against humanity. How many people actually are scarred for life compare to those who only claim to be because that is how the law works in their favor? How many people suffer in fear due to inappropriate sex that has happen to them who cannot seek the help they want or need due to societies machine? How many people are being called criminal and did not commit the crime? I’ve heard a lot throughout the years. Some reports are acts of stupidity or ignorance, other reports seem to border on the idea of a psychological terrorist tactic that probably worked. You got news reports which attack Constitutional Rights out of fear of protecting kids, kids themselves ending up sex offenders, and so on and so forth.

Basically this chaos just piles up and becomes almost too impossible to sort through. Here are some simple reminders to keep most chaos from affecting your daily life.

* Human sexuality is individually base. Every one person will have one view about sex. So a couple billion people will indeed have a couple billion points of view. Chaos is inevitable. Worry about your role in it first.

* What holds true for one person does not mean it will hold true for everyone. Abstinence only is one good example. While abstinence until marriage may work for a few people, it creates oppression and difficulties to others. When anyone forces someone else to be what they are not, problems are bound to arise.

* Don’t make mountains out of mole hills. I think there is a Popular Belief out there which make sex worst than what it is. I think some people even become worst off by situations being made worst that what the overall situation may call for. Use logic and reason to sort out what may become a mess. Also ask yourself if your emotions are true emotions, or the emotional band wagon that society wants you to jump on?

* If you want to maintain a good life, it takes effort to do so. Complaining only when things are not working out in your favor will not get you back into living a good maintain life once again. Without focusing on care, forgiveness, and support, things may escalade in being worst before they get better.

* Replace your fear and paranoia with focus, education, and determination.

Let’s say some very evil people out there rely on your emotional outburst to break you down into nothing. It rises up in their favor by other methods. This is why I emphasize replacing fear, hate, and paranoia with focus, education, and determination. Do you want your lack of well being to be someone else’s job security measure of paycheck? Do you want sex to be used against humanity like it seems to be? What do you hate with human sexuality? Do you hate sex itself, or the manipulations, lies, and other factors that lead up to people wanting to have sex?

I could point out conspiracy and even acts of terrorism. Where I probably cannot prove something in the court of law, I rather not even try to. Remember, the conscious is my only weapon here. I rely on people having conscious over lack of conscious. If you pay attention to any news report out there involving sex crimes or such, I think you will witness where the lack of conscious leads.

I’ll focus in next blog type up on how to have a conscious with human sexuality. There can be a positive end to all these bad sexual practices. It still takes effort to do so.

I thank all still for any support you give. Rather directing others to my blogs, clicking on my ads in blogger.com or supporting my own adult advertisement in wordpress.com (18 and over only please, of course). We can cut out a lot of that middle ground nonsense which is fueling this fire to burn out of control.

Until then, please keep being good, being strong, and being safe. May the new year keep being better to all as well. Peace.

Renew your focus and energy this New Year!

2008-01-01T16:04:00.000-05:00

Renew those energies. Out with the old and in with the new!

There is nothing like witnessing the bringing in of the new year to see how united we can be. So here is to a simple s.o.a.p. lesson of today.

If you look into a crowd of thousands of people and try to figure out one aspect of their lives to hate them for, you are exercising the completely wrong mind frame. One thing I do learn over the years is everyone has some problem or goal to over come. No one is without something not fully 100% about them. I would end up with an aneurism trying to figure that out.

I rather know what needs to be known to keep someone from slipping into a negative tailspin and preserve whatever I can to keep any individual out there in a positive direction. So let’s stop feeding into the negative and the weakness of people and start feeding into their strengths and positive talents.

Sex offense if filled with negative mindsets. From the criminal activities to the treatments of those caught. Know what you need to in order to keep yourself and love ones safe. Even from yourselves. Respect the strengths of what someone can bring to the table and help end these problems with a positive constructive reinforcement rather than this negative downward spiral that ends up suckering people into its nasty roll rather than end it.

So may this New Year be better and more prosperous to all. Let those who seek healings find what they need. Let the unanswered questions you all have find answers. Peace and happiness to all!

Be good, be strong and be safe